What is your pain fantasy?

I have lately a lot of pain fantasies which normally involve the idea that I give my body as a birthday gift to someone I really like ( it isn't always hubby sometimes even an old friend who isn't even bi, but she can look so stern and has a lovely body). My favorite at the moment is a strange one, although I have lots of different ones and a lot non including any pain and being very romantic instead. In this fantasy someone inserts a wooden tube in my pussy. Then he or she slips a hot camomille teabag through it deep inside me swiftly takes the tube out and holds me close but firm while the teabag is trapped deep inside of me. The person caresses softly my hair while I sqirm because it burns wisphering soft words in my ear that it is good for me and asks if I can really feel the teabag and where.

Now I am all blushing that I shared this because I know it would be very insane and unhealthy to let someone do this to my pussy.

Still, what strange pain fantasies do you sometimes have?

Wow, that is really, literally hot, Melanie K! I thought my wife had quite a lot of fantasies, but she has nothing like that! It's the combination of pain and consolation which is so arousing. Do you hear yourself crying in this fantasy? A long time ago a girlfriend of mine once cried out in her sleep and, when she woke up, told me she was dreaming of her English teacher (she was French) twisting a ruler in her pussy as a punishment. We checked, and she was wet as I'd never seen her before. So I had to take over the role of teacher and tell her, with my cock inside that wetness, that it was for her own good. Happy memories, and thank you for triggering them!

Dear Rogerio, yes I hear myself crying in your sleep. I have it a lot as well that I wake up discovering I must have been naughty dreams but unfortunatly most of the time I can't remembber exactly what happened. The rare times I do I am happy and sometimes love to think about what happended longer. I am glad you shared your story which I really liked a lot.

My pain fantasies involve GIVING PAIN although I will submit to it from my husband. 😁 😁 😁

Taking pain builds strength and character.

My pain fantasy is getting buttock injections that really hurt from a beautiful but strict nurse.

Jabbotuk: I feel the same as you. I want to have at least two shots in every cheek. It is my favorite pleasurable pain.

Wearing a clitpump under my skirt at school (college) and when my clit is big enough, I remove the cillinder and pierce my clit with a safetypin and connect it ta leash so I can attach a weight on it, but it is hidden under my skirt still 😃

Wearing a clitpump under my skirt at school (college) and when my clit is big enough, I remove the cillinder and pierce my clit with a safetypin and connect it ta leash so I can attach a weight on it, but it is hidden under my skirt still 😃

If you ever decide to do that--DON'T.

A safety pin can easily tear through the clitoris leaving you unable to have an orgasm, or at least unable to easily have an orgasm.

If you must pierce something and connect it to a leash, pin your labia majora.

If you ever decide to do that--DON'T.

A safety pin can easily tear through the clitoris leaving you unable to have an orgasm, or at least unable to easily have an orgasm.

If you must pierce something and connect it to a leash, pin your labia majora.

I know but it's just a fantasy 😉

This is a wonderful fantasy.

An oldie but a goodie: being spanked to tears. I crave a good release. I have had so much pent up inside me for decades that I'm surprised I haven't burst. I have always enjoyed spankings, not just a swat or two during doggie-style sex, but a devoted spanking time where my bottom is exposed and at the mercy of my lover. And where it hurts so badly that I squirm to get away but he holds me tighter, by grasping my hands in his, placing his hand at the small of my back to hold me in place, or pushing my legs between his so I can't kick and deflect the blows or escape from them.

But I'm not a crazy person. I wouldn't trust this with any random guy I meet online. It's one thing to find a man who wants to hurt you but quite another to find one who wants to heal you. And healing is what I need. A good, cathartic cry to get out everything I've carried for so long by someone I trust to hold me and care for me after I have been broken and who will build me back up again the right way. It takes real intimacy to develop that kind of relationship.

I wasn't sure that it would ever happen to me and it may not. However, the man I am with now, that I have been with for nearly a decade, knows me well, and though he's 15 years my junior, he has a maturity far beyond his years when it comes to sexuality and love. I just don't know if he has it in him to hurt me. He knows that I want to be spanked. That I like it very much. And I told him my fantasy. But I'm not sure if he can get past the idea that he's causing me pain. He claims to have played with women in the past until they were crying and begging him to stop or not stop. But he didn't love those women the way he loves me.

I have several spanking implements at our disposal: wooden spoons, wooden bath brushes, a ping pong paddle, a leather paddle, a riding crop, and a few others that I can't think of right now. The last time he was here, he used a wooden spoon on me and seemed to really enjoy it and spanked me harder with it than he ever has. I think we need to communicate more about it to match up our expectations and desires. Maybe this weekend will be the one to make this (I have others) pain fantasy come true.

Lately, I've been thinking about being spanked/paddled to the point of screaming and hysterical tears. But I've been single for a while, and I can't just trust any random guy to do that to me.

Rtobsessed I really hope you found someone to play with. Huggs

Rtobsessed I really hope you found someone to play with. Huggs

I did! But we don't play anymore.

I've also become curious about figging in my ass as part of punishment.

I’d like to experience a looong HARD spanking that would push me past my limits, but my wife won’t participate. ?

I'm in a vanilla relationship right now and have been *seriously* craving some pain for a while now. Just a good long, hard beating till I cry would hold me over for a long time.

It's been about 5 years since I've played at all so I don't think I can physically take the same intensity without some practice, but in my head I sure can!

I have fantasies about needles being pushed through my cock in various places - head, shaft etc. I doubt I will ever be brave enough to try.

I also think about having my ass whipped with a belt. That is a bit more plausible.

I'm with @egirlky and @rtobsessed... while I've had my fair share of spankings (not nearly as many as I've given, but that's what happens when you're almost always the top) I'd really like to experience one of those OTK hairbrushings that go through "wow, this is starting to hurt", through kicking and wiggling and squirming, through "please stop" and really is just getting started when the tears are flowing freely and the giving up and just melting into the spanking has begun.

I don't think I've ever had a pain fantasy. Worst injury I ever incurred was an ACL pull back in 1997. Even bees scare me (been stung once). But I do find myself fascinated by certain pain situations.

I am a crime and punishment nerd. Last year, Tennessee used their electric chair twice. First times in a very long time, IIRC. I kind of wonder what goes on in the minute or so before the execution, and the short time (if any) where you can still feel the electricity. After all, one of those two men was left with broken pinkies after he died (among other things, obviously).

Somewhat rtelated to this fetish, I also wonder what a judicial caning is like. You can find that stuff on YouTube, and somehow it's kind of fascinating to watch, but I doubt any pain fetishist would take it to that kind of level. That would be some serious liability.

I am not sure why I like the idea of pain and or edging, but in my self pleasure I think about it a lot. I have watched videos about cbt and edging. My favorite is to be filled with warm water using a retention plug laying flat on my back restrained to a table. I can’t speak just have to accept what is done. Knowing that my balls will be squeezed and held as my puny penis is used for the pleasure of others and not mine. I would hope that I would have to endure sounding and urethral stretching. I guess it will always just be fantasy.

My pain fantasy is to be held down by the weight of a large man and fucked missionary by a huge cock so hard and deep that i can’t breathe from the weight and pain of being split open.

Have a lady with a huge strapon, dressed in latex and boots, and even if I tell her to stop she put all the toy inside me.

😉

I'm pretty basic really.

A big torture chair, kind of like a dentists or barbers rig, but with lots of straps. A large, clunky atom punk style control panel with plenty of lights, and a big dial in green, amber, red, black. Electrodes and a few anal/vaginal probes.

Add one beautiful woman (she can keep her boots on and just for the record, I adore pink hair). Slowly electrocute her into telling me all her intimate secrets. Throw in other surprises that can make life entertaining for a helpless woman, such as a cane, a rubber hood (so they don't breathe so good) and of course, a hard leather garrotte because her neck is pretty but her face is prettier when she's choking.

Keep going and force her to reveal her darkest secrets and fantasies - until she realises that I actually don't give a toss, she's just there for me to tenderly and exquisitely hurt. Pain upon pain until even screaming hurts, and achieves nothing.

Then just watch the fear spread through her beautiful face. Because if I don't want her information, and I don't want to fuck her - how the hell is she going to get out of the chair?

Getting 4 qts of hot very soapy water thru a dbl balloon nozzle and being forced to hold it until I'm begging for my Domme to let me release!

Having someone poking my bum and anus with injection needles, sewing pins, and thumb tacks.

@SpankMe2522 I once read a story including this fantasy bit unfortunately it is long time ago so I cannot post a link.

Tied naked to a post and flogged with a knotted leather flail.

Https://spankbang.com/3ws92/video/discipline

this would be my fantasy

My pain fantasy would be,tied to a chair with my hands tied behind the chair,im topless and a bi guy and woman are going to torture

my nipples,with needles,tacks drawing pins,also stretching them and squeezing them hard,i cant shout out as i have a ball gag in my

mouth.the guy is egging the woman on to inflict more pain on my nipples, when the needles are in them she uses a riding crop on them

for added pain,asking me is this what you wanted.

A table with and electronic weighing machine on it. I would be bent over the table with hands behind my head. My tits would lie on the weighing machine, but not too much. Let's say pressure should be no more than 500g and no less than 100g. The machine would be with connected with an electric shock device connected to my thighs. It would be triggered by pressure outside limits.

Now the fun part: in this position my bottom would be strapped hard. To tears. But still I'd have to stay in the position or get shocked!

This is just a fantasy, do not really plan try this😉