Going in dry

I just do not understand why some males will want to go in dry?

And why some females will let a man do it unless a few like pain?

And how can you not know what is happening unless into bondage and the female is tied down or something like that.

For me it is plenty of vaseline or KY for the most part and let's enjoy one of G-d's gifts to us as it is meant to be………………………………………..

My wife gets turned on and ready when she gives me an oral tune up before sex, vaginal or anal. She never needs any lube for either.

I can't imagine letting a man tried to penetrate my anus without adequate pre-lubrication. My husband and I have anal intercourse a couple of times a month. I always insert a large applicator with KY lubricant after my last clean out enema. Most of the time, I insert a retention butt plug to keep me stretched out and ready for him. Before we get down to it, my husband fills an additional applicator of lubricant that we keep right by the bed so it's ready for immediate use when the time comes. When I get excited enough during foreplay, I remove my butt plug and insert the additional lubricant in my anus. That's largely our nonverbal way of communicating that I am ready for penetration.

Dita

I don't mind a finger playfully exploring my anus dry for a bit. Sometimes I will wake up and just have the urge to start touch and probing abit without lube.

i also do fantasize about what it would feel like taking it dry, and will sometimes use minimum lube (as i did this morning), just to have the feeling for a bit.

But the reality is, i want to enjoy it, and don't need/want the pain of not.

So most of the action for me is with lube.

Lube for anal sex. au naturelle. For as long as I can remember (now in my 80s) nothing beats saliva. Always started with a good rimming and slowly sucking on that lovely Bum hole, before letting my tongue go in as far as I could, and by that time there was plenty of natural saliva, and the soon to be fucked anus was now very wet.

Of course the plus for me is the natural “man taste” no Vaseline or the like.

Then after having the Sub suck my already stiff cock to lube it a little, then just before “going in” I’d drop a mouthful of spit onto my cock, and allowing for the possible natural pain as the head of my cock opens him up’ an otherwise smooth and erotic full insertion and a great fuck for us both and finally letting him have ALL that I’ve got, until it oozes out.

My first wife loved anal sex. Typically it involved a lot of foreplay and lube. Generally I would not even think of inserting my cock until I could comfortably insert 3 fingers. But one time, she was mildly intoxicated, we were having vaginal sex and she said put it in my ass. I started to get up to get the line and she said no, just shove it in my ass. She was laying on her back, I spread her a little wider and with a little force I was in, she really enjoyed it as did it. Was the one and only time we did that.

As I pointed out a year ago I would never dream of penetrating a woman anally unless she were very relaxed & with lots of lube but I did just smile thinking about some woman who allegedly said "I said wrong hole! I didn't say 'stop'!" OK I'm a sad fucker but it made me chuckle.

I know and understand the correlation between pleasure and pain.

But. That’s a different hurt, and one that would come with days of worry after.

No thanks.

Well not dry but she was extremely wet and horny and wanted it now not waiting for lube. Really wet and pussy juice was enough!

I love anal with my Husband. He starts in my minou for some lubrication then straight up my bottom, other times oral first then anal.

If it takes too much push He gives me a dab of lube.

Strapons need to be lubed to go in nicely. They hurt in a bad way otherwise. No no to un-lubed toys.

Anal sex should always, repeat always, be lubed. Toys or peckers, doesn't matter. Lube it.

Anal sex should always, repeat always, be lubed. Toys or peckers, doesn't matter. Lube it.

In my experience - it really depends on how well recipient is versed in receiving anal penetration. Someone who plugs regularly and has often anal sex, can pretty much relax at will enough to allow for insertion with minimal lube, such as spit or vaginal fluids, or even completely unlubed. Some discomfort - possibly - and that might be the magic of the moment, but surely no pain or damage for an anally "active" and experienced person and reasonably sized penis/object to be inserted.