Psychology corner | Let's hear from the really ol…

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Hi Zity people. I am not exactly a newbie anymore, having joined about 4 weeks ago. I am still learning how to navigate this diverse site. I am a 73-year-old mature, sexually active broad in a committed relationship with a 74-year-old gentleman and long-time Zity member. We met on Match.com. What astounds me is the age many of you think is "older." I wince when I see some of you bemoan turning 50, or even 40. I know it's all relative. I would like to hear from the "dinosaurs" here. What are your preferences? How are you accommodating your less agile body? I was once sexually repressed, I must admit, but have become more open minded at this ripe old age. What the Hell? Practice leads to horniness, IMO. Happy to meet you all. No offense to you youngsters, but always eager to hear about the sexuality and sensuality and wisdom of the older set. Everyone gets there eventually.

oldguy262

I'm 67 and prefer to think of my sex life as quality not quantity. Sure we do it less often but enjoy it more. Exploring CFNM, CMNF, mutual masturbation, toys and other activities is fun no matter how old you are.

lyric

I'm 76 and still love when my wife changes my cloth diapers, wipes my pee-pee until it's nice and hard. Been a life long diaper lover, now wear full time, not because I'm IC, but just because I love being able to wear my diapers and rubber pants around the house or when we go out and about. Sex with my wife remains even more fun and arousing when when she plays with me under or over my diapers and rubber pants. Also love to suckle from her lovely nipples, be comforted by her soft breasts and feel like a kid again.

Rigel

Fortunately, I don't consider that I qualify to post here …… yet.

LordJim2

Approaching 77 here and still learning and exploring sexually. Life is for living.

Erwin

I suppose I fit the category since I'm 87 and a half. I'm healthy and don't have to take any medication. I'm active and still involved in fun things. I still have a big interest in things sexual and since Covid hit, masturbation has been my sexual activity. I have always enjoyed self-love along with other kinds, so I am able to be content. I enjoy being naked and would live that way if I lived alone. I do my exercises nude because I enjoy it more that way. I enjoy enemas as much as I always did. I write stories for Zity and enjoy the sexual tension they cause, which always leads to a jack off. Wife and I had a wonderful sex life until the change and then it became painful for her, and we finally gave up and stopped. I enjoy Zity and what other members have to say. It's fun to find out I'm not the only old man who still enjoys all sex in all forms.

Inthelifestyle

So good to see so many mature people on here talking about still having a sex drive.

Im a 43 year old male in the UK who pretty much all my life has been sexually attracted to mature senior women and couples.

I think life ages women perfectly and they only get sexier with age.

The only unfortunate thing is finding mature senior women to chat with and connect with.

Great to see so many lovely mature sexy people

Analfun

Guess I’m one of the older folks approaching 77 but still very active sexually, although mostly solo using enemas and prostate toys and dildos. My wife lost interest after going through cancer treatments which affected her sex drive and lubrication. Prior to that we had an active sex life. Enjoy chatting with others on zity and sharing experiences. PM if you’re interested in chatting or sharing!

Rolf E

So, I guess I qualify at now 84. I am still horny as hell, but can not get hard without a lot of effort as I would like to jerk off a lot more! No married sex last 10 to 15 years. I have found new interest in M2M sex activities after being str8 before.

Rolf E

I should add that I am 5-10 and 160 lbs with no aches and pains and only aspirin and 2 bp pills. I have had a great working career for 56 years and traveled the world since 1968 with over 2 M frequent flyer miles that I abandoned. Now It would be nice to have a sexual relationship with a friend.

boomerguy

Over the 70 line so I guess we qualify. Intercourse is not an option anymore due to age related female issues. However, although we don't fuck like rabbits anymore we have a good sex life. There are so many ways for both to achieve orgasms and just have fun.

Yes a good stiffie needs a little help. Ask your doctor for a sildentfil citrate prescription (generic Viagra) a refill cost me $26 for 180! 1 to 3 pills does the trick.