Are enemas a "mature" sexual taste?

My enema fascination started as a young kid. By age seven I was sneaking the family enema bag out when I was alone. I savored hearing the words, I'm going to give you an enema today. So from my point of view maturity has little to do with ones desire for enema play.

I have been given enemas by my wife after marriage, my mom and grandmother as a child, for as far back as I can remember. My grandmother taught me how to self administer when I was twelve years old, so I could do them on my own. That being said, I have been anal erotic as far back as I can remember as a child. As a teen it went into overdrive. When you get married, do yourself a favor, and marry a girl who is into enemas and learn how to please each other and don't be afraid to try new things. I wish I knew at fourteen what I now know at seventy one, boy would I have a lot of fun.

My experience is that enemas are not a mature sexual taste. One can derive pleasure from them from early in life until, hopefully, late in life. As we men mature, as we develop friendships with a number of men and talk frankly about any number of topics, we are more receptive to talking about enemas and sharing our experiences with them. Do any other guys feel similarly?

From my experience I would say enema gives the sexual feelings from the onset of adolescence (post 13), i.e. from when a person starts feeling the erotism.

As we men mature, as we develop friendships with a number of men and talk frankly about any number of topics, we are more receptive to talking about enemas and sharing our experiences with them.

Are we really? I can't say having had many frank talks about sexual matters - usually because I don't much care for most persons face-to-face individual manner of talking about sex and choice of words and possible bragging. And maybe also because my friends don't tend to be all that open and frank about their sexual experiences. Few of my friends are divorced for instance (only 1 can think of off the bat), which is an indication that their married lives are fairly sedate probably and hence not so sexually adventuresome - or so I presume.

As for the discussion of enemas. Never had a single one with anyone I know, except my wife who talked about it as part of a medical situation, certainly nothing erotic in the least. And she made it clear she thought it all quite horrid, even if medically necessary at times.

Unless you were introduced to enemas as a young child, my "guess" is that enemas are more of a mature (as opposed to adolescent) sexual taste. In other words, as a person ages and becomes more in touch with what activities they derive sexual pleasures from, they perhaps turned to enemas if they found anal stimulation pleasurable. Because I personally was introduced to enemas at a young age, I naturally thought of them again as I went into puberty, and quickly realized that anal stimulation would give me an almost immediate erection and a very pleasurable climax. The most difficult part for me personally was getting over the psychological aspect that enemas were not something that were supposed to be enjoyed as a sexual activity. Any comment made about enemas back when I was a kid, was in the "negative", although the enemas I received were neither unpleasant, or were given for punishment. They were simply the natural cure for whatever ailed us as children.

I would say no, enemas are not related to age. I was never given enemas as a child. I discovered them around my late teens. At this age I was highly in tune with life, and living it to the fullest. This included any sexual gratification I could find that was not harmful. I believe that many people could or would enjoy enemas, at this stage, but unless you were introduced to them by someone else, you may not be as adventurous as I was. Since my teens I took advantage of most opportunities when I found the time and was alone to take enemas. Around 1990 I got a place to myself at which time enemas became my number one go to for relaxation and sexual enjoyment. Given the circumstances that I was in over the years, I believe I've had a perfect enema life. Many of my girl friend were into enemas, and especially my ex-wife. This all lead me to believe in enemas and find that age, is not a factor in whether you enjoy enemas.

Never had enemas given to me by anyone(until later in life playing). I discovered them on my own in my late teens. Not really sure how by the way... So, IMO no rhyme or reason to it. But I can't imaging stopping the enjoyment of them. So versatile. Sometimes after a long day I find myself craving a nice warm, relaxing, not too large, cleansing enema. Sometimes I'm in the mood for an embarrassing medical style enema, sometimes a large punishment enema with a large inflatable retention catheter. There is an enema for every mood lol.

Once there you never do lose the urge for those unique sensations

I got 'in the door' at age seven and things only got better over the years especially finding like minded people on Zity to share the experiences.

Best damn fetish I can have.

I have responded to enemas in different ways since childhood. One way or another the experience is usually pleasurable and perhaps specifically sexual. But the experience has changed over the years; it hasn't stayed the same. So yes, enemas are a mature taste now that I am older. They've been good all along.

Ah Suzie, c'mon, give us a break. Perverts? --well maybe. I know that I get pretty excited about really good food; I want to get a rubber sheet and roll around in it! And lets not forget the old adage; "tickling your lover with a chicken feather is foreplay, using the whole chicken is perverted".

But to answer the Lad's question I believe that we all have some 'Yin vs. Yang', male & female genes and many wonders and doubts while growing up. For example I grew up without a father to relate to...never cried (even when spanked), thinking it "un-manly". Later in life I realized that I wouldn't become a "Man" until I learned how to cry. And it took to my 20's for that.

As for anything anal, I was stuck with that one due to a birth defect, mega-colon and Hirshprung's Disease leaving me with no peristalses, and didn't find THAT out until in the service and in my 20's. (I've told that story a couple of times.)

So relax Dude, we all have our questions and doubts....its a part of life. The female mind is wired differently and should be in charge anyway. They're smarter, stronger in mind, know what's important and the Mother Image for us all. Suzie is one of my absolute favorite folk...I love her dearly butt i think her answer this time was a bit harsh.

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I was interested in enemas and putting things in my ass before I hit puberty and knew what sex was. For me enemas were not a mature sexual taste.

It seems clear that for many of us in the baby boomer and earlier generation the attitude toward enemas was established early in life. Some of course "grew out" of continuing with enemas or continued to hate even the thought of them. Late starters to enemas often take them for sexual rather than medical reasons given by our moms. At least that's my impression.

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I think eman5 is correct, in that we see a predominantly older population attracted to enemas because we come from a generation that received more enemas in a time when the practice was culturally acceptable, and incredibly popular, if not encouraged. In other words, I suspect it simply comes down to probability and numbers. The more enemas given, the higher the number who will sexualize the process, and us kids from the middle of the last century got a lot of enemas! As the practice of administering traditional large volume soapsuds enemas has waned, along with cultural acceptance, fewer and fewer people have an opportunity to experience the traditional hot soapsuds enemas that we experienced. In other words, it is simply a numbers game.

I started taking enemas on my own since before I was masturbating. Now that I am much older, I actually take fewer enemas. So, enemas are a childhood fetish on my part, the most erotic enema giver being my Mom. I have had several girlfriends whom I have given enemas to, but only a few who have their heart in it as I do. My step sister being one of them, had her first orgasm when I gave her an enema when she was 18. My Mom gave me enemas as early as I can remember, including suppositories when she would shove her finger all the way in. I know it felt good from the start, and didn't protest. I also enjoyed being naked in front of her, at puberty I wanted her to see my erections. I now know that she enjoyed this, as I look back, she gave it away. I recall her saying, when I first started growing pubic hair, that I was sexy with my new hair. I was 29 when I last let her see me naked with a full erection, and I cherish every minute of the memory.

I am 70, and was anal-curious pre-puberty, and anal erotic post…. What happened ‘down there’ was always very pleasurable for me, but I knew that I was the only human that felt that way. Never thought I was gay, because I always liked girls. Just had this deep fantasy that I would masturbate to about a woman (maybe a nurse because they sometimes needed to do that…) touching my anus. It wasn't until my early 20's when I read about enemas given erotically in a Penthouse Forum that the fantasy of a nurse touching my anus reached another level. IMHO, enjoyment of enemas is a natural extension of anal eroticism. I am so fortunate to be married to a woman who took the time, and loved me enough to understand and happily participate.

I think there are two distinct groups here. Those of us who grew up getting enemas as a child for constipation or other medical reasons, and because we somehow liked it, the enema developed into sexual play. And the younger group who probably received their first enema as part of kinky sex play because they saw something on the internet that looked interesting to them. If the younger group has had an enema for constipation, it is most likely a Fleet type because I don't believe households today have an enema bag for the same reason we did when we were their age.

As to the question of “more comfort and acceptance” relative to aging, I certainly discovered that my enjoyment of enemas was not as unusual, unique, or deviant as I was originally led to believe. Debgurl's post makes some great points. When I was younger and especially in my childhood, my enema play was usually hurried due to fear of being discovered or caught in the act. Even as a young man, sharing an apartment or dorm with other guys, I had to sneak in my enemas during more convenient times to avoid discovery.

Attendance at EFEST, and face to face indulgences with others, diminished any sense of being overwhelmed with embarrassment. Certainly, the internet became a factor in acceptance of my fetish or paraphilia. Having some time to thoroughly enjoy an enema session, opened the door to some wonderful sensations that weren't rushed.

I loved my enema indulgences as a child, aside from those given by mom or grandma. As I matured, the enema became a far more simple and enjoyable aspect of my overall sexuality and sense of well being. I have also enjoyed an otherwise “normal” sex life. I believe that both can coexist and compliment each other especially as we age!

I've had enemas a few times in my earlier age but in my 40s I realized how sexual they were. I'm like a kid wanting to explore and learn more. I guess maturity

Bi-sexual activity might be; but enemas are an any-age taste.

The question: Are enemas a “mature” sexual taste? - In my opinion enemas aren’t a mature sexual taste. Enemas are an affinity that can happen at any age. For example:

My siblings an I have enjoyed enemas an anything anal from an early age. It started for us around age four. We had to share a bedroom until our mid to late teens and nudity was a daily part of sharing a bedroom. In other words, nudity wasn’t an issue. Mom, grandma, an our aunts gave us enemas together or one on one. It just depended on the circumstances. As preteens, our RN grandmother taught us personal hygiene an enemas became our personal responsibility. It didn’t take long afterwards, for us to start giving each other enemas after school in the afternoon. When I was thirteen, a girl I did my homework with, asked my sister to give her an enema, because she was having period cramps. My sister gave her a couple of enemas that afternoon and told her about our activities. A couple of months later, she asked me to do enemas with her. It continued until we went our separate ways, after graduating from High School. After I got married in my twenties, my wife an I did enemas for health, pleasure, and sexual reasons until we divorced a number of years later. Now, I’m in my seventies an I do enemas on a bimonthly basis and have been a heterosexual all my life.