What have you been asked to do in bed that suprised you?

I remember for example that one boyfriend I had insisted that I keep my socks on during sex while I was otherwise completly naked. He even bought me a pair of pink Burlinghton socks. What have you been surprised with?

One day my wife suggested tying me to the bed.

You liked it Pecan? I tried that one as well. We used silk scarfes because I did not wanted my wrists and ankles to hurt. I found it very arousing I have to admit.

Silk scarves are for when you want to THINK you are restrained, but aren't.

If you don't want your wrists or ankles to hurt, DON'T PULL ON THE RESTRAINTS. Lie there and take it!

Use leather wrist and ankle straps that have a little padding but not too much because if too padded or too loose, you will be able to pull your wrists or ankles through.

2nd date, don't think I even knew her last name yet, went home to her place, completely naked eventually. And as I was still getting over the shock of how quickly our clothes came off, she reached under the bed, pulled out a slender smooth white vibrator, handed it to me, and with a smile I will never forget said - I want you to put this in my ass.

MelanieK: We did not do it - I did not show enthusiasm and it involved buying stuff we did not have. (Yes, I know, I'm boring.)

Actually, I like my wife to wear a sexy bra and thigh highs in bed. If it's cool, then maybe a babydoll over the bra. She likes the thigh highs because they keep her feet warm.

Douche, I like how you think! I'm impressed with men who appreciate the eroticism of a woman wearing sexy baby doll lingerie over a pretty bra during sex. I would be quite disappointed with a man who said, "Get naked and let's fuck."

As far as surprising requests in bed, I'm usually the one with the unexpected suggestions for my partner.

Sally,

What are a few of those suggestions for your lover? I'm also usually the one asking for "unusual" things!

Eric

My ex boyfriend once insisted to wear jewellery during sex especially a necklace. So I wore it, didn't do anything for me but he was happy lol and I was surprised 😜

Good thread, MelanieK

Hi Susie from your post # 4,

The "Restraint thing!!" Back when I was working with this Aerospace Company on this Ejection seat program we had a Day and a swing shift working as we had a lot of seats to get out.... When ya' work around "Parachutes" especially in the Military end.......people come around with "Strange requests" for you to construct some "Thing" for them... My buddy "Joe" was working the "swing shift" one night and he related to me the story of some dude that came in the shop late one night and wanted him to sew some velcro to some pieces of Type VIII webbing "Could have used Type XII but that's another story!!" Any way, Joe kept pressuring the guy as to what he was going to do with this "Project" ..Joe said he finally rangled out of the guy that he convinced his wife to let him "restrain her to the bed when they have sex!!!!" Yup!!!! leave it to a Parachute Rigger to get "Kinky!!!!" Speaking of which there was this "Girl Rigger" who usedta' (she still may) make restraints (FOR SALE!!!) and called them "Kathy's Kuffs!!!!" I had a Lady Skydiver friend who said she got a set and one night "restrained" her Boyfriend!! She said they worked really Good!! The more he fought them the more he was Restrained!!!! Ya' Gotta' Love it!!

Are we having Fun Yet???

With a "Click!!!!!,"

highwater

To me, helping my lady to remove her clothing, during the foreplay part of a sexual encounter, is an absolutely erotic part of the "turn-on" process, towards helping each-other to reach the best, possible climaxes for each!! 😉 Mike.

Today not much would surprise me and I've learned everyone has some sort of secret kink. Though I think the only time I was truly surprised was with a girlfriend who I thought wasn't into any sort of kinks yelled out "hurt me!" During sex.

Almost nothing surprises me these days, if you watch TV or use the internet its all there. One thing I remember from my earlier days happened with a woman on our first date. I never expected that she was a first date sex person, buts that's where we ended up. After a few minutes of making out she asked me to talk dirty to her. I said what would you like? She said "you know, tell me what a dirty slut I am, stuff like that. Just use your imagination". I did my best and she seemed pleased. First and only time I've been asked to do that.

Some years ago when I used to do some escort work, the agency rang me for an overnight hotel booking with a client.

The booking also came with a request for my bra, underwear, and hosiery size.

I supplied all the details, and arrived at the hotel lobby to meet my client at 16.30 hours as arranged.

My client was waiting to meet me as I arrived, a very smartly dressed, middle aged business man.

He led me straight to the lift and up to the hotel room.

Once inside he went to his briefcase and handed me a matching bra and thong, with two pairs of tights.

He requested that I get dressed in the new underwear and tights, and I was not to remove them until after breakfast the following morning when we checked out of the hotel. The other pair of tights were a spare pair incase I snagged or laddered the ones I was wearing.

My own underwear he placed on a table in the room.

We went for dinner, to a theatre and then onto a nightclub, before we returned to the hotel in the early hours of the morning.

At no point did he want any kind of sexual activity, all he requested was that I joined him in bed whilst still wearing the underwear and tights.

His hands and feet were constantly touching my body, but that was all he wanted.

The following morning I was allowed to wash my hands, face and hair, but still whilst wearing the underwear and hosiery.

We had breakfast and returned to the room. Only then was I allowed to remove the garments and get dressed again in my own clothing.

I had about 5 or 6 similar bookings from the same client, and every time the request was the same.

A really lovely man, but always the same bizarre format for each booking.

After screwing up during my freshman year in college, my dad insisted I take 2 courses during the summer at a local junior college to make up the lost credits. If this wasn't a lousy enough way to spend the summer for an 18 year old, he told me I couldn't drive the car to classes but would have to take the commuter train. Ugh! About the 3rd day of classes as I was waiting for the train to arrive for my trip home, a young gal appeared. She started a conversation with me. She was a nursing student at a local hospital and was taking the train home, as well. As this was roughly a 1 p.m. train, the train cars were almost empty. She got on the train and I followed. I sat down in one of the 1st seats I came to. She had walked ahead, turned around, saw me sitting, and came back and sat beside me. By the time she got off at her stop, I had her name, number and address with an invite to call her any time. I was dating a gal at the time and didn't figure I'd ever see the "nurse" again. As luck would have it, my girlfriend and I had the obligatory teenage spat on our Friday night date and I dropped her at home about 10 p.m. I decided to make the drive to the nurse's apartment and arrived about 10:30 p.m. That night was the first time I ever received a bj. I spent the entire summer going to her apartment on Friday and Saturday nights after dropping my girlfriend off. All this gal wanted to do was give me blow jobs. I got to finger her; but, we never coupled. That wasn't her game plan. She liked sucking and swallowing. I have to assume there were other guys benefitting from her desires as well.

I had about 5 or 6 similar bookings from the same client, and every time the request was the same.

A really lovely man, but always the same bizarre format for each booking.

Sounds like someone who knew exactly want he wanted and stuck to his game plan. Admirable and very much the gentleman.

Yes, you are right Agracier This man was always very polite and always very charming. One of the best clients I ever had a booking with. I always enjoyed my time spent in his company, however, it was just a strange request and not the sort of request I was used to, or expected at the time

Well years back I was only 18 or 19 and living with this couple who let me rent a room at their house and I got to be real good friends with them they were in their mid 20s,, well I got to be real close with Tammy as her husband was mean when he was drinking which was most of the time, so we would always confide in each other which got us into the bedroom one night, well I haven't had sex in over a year as I was in the military and hadn't been home to see my girlfriend in over a year, well the feeling was so great I didn't last long and came in her within a minute or two, I told her sorry,, then she whispered in my ear to eat her, I had to ask her again, and she told me to go ahead and eat her,, even though I was very embarrassed but also still very horny I did, and we both ended up enjoying it very much, but I do admit I never did do I again, only because no other girl ever asked me too,.

Not me but a 'female friend' shall we say told me her ex had a 'thing' for old school Converse Chuck Taylor sneakers. Both her and him in them, and nothing else. Bizarre.

At the time it was my hubby before we married. We were showering together and he peed on me not my legs but my pussy. I was so startled then I realized I liked it

Not me but a 'female friend' shall we say told me her ex had a 'thing' for old school Converse Chuck Taylor sneakers. Both her and him in them, and nothing else. Bizarre.

Talk about reviving a dormant thread. Not so bizarre. I won't go into detail but from personal experience I'll say this guy making this request about similar shoes is very plausibly real. Yes, as many here recognize, I've written about my sneaker fetish before. Aren't people's passions and kinks fascinating? PM me if intrigued. Two lovers both in Converse - lovely sexy thought.

EDIT: In fact, come to think of it, I've seen a number of commercial photos of just a couple's feet, dressed only in brand name sneakers, most often Converse. The obvious (smaller) female is on tiptoe facing the male, sometimes with the toes of her sneakers on his toes. It's actually a very cute image. I wonder how many other men/couples find the idea of making love in nothing but sneakers to be highly appealing? Aside from me, that is. But most here already know that I have (perhaps uniquely in Zity) a powerful sneaker fetish.

Eric

Not me but a 'female friend' shall we say told me her ex had a 'thing' for old school Converse Chuck Taylor sneakers. Both her and him in them, and nothing else. Bizarre.

Which reminds me of a surprise from my ex-wife #2. After marriage and previous months of detailing all my kinks to her and enjoying them together, she suddenly told me her deepest sexual secret was that she wanted me to give her enemas to help give her orgasms. She apparently could never tell her first husband. I was happy to oblige as she had already been doing the same to me for months. Incidentally, we'd always enjoy giving each other our enemas and orgasms in sneakers which just added to the arousal and fun.

Later on, in addition to her enemas, she wrote me an email detailing how she desperately wanted to be completely sexually submissive to me. This was very nice to hear, but a bit surprising as I had been spending a great deal of time in bed with her for months being submissive to her, especially letting her dress me in complete latex rubber and thick sneakers and give me large prolonged enemas in a totally submissive role which I loved.

Eric

I had a guy who was into sucking my toes. Didn’t do anything for me but I was happy to let him. I don’t think it’s odd per se, just maybe the only time someone suggested something kinky that I wasn’t into myself that I was will to indulge?

Lest I sound like a prude, I have few hard limits. Scat, pee, anything that causes permanent damage or involves animals or kids. There are plenty of things I’m not INTO but I wouldn’t object to if a lover wanted to do them. There’s a difference to my mind. The toe sucking was the oddest thing I was asked to do that I didn’t go, “ooo that sounds fun!”

I met a woman who wanted to be mounted from behind and bitten on the shoulder. I don't mean a nibble or even a mildly painfull bite but she screamed at me to bite harder. Very uncomfortable for me but it was very very good for her.

NOTHING I have been asked to do in bed surprises me.

Chances are close to 100% I'll do whatever they ask with a trusted partner.

I’ve lived pretty vanilla except for a threesome and being asked to suck toes by a partner.

I think in the moment, and with the right partner very little seems weird.

To be honest, my husband seems to go thru stages of what he wants. I have been nude, us playing around and getting ready to have at it when he would ask me to go put a bra on.

Oh well.

So agasmic,

Not me but a 'female friend' shall we say told me her ex had a 'thing' for old school Converse Chuck Taylor sneakers. Both her and him in them, and nothing else. Bizarre.

Did you ever find out from this girl friend whether she ever obliged her then-BF and made love to him with both of them wearing only Converse sneakers?

Eric

Susie,

You've explained before here about way back when requiring your (later in life) husband to let you give him an enema before making love to you. How surprising was that to him then? I gather the answer is no, but did your husband ever make any requests that surprised you? Or did you surprise him with any other ones later on?

Eric