Blue balls, orgasm denial & ruined orgasm

Personally, I love the frustrating ache that comes with prolonged orgasm denial and frequent edging. When I do reach orgasm, I prefer to have a 'ruined' orgasm while still locked in my chastity cage...it's much less physically satisfying, and only prolongs the experience.

That's what makes Zity so great. We have members into all sorts of stuff and willing to share. In the process, we all learn.

What you describe would not be my cup of tea, but if it floats your boat, go for it. And have fun, we must have fun.

I have to agree with neapolitan7th regarding the ache that comes from orgasm denial. In fact that’s what most of my enemas are about, driving myself to the edge while filling fuller and fuller with the enema. My prostates getting warmer and warmer and the pressure is getting stronger until the ache of the enema begins to get mixed with the ache in my scrotum. I love to place a restrictive velcro strap around my scrotum to force my testicles into the limited space below the strap and then feel the sensation build as the scrotal cords begin to tighten and pull the testicles up into my abdomen.

I had a women restrain me several times, blindfolded and earplugged, spread eagle on a bed with a double balloon nozzle inside me for several hours. She would start by going down on my erection until she had me near the brink and then withdraw herself. She always made it a point to get her fingers good and wet from her womanhood and then wipe them all over my nose and upper lip so that I would remember why I was there. She made sure that my erection never got a chance to go down, while being sure that I never came either.

She would read a book, while I laid there wishing I could be brought to fruition, putting the book down occasionally if I started to lose my erection. Every time that she finished getting me to the edge she would refill the enema bag with more hot water. She had a “Tee” fitting in the side of the enema hose that led to a second bag filled with Peppermint castile soap.

When I started to soften she would chose her torment to being me back to the edge. Depending upon her mood at the moment, she might quietly open the clamp to the PCS Bag clam and I’d suddenly feel the cool stream of full strength PCS begin to slowly flow into my rectum. The burn of the concentrated soap would always bring me back to full attention. The next time she would open the enema and blast the concentrated soap into my rectum and then stop leaving a small but concentrated amount of very warm PCS inside me which would make me come back to attention and squirm with agony. The next time she might just use a vibrator on the tip of my penis or cover it with her warm lips., or she might just stroke y erection until she could see pre-cum beginning to emerge. The little game she would play with me generally culminated with her climbing on the bed and planting her woman hood on my face and repeatedly sucking my penis until she could taste the precum again. The grand finale would come when she came down and gasp my erection with her vaginal lips and then release both enema clamps at the same time, and then she began dropping completely onto me and then withdrawing till only the tip of my penis still remained in her. I would be straining to thrust my pelvis up into her rising womanhood as I my intestines rapidly filled with a hot crampy solution. The result was the inevitable orgasm that I always felt would blow her through the ceiling in the room. She knew exactly when the time had cum and when I finished the last thrust she would slide down my pole allowing her cheeks to land on my bloated belly. Ecstasy. My testicles would ache for a couple hours as I repaid her kindness.

Cheers,

Jag

As a women it is enjoyable to control when the man is permitted to orgasm. A ruined orgasm given would only be pleasurable if that is want he wanted.

Some years ago I had to drive 450 miles home in the middle of the night and decided I'd keep myself awake with all manner of erotic and sexual fantasies. After about 300 miles of constant boner I started having a terrible ache in my groin that wouldn't go away and I had an idea what it was. I brazenly thought I could stop at some truck stop and "relieve" myself in a bathroom stall, but once there realized it wasn't a good idea and wasn't going to work.

By the time I got home I was truly miserable and hopped into the shower and did the deed. Relief was not immediate but starting coming about half an hour later (no pun intended).

I did not enjoy the experience and would rather not do that again.

Orgasm denial and chastity play is one of my favorite ways to prolong play. That drop after a scene can sometimes be hard to get back into headspace immediately.

I like to start small with a day or two since it can be so uncomfortable at first. And work up from there. The increased sensitivity is a problem its self when edging, so easy to go over the limit. Using numbing gel or spray on the clit is how i like to incorporate more medical fetish into denial scenes. It adds a layer of helplessness when you can't finish even if you try.

@ToastyLady Age also has a natural numbing effect! 👿

I seriously dislike “ruined orgasms” especially as a young teen, i viewed it as a form of controlled torture by my masturbater!If they stopped pre-orgasm i would severly scold them or maybe never return for another session!

Also had blue balls as a teen after lots of teasing & petting but no actual sex with girlfriends, later i was “taken care of” and had mind boggling orgasms!