Spanking Rapid Fire Fast and Furious Whacks

My girlfriend really like the pain of a good spanking. Sometimes she like that "shock and awe" experience with no warm up. She likes be spanked hard enough to cry really hard sometimes after a spanking about once a month. She has such a high pain tolerance though. I have to spank her for a really long time really fast with my office belt or ruler paddle, I think she pretty weird unless there are other girls like her who like the pain of a good long hard spanking like that?

Does anyone else, especially girls like to feel the "shock and awe" feeling from the very start? Do you like the rapid fire fast and furious type spanking or slower ones? And why?

Guys, do you prefer to spank really fast with rapid fire swats? And why?

Do anyone like to give or receive the "shock and awe" rapid fire fast and furious with no warm up? Or the rapid fire ones after a good warm up? And why?

Or does every like both of a mixture of them? If you don't have a choice, which do you usually get the rapid fire fast and furious swats or slow ones?

For us it's always really fast with no pauses in between swats and it has to continue for quite a while to get her to loose her composer and cry hard like she wants. I call her "buns of steel."

I can't take any spanking with fast strokes. It's much better if they are spaced out or done slowly. Too fast is too much pain too quickly.

Some subs relish the idea of a rapid fire spanking while other abhore it, that is why once again I have to emphasize that communication is a must!

Rapid fire spanking is best done with TWO hands or paddles.

That way you can practice your drum rudiments while you spank. 😁 😁 😁

I think paradiddles are fun!

My girlfriend actually got me into it, she really doesn't mind it. She says, it's a adrenaline rush and endorphin release to take a very painful spanking. What I have learn is that not to spank her extremely hard per say, but spank her with medium force swats but rapid fire delivery for longer period of time, is what she likes. The strange thing is, I am getting to enjoy it too. She like long spanking and stingy ones. Not sure if it's wrong or not. She likes spankings that make her cry and wants me to continue to spank her while she is crying, especially when she feels bad about something. Sometimes I'm beginning to think something is wrong with her, but she always thanks me awards. She says she feels closer to me after a good long spanking.

In my opinion you and your girl are completely normal. I can relate to your girl from what you've written, and I have spoken with many other women who enjoy the same kind of practical expression of authority in the relationship, which furthermore can be translated to speak of the love between the two of you.

I don't know if it will help you understand, but I'll try to illustrate through a recent event:

Things have been a little bit rocky at home for a while. We've been under a lot of pressure and not had a lot of rest. Christmas finally arrived and gave room for more rest. I ended up going to bed late several evenings in a row though, working on a dress I wanted to finish before an event I had to attend to. The last night before I was leaving I spent before the sewing machine, and it got late. I had promised to wake him as I got to bed seeing as I would be gone several days. I woke him gently, and hoped he would not check the time, but he always does from habit. He asked me in disbelief if I only just got into bed at 5am, and I told him that I did. (it's not the first time I have, but we've been talking about needing to be more sensible etc). I could hear he wasn't very pleased and I felt ashamed that I had gotten carried away like that. Yet here's what surprised me. We've not incorporated spanking as a punishment years actually, only for pleasure, because I've been worried about whether or not I was a freak. We've been on and off with spanking altogether because of the same reason, and I am the one who brought him into the idea of it all in the first place. That evening though, the moment I affirmed that I had been up until 5am, he bared me and told me that it is beyond "a little late" as I had worded it ("I know, it's a little late"), and spanked me very hard, very long.

Although I was surprised by the spanking, it was a great help and something I needed. I realized, while lying there, that not only had I been inconsiderate that evening, but the other evenings as well. Not only to him, but to me and the kids. I am not the best functioning when I am tired in the morning. He let me know clearly that we are too important for him to allow me to create friction because I don't get the sleep and rest I need. He also let me know I'd get the belt if I stay up too late again, and reined in the time frame. That spoke love to me. It's practical and hands on and exactly what I need. While being on the receiving end, I also realized that a lot of the friction we've had earlier is because of a power struggle between the two of us that I don't really want to have. I told him straight away from the beginning that I want him to be in charge, head of the household, the more traditional way. And he wants the same. During the spanking I realized that I have not been honoring that, and I have not submitted the way I'd like to. After the spanking took place, there is no power struggle, we're both getting our rest, and the harmony is restored to our relationship in a way it hasn't been for a long time.

I hope maybe this can be of help somehow. After years of struggles with my own wants and needs, I have finally come to peace with the fact that sometimes I just need a good spanking, and it makes me feel even more loved and reassures me of his authority and position in our relationship. He's not allowing bad habits to get in our way. Maybe your girl is the same way.. Good luck to you both!

*edit: I forgot to reply to your first post. But I enjoy all the different types of spankings for different reasons. Shock and awe can be fun, or it can really drive a point home. To me I'd have to say that the state of mind I'm in is what would make me cry or not, not necessarily how hard it is (I have a high tolerance as well). If I know that I have let my husband down though, or hurt him in some way, even just a calm telling off, with or without a slap on the rear, would make me cry. If nothing is said and or if it is for fun, I probably won't cry no matter how hard or long the spanking would be.

I think it is normal for some people. I know for myself I built up a pretty high tolerance as a kid. I was spanked pretty hard with belts and hair brushes. By the time I was in my teens I could really take quite beating.

By my late teens I started getting off from getting spanked which changed the whole experience for me. Some of those fast and hard spankings with no break really got me off.

I think spankings are supposed to genuinely hurt. And, I think to get there they generally need to be both hard and long. But in my experience both as giver (frequent) and receiver (infrequent), it takes a warm up to be able to tolerate a hard spanking. Just my experience, but has been my experience for the 30 years or so I've played with hard spankings.

My wife has been spanking me for 45 years. Always with a bath brush, not very often as you describe, the last time was 6 months ago, I am about to beg her to do it again! I don't think I would want what I call a REAL SPANKING like this any more often! I am held in place, by her sitting on my legs, Hard spanks, NO warm up, No way to avoid ANY SPANKS, all I can do is wiggle my ass which invites her so spank the cheek that I raise, as I lower the other cheek! This makes it look like I am raising my ass for the spanking to go on, and on!

Very fast tempo, non stop, no time for me to catch my breath or recover from the last spank, I can only beg her to stop in a low voice, not that she will. I can not even catch my breath to complain loudly, or try to suck my pacifier or thumb for any comfort!

BTW yes I do get horny thinking about and getting spanked. Most of the time my wife gets wet from spanking me. Every time I think about my last rapid, no warm up, held in position, unable to move away from ANY spanks,very fast tempo, hard spanking, I lightly sob, shudder, AND masturbate!

Everyone is right about crying though, for some it’s an emotional condition and some it’s a physical thing. However, I would like to propose it’s preparation, corporation, communication, will power and determination on parts. For me it about mental preparation, determination by both you and my partner. I want to be pushed over the edge about once every other month but I too have a extremely high pain tolerance. In order to get what I fell I need and want, it’s takes a resolve both for me and my boyfriend. It took him over a year to finally get it and to learn how to get me to that point.

I love the age regression but not all the role play. I’m his girlfriend not his daughter and isn’t my daddy. I’m not into being restrained. There’s no sense to force myself into taking something that I’m shouldn’t be will myself into remaining in position and accept. I’m not against him not taking charge some, locking my legs and holding my arm back. But I want to muster the will power to submit to the process. That too is an adrenaline rush and more satisfying to both me and my boyfriend. That’s just us in know everyone is different. But I challenge you consider what I’m about to say give it try.

The preparation is both mental corporation, communication determination for both of you. Once I’ve decided that I want a full blown absolute real age regressive and cathartic sobbing release spanking, I have to willingly give up all my control. This isn’t easy unless you are connected with your partner, for us it’s not about playing anymore, it’s therapeutic but is also cereal. Giving up every bit of control before you start is half the mental battle. It’s a lot easier going into it when I’ve already determine in my heart and mind to give all control over to him. Once you do this it’s easier to allow myself to give in and get that therapeutic cathartic sobbing release I want. It’s scary I know but this translates into complete and unstrained submission to the spanking process. That means no safe word, no swat limit and no time limit. Knowing before we start that I don’t have these controls starts the process. I have to resolve in my heart and know that it’s not going stop until he decides not me. It’s also a commitment and determination on my boyfriend part to make sure he’s going give me the most real and painful spanking he can without holding back. This too is hard for him to do especially because he loves me, but he’s gotten use it when it happens.

The actual spanking is intense and lengthy. I do have a really high pain tolerance and I can relate to MichalC situation with his girl. To make sure we are both in agreement we go over what type of spanking it’s going to while I push everything down to my knees in preparation for going over his knee. I keep everything on to make sure there’s a distinguishing line from anything else. But it is of course on the bare ass, absolutely no protection. Yes, I love this types of spankings too about once every other month or so. My Kevin has gotten pretty good at getting me to that point now. Yes, it means absolutely no warm up and starting right off on a cold bottom. Yes, I ask him to go all in full blown as hard and fast as he possibly can from the very first swat to the very last. Yes, I prefer the shock and awe beginning. It hurts from the beginning but it has too to accomplish our goal. Another thing, we discovered is that the thinner stingy implement are more effective in this case. His choice implement is the flat part of the handle of a bamboo back scratcher from Walmart. This allows him to wail on my backside without breaking. It’s not thick like a big paddle and gives him more control swing it. It’s long and just wide enough to really sting like all get out. It’s not just the intensity that gets me over the edge, it also about duration. He has too commit to keep up that intensity throughout the entire first spanking, until I finally loose my composure. Yes, it takes a pretty dam hard, intense and lengthy paddling to get me crying. But remember we both agreed this would happen before it ever starts. He also agreed that he wouldn’t stop either until I’m crying really hard. Than, I have to laid over the couch and he uses his belt again, until he feels I had enough, no swat limit, safe word or time limit until he feels I had enough not me.

Knowing this before it starts is half the battle lines for a therapeutic cathartic sobbing release I want. It’s preparation, corporation, communication, will power and determination on both our parts. Any thoughts?

Oh and ALL my spankings are with a bath brush, after more than 40 years I still can not believe how much it HURTS! They are done as fore play, ( It makes both of us HOT!) , punishment, and just because she can and wants to!

I do crave the severe punishment / maintenance ones the most probably because I do not get them as often as I want, and need!

Restrained bath brush spankings, VERY hard and VERY fast tempo, NO pause between each spank, NO warm up, NO safe word, No control, with my begging & pleading completely ignored! And each time making me feel like It is my FIRST REAL spanking, & never ever spanked like this before!

When my wife paddles my bare I prefer very fast and hard swats, for me my bottom starts to get semi numb after the first few swats but found that receiving fast rhythmic swat the sting and burn feels great

An old thread bumped up to life, nice… All my real spanking were rapid-fire when I was a lad, and they happened when a boiling point had been reached..

My parents' spankings were pretty fast and furious. A couple of dozen smacks and it would be over in about a minute (except for the pain, of course).

As a gay man, the thought of constant pain and abuse is a major turn on. If I cant get a guy to do it to me, i can actually abuse myself, but

there is nothing better than having other guys doing it to you.