Enemas and Embarassment

I love the feelings of submission and embarrassment and humiliation while getting an enema from a real partner or fantasy Domme, especially accentuated by being forced to take it very restrained wearing rubber clothes and sneakers. I'm very vocal about about my feelings and struggling which I also appreciate if we're switched and I'm playing the Dom sometimes. The more interaction the better the feelings. Large or very large fillings and long retentions also accentuate the delightful embarrassment. The more I can show her I'm struggling to do what she wants from me the better the enema and the orgasms. Delightful way to spend part of a day. Perhaps obviously, I enjoy sharing my desire for and enjoyment of enemas with my partner. She loves enjoying my embarrassment since she knows I love her doing it to me.

Eric

Yes embarassment was always a strong part of it growing up for me, being totally naked and exposed for mother to see everything. It only became more intense when my aunt or even my older female cousin saw me. I still get nervous and apprehensive at enema time, but that only brings back the feelings i had growing up

Embarrassment was certainly the driving force behind the dread when getting an enema while growing up, but I was usually more or less accepting of the situation most of the time. I was maybe even moreso embarrassed by the nearly every evening reminders to go to the bathroom.

Mom was fairly discreet though at least around people who were not members of the immediate family. My sister, aunt and grandma, maybe a couple other relatives all knew about my "bathroom problems," and bathroom reminders were rather nonchalantly made if they were around. It really wasn't a secret when I needed an enema either.

However around non family members she did seem to show more regard for modesty; although I always held some fear that she might slip up and remind me to "make a poopy" or something around other people (or get overheard doing so), to my knowledge it never happened. I did overhear my sister tell an overnight friend of hers once when we were all quite young, that I might need an enema while I sitting on the toilet one night because I think her friend had needed to use the bathroom.

In my 20's I was TERRIBLY embarrassed when I started buying Fleet enemas for myself... That, in turn led me to make the EXTREMELY embarrassing purchase of my first enema bag. I felt extremely embarrassed giving myself a Fleet enema for the first time (by myself) and totally in awe of my own embarrassment the first times that I had to give myself an enema with that bag because I had stopped buying disposables. No way in hell would I have told ANYONE, ESPECIALLY any family members, that I had needed an enema.

I'm still too embarrassed to tell any surviving family members that I never completely got past needing at least an occasional enema over the years, although they'd probably be interested to know, especially my mom lol. Ironically, I'd be far less embarrassed now than I have ever been in my life to admit to or discuss enema usage among NON family members, provided of course that I was reasonably sure that they were like minded, sympathetic, or just plain didn't give a damn.

The embarrassment adds a lot to the enema, it is one reason it is much better to do with a partner. Taking and releasing an enema is one of the most embarrassing things you can do I think

Yes, I can't get aroused unless it's edgy & humiliating. Most of my humiliation fantasies are with me in the role of the naked person being objectified by clkthed/uniformed authority figures. Passively endurung the procedure & then being placed on a potty to expell, while my mistresses & masters gawk a me & smirk, is my idea of hog heaven.

One aspect of enemas that's a turn off is the odor. Even while acting out my fantasies alone & self administering, as I expell I ask myself "who would want to be present for this?" It has a deflating & chilling effect on all the fun. At the blink of an eye it all goes from delightfully kinky to downright dirty

I've never had a real encounter in which I've recieved an enema from someone & most likely won't. But I'm shocked when reading how active other people do enemas socially.

I don't know of any cheap, scented products that can be added to the enema water, but it seems there must be. I vaguely remember lyrics to a Cole Porter tune about a cherry colonic

@KinkynBare said

One aspect of enemas that are a turn off is the odor. Even iwhile actung out my fantasies alone & self adminnistering the enemas, as I expell I ask myself "who would want to be present for this?" It has a deflating & chilling effect on all the fun. At the blink of an eye it all goes from delightfully kinky to downright dirty

I've never had a real encounter in which I've recieved an enema from someone & most likely won't. But I'm shocked (when reading on this site or others) at how active people are doing enemas.

The smell from enema expulsion really ISN'T a big deal. Everybody's shit smells. Do you hold back in a public bathroom? Are you afraid to fart because others will know the noise or smell came from you?

Just shit it out.

If you fart, piss and shit loudly and proudly, YOU are the winner and the shy ones left waiting in the bathroom for the "right time" to go are the losers. The same goes for expelling enemas. I bet most Dom(me)s are so tight assed, they couldn't squeeze out a good shit in front of their submissive.

Yuk Susie! Guess I'm too prissy & refined for my own good. I can't even learn to like the smell of my own farts. But then again, I can't even afford a Prius

You don't have to like the smell of your own farts. Just fart. It's yours. If you do it in a bathroom or as a sub in a scene, if other people don't like it, that's their problem.

Not being able to excrete in front of others has nothing to do with refinement. It's about having control over one's own body.

A former girlfriend and I would role-play being embarrassed during our enema sessions to erotically enhance the experience. I would be embarrassed over my uncontrollable erection during the enema and she would stroke it, telling me not to be embarrassed, that it's perfectly normal, and that sometimes a high enema will trigger an ejaculation (always worked for me). Her role-play would involve being embarrassed to tell me she was constipated and needed relief, and I would convince her that a thorough enema was necessary. Many variations. All crazy klismo fun.

I can't even learn to like the smell of my own farts. But then again, I can't even afford a Prius

You should learn to enjoy your farts! Seinfeld did an standup about people secretly 'enjoying' their farts bu I couldn't find it on youtube. - The following is close second:

https://video.search.yahoo.com/yhs/search?fr=yhs-Lkry-SF01&hsimp=yhs-SF01&hspart=Lkry&p=seinfeld+smeeling+your+fart#id=1&vid=e3f3b64986241147fa005d21df31db2b&action=click

Wonder of wonders, I can't smell anything...and I've also lost my sense of taste. (Food satisfactions come about by 'memory-taste'. --and who wants a Prius? Jeeze…….

the boxcar

As I've written before, I adore the consensual embarrassment of being given a large long enema by a real partner or fantasy Domme. Participating in the intense moaning, groaning, complaining and begging for leniency while acting submissive and embarrassed with her is extremely erotic. But in reality, if I was discovered by someone else or had my enema kink outed to others, it would be very embarrassing for real and very unpleasant and NOT erotic. In fact, during Domme enemas, part of the role play consists of "making deals" with my Domme that while I'm struggling and submissive at her hands, I'd submit to do even more for her (another enema, more water, more time, more rubber, more chores, etc.) in order to avoid her taking pictures or video of me during my enforced enema and showing them to others. It's great stimulation and eroticism.

For example, if she had me complaining about how full and distended I was at 4 quarts and begging for no more water, she might say that she really wanted to video me struggling and the only way she wouldn't is if I agreed to evacuate and take another even bigger enema right after it! Of course I'd whine and beg, but also agree and then humiliatingly politely ask her for my next 5q enema so she wouldn't make an incriminating video. More "embarrassment" to avoid real external embarrassment.

Eric

. --and who wants a Prius? Jeeze…….

the boxcar

I am referencing a South Park episode in which people with electric cars are causing "smug pollution". They're so smug about doing more to diminish air pollution than the rest of us, they love the smell of their own farts.

Yes embarasment is a strong part of it for me. Being stripped totally naked before i would be taken by the hand to the bathroom was always made me feel that way. And her totally clothed and very much in charge only made me feel more compliant and submissive

Yes embarasment is a strong part of it for me. Being stripped totally naked before i would be taken by the hand to the bathroom was always made me feel that way. And her totally clothed and very much in charge only made me feel more compliant and submissive

By whom, your mother? What you describe is precisely my cup of tea! Did you become sexually aroused?

I don't have much useful experience in enemas with others.

So if I do eventually get with an emate, I'll try to let myself be embarrassed by absolutely everything for the first fill & release cycle - just to get it all out of the way (figuratively and literally).

Then in time for the second fill, I'll enjoy absolutely everything.

I think the embarassment factor is cute and love it when I get a blush when I walk in with a full bag. Very exciting!

I have had many enemas that have embarassed me before. I do like them, but not every single time I get them or take them.

We have always taken enemas .but once my wife started fem me enemas became a tool for her feminizing me .in the early start of my feminine training I would be kept locked in my chastity cage for weeks at a time a slight breez would get me aroused .she started slowly chastity training and wear panties like I said earlier we have been taking enemas since we have been married my wife would see how aroused I would get taking my enema I would swell in my cage she would tell me look what gets you hard taking a douche like a girl this would make me feel so humiliating and Embarrassed she would use this to make me understand how feminine I was becoming

I have a pot of experience with my newbies showing a lot of embarrassment during the first few enemas. For many it is the first time someone has concentrated on their asshole instead of just trying to fuck it.

I do not get embarrassed much as I love enemas so much. There have been a couple of times, but usually with a cruel mistress.

Just reading through these postings makes me all the more determined to keep these things private!!