Do you prefer to be given enemas or to take them yourself?

I’ve always enjoyed receiving enemas from various female friends—my wives, girlfriends, friendly nurses. It’s much better than flailing away by myself. But until I had one from @Iris1858 I had no idea how exquisite and intimate they could be. Hers are the best because she understands how it feels. Today she plotted the whole thing with competence and craftiness. Rectal temp, three glycerin suppositories and the main event. Yum! Hats off to you, Babe

I prefer to receive large hot soapy enemas from mature women and men.

As soon as she arrived on the site, I congratulated @Iris1858 by telling her that she is truly one of us. She is a gift for Zity and even more so for you @liquidsky who entrust your waves of pleasure to her! Your avatar clearly shows a huge wave of pleasure.

I have given enemas to myself but I prefer someone else give them to me

Thank you @clyso ! You are so kind. You are right on all counts…

I've only had two enemies given to me by two different people.

The first one was from my mother I was approximately 8 years old with an intestinal blockage, she cleaned everything out and within minutes later my problems were all Gone.....

the second time was through a Barium enema that was prescribed to me by my doctor.

there was no sexual pleasure whatsoever in either one of them.

I've given myself enemas Countless times throughout the years...... sometimes two or three times a week.

To let someone give me an enema other than a medical professional for a medical reasons I'd have to know that person really well.

And it would only be a woman or women.

I know I'd really like it and I would really enjoy it to receive an enema from a partner, then I would do her too

I would prefer to give and receive enemas with an friend who enjoys enemas as I do.

As my handle suggests, I absolutely love taking enemas, but my wife does not approve. She thinks it's disgusting, and while I would love to get her involved in giving them to me, and me giving them to her, it's not worth the fight. So I do them in secret, frequently in hotels while I travel for work.

I like to give and receive.

It's a solo activity for me. However,

I'd love to have a lady administer a good soapy two quarts via a feminine bulb syringe.

Hard to do by yourself without making a mess, but the insertions and pulsing are a turn-on.

Love both!

My fantasy is to be restrained in stirups and have a very cold enema with double balloons forced by a nurse. Then she puts a large plugs till i explode. Im still dreaming

Response to the question: YES. Add to that, giving enemas.

To answer the question I have given myself an enema only a couple of times, however, my wife has given me many and it is always an awesome occasion.

My definite first preference is to receive an unhurried enema from a mature woman who also enjoys receiving as much as she enjoys giving. I’ve been fortunate to enjoy a few wonderful female enemates in past years, but not so much at the present. One was strictly into enemas for health reasons and we did not, despite lots of nudity and touching, engage in sexual behavior. The other three were into lots of experimentation, along with enemas we traded sensual massage, erotic shaving sessions, a couple of visits to a Las Vegas swinger club—ah those were some good times!

I much prefer to be given. Laying back, relaxing and completely under the ministrations of a enthusiastic and knowledgeable giver for me there's nothing like it.

It depends on who I am with.

I just would not enjoy giving myself an enema. I would want a “mommy” to make me her little boy. Enemas are secret and shared.

I Prefer to give an enema over receiving. If necessary to receive one I don't have a problem getting it from a friend or my wife , but whome ever the giver is, it must be a female.

I much prefer to be given an enema than take it solo; perhaps it stems from getting them growing up, being able to just relax and be centre of attention with all the feelings I experienced as belly filled.

I would say when it comes to those I have given to, they feel the same asking for enema rather than taking solo.

Io sono estremamente sfortunato. Ho provato in tutti i modi a conoscere qualche signora qui da me in italia che fosse amante di fare o ricevere clisteri, ma niente di niente!

From a like minded its no problem. If he or she themselves are a fan of erotik Enema. Makes it all more fun to share.

Two night ago I received ( was administered )three enemas. One with a colon tube while on my back, legs up in the air. The next given

In the knee chest position with a 7” nozzle. Finally still in K-C position she administered the residual solution ( Tumeric)* via a fleet bottle.

I much prefer to have the enemas given to me by someone. All I have to do is be in any number of positions while I’m getting it up the ass!

* A word of caution. If you use powdered Tumeric mixed with water be aware- it has an ability to stain the appliances used for the enemas and they will need thorough cleaning.

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About 10 years ago, I gave my wife around seven enemas over a two-week period, an enema every other night. With all my reading on Zity, I will humbly say that I was very good at giving my wife her enemas. I carefully and lovingly and lustfully lubed her rosebud with my lubricated finger and gently slid the colon tube in and slowly introduced the warm water into her waiting rectum.

At the end of the two weeks, I thought it would be nice to have my wife give me an enema and she did. However, not having read anything on Zity about how how to give an enema and not having paid much attention to how expertly and gently I administered her enemas and being in a bit of a hurry, my wife quickly stabbed the colon tube into my rectum, and the subsequent pain, along with the speed at which she did everything, put a little damper on the rest of the enema.

In addition to these eight enemas, I have given myself many hundreds of enemas over the last 55 years.

And the winner is: I prefer giving myself an enema rather having my wife give me an enema, although that might change if I first give her a little how-to-give-an-enema training.

The thread did not ask how we feel about giving an enema to someone else. I would say that giving my wife seven enemas in two weeks was very erotic and stimulating. I thoroughly enjoyed the entire process, every minute of it, especially the view, the lubing of her anus and rectum, and the intimate connection with my wife.

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I would much prefer that a woman gives to me. My wife is not interested in enemas, so…

I definitely prefer being given one by a woman, but unfortunately haven't had many opportunities with a willing partner. When I did get the opportunity, it was wonderful, of course.

The best enemas are the ones my wife gives me. Just as, for her, they're the ones I give her. Neither of us are dominant, and neither of us are submissive. We're simply two people trying to please each other.