So I'm fairly experienced at anal play, mainly width (3.5 inch diameter is about my limit thus far) and have recently started with depth play.
My goal is to be able to receive a female fist/hand beyond the elbow, but I'm having trouble envisioning how I need to work up to this.
So far my main toys are,
Crackstuffers 40mm/1.6" depth trainer at 27.5" --- http://www.crackstuffers.com/dt40.html
a double ended dildo which goes from just under 1" at the small end to about 2" at the large end being 22" in length --- http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31082
a 2.25" diameter 16" dildo --- http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=8553
Now the 22" goes in small end first all the way no trouble, and I can even use another dildo whilst it's inserted so it probably goes in 25"+ maybe. If I turn it around and go with the 2" end I don't have much luck past about 18 inches.
The crackstuffers depth trainer I can get up to the ribbed handle section ( so maybe about 24-25") and then it gets uncomfortable, I'm having trouble envisioning which part of the colon this is reaching and stopping at, I've seen these things in videos going in way beyond the full length.
The 2.25" x 16" dildo doesn't get very far at all, I'm wondering if this is a flexibility issue and it's not bending very well.
I'm struggling to understand how to increase girth with the depth when consequently as things get thicker they get less flexible, ideally I'd like to work up to a bigger Crackstuffers depth trainer but they're expensive and I don't want to waste money if I'm not able to take it.
Any advice, maybe Susie?
I'm also not a fan of enemas, not because it's an unpleasant feeling but because for some reason it can take a really long time for me to fully expel, which can get very boring and tiring not to mention time consuming. So far I seem able to "be clean" just from regular emptying of the bowel, I can depth play without an enema and the toys are clean.