Is pooping your diaper really worth the cleanup? I'm torn

Yes... it's worth the cleanup... I can tell you that.

I'm a Daddy type who has been into the Wetting and Messing Fetish for almost 60 years now... and I don't mind changing a wet and messy diaper on a female of any age... the sight, STINK, sound of the event is interesting to say the least and largely keeps my attention focused on loving and caring for the female I am with.

For those thinking about the cleanup... its a time between two people (myself and the available female) where we can both relax without a judgement of the other... its a space... like subspace... where time stands still in a sense and all the emotions between two people can be shared.

Something I learned decades ago... when it comes to a fetish like this... diaper wearing and wetting and messing in it.... experiencing it ALONE is a poor substitute for the real thing... that communication between a partner and oneself... I think the writer could be torn between the feelings of engaging in a taboo (the pooping in the diaper) and the actual cleanup.... to solve this find a partner that is open to explore this with you in a nonjudgmental environment that is safe which will allow you the time to enjoy the full experience... of all your senses... then in the sharing... the cleanup and the stink and doing the laundry and all that becomes a secondary thing... and is actually enjoyable.

Such some advise from a guy in search of a dirty female diaper wearer to change in the Long Island/NYC AREA.

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Namaste,

Richie

LascivciousEyes@hotmail.com

I forgot to mention... there are many different bubble bath products... body washes... skin cleansers with beautiful aromas that not only leave your body smelling nice but your skin feeling soft and clean... you should try some of these.

My mom recently passed on at age 91 so I have many different bath washes she rarely used so I have been testing them out. What they (the help) at hospitals, old age centers, doctors offices have available to mask any smell and leave a persons skin soft and beautiful is amazing.

Be well. Be safe.

And remember THE SUN IS ALWAYS SHINING BEHIND THE CLOUDS.

Namaste,

Richie

LasciviousEyes@hotmail.com

I 100% sympathize and empathize here. When I was younger, with makeshift diapers, and even with real ones that fit, I would build up the excitement, and then have it kinda ruined y the tedious and hard clean-up. It was nearly enough to get me to stop all together, but I loved doing it, and if you do it right, you shouldn't have to stop. So the obvious question is disposable or cloth here? I only use disposable diapers, as cloth just does not feel the same for me. If you use disposable, obviously there's much less hassle of clean-up, other than perhaps yourself. If you use cloth, then there are going to be a few more steps to finish the process. For me, If I know I'm going to poop my diaper without help, say of an enema or whatever I just let go, and enjoy it as I do. If I'm doing an enema, of course I always do it in the bathroom, usually near the tub, and I release once I've pulled the diaper up from the enema in the tub as well, so no leaks on the floor. Once I'm finished, with or without enema I make my way to the tub if I wasn't there already. I remove my diaper, and get all the chunks if there are any in the diaper and off my skin. I have a big green plastic bucket that I place the soiled diaper in beside the tub. Drop the dirty diaper in there and place to the side. I have a detachable hose on my shower head. Get the water to a safe and comfortable temperature first, and then use the detachable shower head to get in close around all the nooks and crannies. Butt, crack, genitals etc. Then just soap around, repeat with the shower head and your all done. All you need to do is towel off, get dressed and throw the diaper away, or place the diaper if you use cloth in the machine and wash it.

Isn't it amazing how closed-minded some people are? I was reading some posts on how some people enjoy pooping themselves. As an old member (Mashie) said, she couldn't imagine why someone would ever do this? She also pointed out she loves injections. This is clearly someone who has no friggin clue. Because pooping is not her thing, but injections are, then pooping is incomprehensible to her. At my current age I no longer practice pooping in my diapers, or anywhere else (other than the toilet). But that doesn't mean I don't get it. Who am I to judge others? Oh, and I find injections repulsive, but I don't judge others here on that. Just because I don't enjoy that doesn't mean I don't respect it. To each their own. When I was a teen I used to love pooping myself and masturbating with it. Now? Hell no. The smell is a huge turnoff. But to those who still do, and play with it, have fun! I wish people would stop imposing their values on others. You wanna poop yourself? Go for it. Enjoy it. I don't have to engage in it with you. But I'm not going to condemn you either.

Isn't it amazing how closed-minded some people are? I was reading some posts on how some people enjoy pooping themselves. As an old member (Mashie) said, she couldn't imagine why someone would ever do this? She also pointed out she loves injections. This is clearly someone who has no friggin clue. Because pooping is not her thing, but injections are, then pooping is incomprehensible to her.

Have you read Mashie's entire post, @bambam87? You said of her that she's clearly someone who has no friggin clue, yet she showed a willingness to understand this kink when she said "Can someone please explain it to me? I want to understand this." She wanted to understand, she showed openness and curiosity, qualities a whole freaking lot of people here specifically and in the world in general lack more often than not. Do you understand everything about everything and everyone in the universe?

Oh and by the way, Mashie passed away.

Then Mashie should have read the posts dating back to 2016. Plenty of explanations there. Beside, it's not likely something like Mashie would subsequently understand anyway given their response and the complexity of the fetish. Therefore your point is non sequitur. And apparently Mashie no longer needs to think about it anyway. Bye bye.

I've enjoyed messing in my diapers since I was in my 20's. I was diapered nightly by my mom until I was 17 because I wet my bed, but I never had the desire, interest or even thought about messing. I loved when my mom diapered me, I masturbated daily when I was in my diapers and I guess that was all I was interested in-wetting and playing with myself in diapers. I stopped wetting my bed on my mothers insistence before going to college, but I was still able to wear diapers and rubber pants and wet and play with myself when home for holidays because she knew how much I liked to wear diapers. So while diapers were never far from my mind, I knew I could wear them when home, even if it was for only a few days. However, once I finished college and grad school, left home for good, began my career, I stayed away from wearing diapers for some time until I couldn't stand it and would secretly wear diapers and rubber pants for a few hours or a day when I could get away with it. For some reason the first time I did it, now in my late 20's, I immediately felt the urge and desire to not only wet but poop in my diapers. I did mess my diapers 2-3 times when I was a kid/teen, but it was always accidental and I felt so ashamed and embarrassed especially since all my family knew what happened and my mom had to clean me up and change me. So there I was, a young successful professional, alone in my apartment wearing just my cloth diapers and rubber pants and t-shirt, squatting and letting a huge pooh out into my diapers and then filling them with my potty. I very quickly got fully erect, more aroused and turned on then I had ever been, and all I wanted to do was sit in my messy diapers, feel my mess squish all around, walk around in my huge wet mess, and I just feel like a naughty 4 year old. Unable to stop touching myself and getting more and more excited, I finally came. And then I had to clean myself, which I did fairly easily by unpinning my diapers, emptying the contents in my toilet, showering all the poop off me. For the next few decades, I repeated this experience, finding that messing my diapers was so much more exciting than just wetting. Overtime I became more adventurous, would wet and mess myself away from home, especially when out to adult theaters and sitting in my messy diaper for several hours. I often felt disgusted with myself after these occasions, berated myself for being so disgusting and dirty, but always did it again months later. While cleanup is more than a little disgusting and unpleasant, it was never bad enough to cause me to stop. I did learn early on that using an insert under my cloth diapers made cleanup faster and easier. I was never tempted to use disposables however. I love cloth diapers too much and don't mind doing diaper laundry. Now that I wear diapers full time, I don't have nearly the same compulsion to mess my diapers and once I met my wife 10 years ago and told her about my fetish, wetting and occasionally messing, I only mess when she allows me, maybe once a month. She will help me unpin my messy diapers but after that I just shower. Using inserts does make cleanup much easier.

As with other things, pooing in diapers can be fun or definitely not fun

Taking the not fun first, I've had C-Diff as a result of anti-biotics taken for valid medical reasons This is definitely not fun. For those not familiar with this problem, it makes you poo soup about every half hour, day and night, often for weeks. Imodium and similar meds do nothing. Either diapers, or an indwelling bowel catheter (like an oversized Foley, connected to a poo bag) are the only options. See:

https://ibb.co/LgPDrfz

Changing diapers, full of sloppy, stinky poo, gets old pretty damn fast.

Diaper play can appeal to some, especially if you are into being somewhat sub as there are few things more sub than being diapered and given some med that will make you completely lose bowel control some time later.

As I've written elsewhere, my preferred meds for this play is a combination of Miralax and Senna. The Miralax softens poo and the Senna makes you push it out. The dosage of Miralax can be adjusted to get the degree of softening you like and the Senna to adjust the amount of urgency and pushing. My preference is for firm, formed mashed potatoes with a strong urge to poo. This gives one the feelings of a very full diaper, but nor a huge mess to clean up.

No. Full diaper dependency is rough. Really rough, for both the person in diapers, and way worse for whoever it is are changing those poopy diapers. It’s just, flat out, way way toooooo much for most of us. Just is. Wetting is enough.

Just too messy for most of us.

I'm in a diaper 24/7 so I have no choice to use the diaper. It is part of the process of being in a diaper. My wife cleans me up as soon as she can after having a accident.

It is worth the clean up. Every chance I get it will be in my diaper. I’ve got plenty of diapers and plenty of wipes.

Depends what moods I’m in. If I time to feel the naughtiness and stay in the mess for a while then yeah it’s worth it but if I don’t have the time and have to clean straight away then it’s too much trouble.

I say yes. I bacame a professional in cleaning up myself after all those years of messing my diaper. The feeling of messing, or being in a messy diaper, is of more value to me than the clean-up is a hassle.

Spike

My wife puts me into a diaper and when she does she signs the tags so I can't take it off to poop. I have to ask her for permission to dirty the diaper. If she says no then I have to try and hold it till she gets home and takes it off. If I do poop them I get several severe spankings over the coming days. So I prefer to hold it but sometimes i can't.

For those who have never pooped in their diapers or don't remember that as a child/toddler, you should do it once to get the full effect. I personally don't like the clean-up. I don't have anyone to do it for me, so clean up by yourself is no fun!

I personally don't like the clean-up. I don't have anyone to do it for me, so clean up by yourself is no fun!

I never intentionally mess in my diapers but have had accidents. The clean up is down right a mess and a chore .

I've been dealing with a nasty cold and loading up on medicine and eating cough drops to get any relief.

Last night I was finally got some sleep and a very unpleasant awaken. I messed my diaper during my sleep at some time. I knew that it was a the disgusting type with my rectum burning.

The stinch and the feelin said it all. I just removed my diaper, wipe off as much as possible with wipes. In the shower I go to finish the clean up.

I don't know how long I was in my messy diaper, but long enough to get a nasty rash in my entire butt crack.

Now I'm settling here on my chux pad, wearing training pants with a large amount of rash cream embedded in my crack and airing out.

Dealing with this cold and rash is miserable. Sometimes in my life when it rains it pours. So tell me how is messing your diaper intentionally worth anything???

I've tried pooping my diapers, and it just isn't for me.

Too smelly and messy.

I like peeing in my diapers, and going number 3 (cumming) in them though.

Absolutely it is. I’ll take messing my diaper over pooping in the potty any day.

I think it is.

I've changed poopy diapers from friends, and despite the stink, the scene of seeing them with their legs up and a messy bum just is too nice 😃

And for them, the sensations of then being cleaned with wipes must be very humiliating / baby-ish.

For myself, I find squatting down in the shower, taking the diaper off there, and then just rinse my bum off means it's contained, effective, and clean 😃 Just rinse the tub out afterwards, and if desired, use some cleaning agent.

I enjoy pooping in my diapers. Especially if I wear pampers or Huggies that have the cute baby graphics like Mickey Mouse or Elmo on them. The sensation of having a diaper hug your bottom as you prepare to make a poopy into your diaper is tranquil bliss. For me I to either squat slightly or sit down flat on my bottom and push a poopy out and feel it spread across my bottom. Or when squatting down feeling that large warm lump fill the empty space of my diaper as it sags with the weight of my poopy I just made. After that I sit it in my poopy diaper for 10-30min and change my diaper after.

I know I replied earlier, but I found out something new today. As I am aging I come to respect and value processes more and more. Today I came to realize that this whole diaper messing thing is a process on its own. The cleanup is a part of that process and without it the most important part, the messing, isn’t possible at all. So the clean up today was kind of fun, cause it comes after a lot of fun and the cleanup was a reminder of that.

Spike

It's not something I do very often but I'd say yeah it's worth it. It's a feeling like no other. I tend to use "simulated" mess than the real thing more often than not.

The clean up can really suck but after you do it a few times it gets a lot easier. I always shower after too.

It's like a box of chocolates, you never really know what your diaper will be and how involved cleanup will be. I'm now at the stage where after pooping my diaper I still enjoy wearing it and wetting it more. That's when using a premium diaper with a nice poop pocket on the back and very good.odor control. But hard stool, sticky or a blowout is always possible so your mileage may vary.

I've done it with another while we were both diapered but we each cleaned up our own mess. Really looking forward to changing and getting changed with a messy diaper. With the easier access it should negate the need for a shower.

For me it is, the feeling of messing and the fullness of it the diaper and the stimulation I get from it is really worth the effort. And it’s part of it. The mindfuck is wonderful.

Yes it is. I never thought I would say this but pooping felt so nice an right. Feeling it between my cheeks, it squishing when I sat. The scent knowing I was a naughty girl. 10/10 I would do it again.

I tried it for the first time recently and I didn't get much out of it, and the smell made me gag cleaning up... but I kinda wanna try it again? It was just a spur of the moment thing at the end of a long wet nappy session, but I would like to try it again going into it with the intention to mess, knowing now what it was like. First I will try with bananas (and maybe glycerine) though because it will be much easier cleanup and no smell while I'm wearing them.

So, I had an interesting night and quite the experience.

So my partner went to bed and I had to pee really bad, so I wanted to put on a diaper for this moment. As I went to get a diaper, I felt I had to go #2 (or as we call it in my ABDL-family: Nutella).

I was asking myself: do I want the clean up? I thought ‘no’ and went to the bathroom. Could hold my pee and put on the diaper. I went outside for a smoke and as soon as I got to the door, cramps, heavy cramps. Within a minute I had an accident. I felt all kinds of things about this moment, but it was also kind of fun.

Spike