Are enemas a "mature" sexual taste?

Greetings to all! I am a 23 year old male and for the past several years I've developed a liking for the sensations that indulgence of the klismo fetish can provide. It is, in my opinion, a gratifying way to experience receptive (more feminine?) sexual feelings and sensations. Even though I am straight and have very vanilla, normal desires at times, I still experience these urges. My understanding is that once you're in the door, these stay all your life to some degree, even if you suppress them.

Like many young men, however, I am still somewhat insecure and uncertain about my sexuality, and struggle with resolving the imbalance between the masculine and feminine feelings - almost a Yin and Yang complex. I've felt insecurity about the desires I have at times to be receptive and more sensual. However, I am very psychologically in-tune and it is my hope that as I age and become more of a "man" (maybe even into my 30s and 40s), the insecurity will resolve itself and I'll feel more like it doesn't matter. Someday, perhaps when married, I'd like to find a woman who perhaps enjoys the same and is tolerant of a man who enjoys klismaphilia as an added component to his heterosexuality.

My question is mainly to the older, perhaps straight klismo guys and girls (though open to answers from any orientation!) Are enemas a matured taste? Did you experience more comfort and acceptance of your enjoyment of klismaphilia as you aged?

Thanks for the help! It is much appreciated.

. . . . My question is mainly to the older, perhaps straight klismo guys and girls (though open to answers from any orientation!) Are enemas a matured taste? Did you experience more comfort and acceptance of your enjoyment of klismaphilia as you aged?

Thanks for the help! It is much appreciated.

Most of us started with enemas as children or teenagers, of course some were late coming to the party.

As we got older, we discovered more ways to perform and enjoy enemas.

Right. I never had enemas as a kid but discovered them right after my anal desires as a teen. I agree with Susie that as we age we tend to find more ways to administer and enjoy enemas, as you undoubtedly will. However, I don't think the basic desire to have a comfortable object placed in your rectum and then feel water start flowing into you is restricted to mature lovers, though your level of enjoyment and sophistication of administration will probably "mature" over time. Enjoy!

No doubt that having a prostate has an impact on males during our "horny" years (Middle school and high school). I can see how neurologically we are wired to get erotic pleasure from rectal stimulation. I've noted the vast number of Zity female members who refer to feelings of relaxation, release of emotional tension and mental stress relief from a flush out. I have also read some who try to tie the clitoral nerves to the rectum, but can't understand how that could happen. Clitoral nerves connected to "G" spot makes sense, but the distance to the anal/rectal area is a long way. Could it be an added method of penetration that turns females on?

I just wish there were more females who "get off" from flushing the rectum/colon. The referenced 10 to 1 membership on Zity can't be denied. If we males get erotic stimulation and don't experience the emotional release that women do, we have some catching up to do.

Any medical types out there who have any theories on this?

. . . . I just wish there were more females who "get off" from flushing the rectum/colon. The referenced 10 to 1 membership on Zity can't be denied. If we males get erotic stimulation and don't experience the emotional release that women do, we have some catching up to do.

Any medical types out there who have any theories on this?

I'm surprised you didn't see the obvious.

YOU GUYS ARE PERVERTS! 😁 😁 😁

Most men are kinkier than most women. Why do you think there are more pay for play women dominatrices and few if any men being paid Doms.

From an evolutionary standpoint, it probably has to do with us protecting our eggs from guys we don't want fertlizing them.

Yeah Susie, I guess you're right. We ARE perverts.

I'm with jimmy44

jjohnson, you wont find the answers until you can ask the correct question

Is "Mature sexual taste" an oxymoron?

Sexual foreplay is the one time adults get to act like kids again.

Is "Mature sexual taste" an oxymoron?

Sexual foreplay is the one time adults get to act like kids again.

That's a good one indeed.

Maybe a better description would be 'acquired sexual taste', sort of like people usually having to learn to eat oysters and things like that ...

I distinctly remember that as an 11 year old, I was taking enemas with a great deal of regularity, along with the sexual activity you would expect from someone that age, (and then some) As I matured, sensations, and inner feelings took over, along with the thrill of having a partner to share all. The sexual "taste" as you call it, has never left, however, time, experience, and the great inner excitement one feels before, during and after, seem to rule my taste for enemas, and, everything associated with them. So.....I believe they are, as some have already noted, a young, very young, sexual taste.

Certainly a normal feeling which if you are in touch with yourself allows more pleasure

Not so much an 'acquired" taste as a "developed' one more like the taste for wine, than the acquired taste of oysters.

Not so much an 'acquired" taste as a "developed' one more like the taste for wine, than the acquired taste of oysters.

+1 ! That is a great way to describe it!! It evolves with time and one learns more specifically what they like. As the saying goes, "gets better with age!"

If we as men, are so lucky to have a female partner in our life that also enjoys enemas, I think it's our duty to help their pleasure in the sense that is most pleasurable to them. We as men, do need to be as sensitive to our female partners needs in every way, whether if it's sexual, or otherwise. . .That's why we love them!!

I described myself as anal erotic and underneath that umbrella I like all sorts of anal stimulation which includes enemas. I started doing enemas at 13 when I found my parents enema kit and that was the first way I started enjoying anal pleasure and I have been doing enemas ever since. So if you like enemas, you may well like other forms of anal stimulation. I don't think enemas are an acquired taste, rather they can be discovered at an early age or any age leaving strong sexual imprint.

I would say you should watch your own sexuality grow over your entire lifetime. For many people, sexuality can evolve if it is not suppressed with any guilt and social pressure. It sounds like you are on the front end of your learning curve. Explore and do what feels right. When you get close enough to someone, share your inter most desires- if they respond positively you are way ahead of the game and may have found someone that you can have a LTR with.

Good luck and keep us posted.

ProV1 there are a lot of us anal erotics out there I am one myself been that way my whole life. Received enemas from Mom since I was five years old hated them though until I was 10 or 11 then started to enjoy them still gave Mom a hard time though more verbal than anything else. Then as I got into my teens started sneaking them just loved the feeling of inserting nozzle into myself and the feeling of the warmth of the water filling me up. So I don't think it a sexual taste or maybe it is because didn't have my first enema orgasm until I was fourteen and that was with another girl giving me the enema. 😃

I acquired the desire after receiving enemas as a child. After I was married, I found that my wife would give them to me, though she was not "turned on" by them. Though currently single, I still remember the extreme excitation I felt when she would call to me that everything was ready for my enema administration. I'll never outgrow that memory and/or desire.

I must say that as I have gotten older, I have come to enjoy enemas more than I ever did when I was in my 20s. Learning that it's an enema and not a race, has led to setting aside the time necessary to have a pleasurable enema session. Hurrying through an enema for fear of being caught or having something else to do only caused me more frustration from the fact that I wasn't getting what I wanted from my time with the bag.

So, as I hit my mid-30s, it came to me that I was taking enemas more often, but the enjoyment wasn't necessarily there. Enter: maturity. I learned that enemas aren't meant to be rushed...they are meant to be indulgent. A good, "fulfilling" enema session takes time...the time to relax; the time to get the atmosphere just right; and the time to savor the unique sensations as warm water invades the inner reaches of our bodies. Plus, the time to explore how those sensations manifest themselves in our most private parts as the enema does its work.

As time has passed, my enjoyment of enemas has only gotten greater after learning through the mistakes as a younger person that was always in a hurry.

Have fun and play safe!

Deb

Well put, Deb

Debgurl

Once again your well written post has nailed it! Well Said!

Add me to the list that agrees with Deb. The older I get the more I enjoy

Debgurl makes good points with which I generally agree. The physical enjoyment of taking, or being given, an enema increased with age and maturity. That said, the suddenness and intensity of arousal caused by enema-related stimuli waned over time. Initially, when I first discovered my enema kink, just overhearing the word "enema" spoken or seeing it in print, could set my dirty, little mind racing. Sadly, time and experience caused that element of enema pleasure to dwindle for me.

As I have grown older ( I will be 74 in a week), I have received less erotic pleasure from the whole enema process. I can masturbate for the better part of a half hour while the 4 qt bag is emptying into me and not climax, which was not the case formerly. Even so, I enjoy giving myself enemas and do it perhaps twice a week.

hankb

Stop worrying and do what feels right. I am slightly older than you, but I don't think I am doing anything amoral when enjoying an enema session. Learn to embrace your fetishes (as long as they are legal) and relax. I think I started younger than you are right now, and even then it did not feel wrong or anything like that.

"Scotch, olives, anchovies and enemas are all acquired tastes" I didn't think I'd ever learn to love olives!

"Scotch, olives, anchovies and enemas are all acquired tastes" I didn't think I'd ever learn to love olives!

You forgot to add oysters and 'bleu' cheese, the kind that comes with blue or green mold ... ha ha.

Olives. How not to like them. They come in so many varieties from fruity to salty to filled up with any and every variety of vegetable, ham, fish, fruit, almonds or whatever. I've got dozens of olive trees in my yard in Spain and the things just keep on growing without needing to tend them or anything ... and tens of thousands of acres in the surrounding countryside ... people who don't like olives or almonds in my part of Spain are tarred and feathered ... ha ha ha

The largest choice of olive variations however are on sale at open air markets up north in my city in Belgium. Usually they are sold by Moroccan vendors who place large bowls of samplings in front of their stalls. Lovely to try them out one by one - or five by five ... 😃

You forgot to add oysters and 'bleu' cheese, the kind that comes with blue or green mold ... ha ha.

[color=#000000]Olives. How not to like them. They come in so many varieties from fruity to salty to filled up with any and every variety of vegetable, ham, fish, fruit, almonds or whatever. [/color] I've got dozens of olive trees in my yard in Spain and the things just keep on growing without needing to tend them or anything ... and tens of thousands of acres in the surrounding countryside ... people who don't like olives or almonds in my part of Spain are tarred and feathered ... ha ha ha

You left out my favorite, but you have to do it yourelf and it is laborious--CHEESE of many varieties.

I think you will actually enjoy your kinks and desires more as you get older,,,,if you hope to outgrow whatever it is your going through,,,forget about it 😃

Youngest daughter, now adult type, flies to Amsterdam regularly, and brings back exotic cheeses. Oh my goodness. Cheese and pinot noir make my world go around - and around and etc.

If I get your way AG before my day is done, it is hoped that you will take me to the locale that has the large selection of olives. My favorite incudes garlic in the vestibule, but am certain that I've not experienced quality in DFW, TX. There must be many others to satisfy discerning taste buds.

Ok, so it is not Belgium, but your farm in Spain.

Makes me no difference, excepting that I am certain that there are better medicinal items, lavages, etc. in Belgium. And, of course, they are of interest too.

Take care -

James