How to get him/her involved | Scale of Diaper Acceptance 2/2

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I was having this discussion with member MickD the other day. We were talking about his efforts to get his girlfriend to accept his diapers. I came up with the following scale of various degrees which your "significant other" accepts (or not) your diapers. Maybe I should call this the "DiaperPailPat Scale of Partnerial Diaper Acceptance". LOL.

0 - You're single so this doesn't apply.

1 - "You sick pervert! You need psychiatric help! I'm leaving you!" (door slams)

2 - They know about it, they hate it, they won't talk about it, try to ignore it, don't ever do it around them.

3 - They know, don't understand, don't participate, but otherwise don't much care.

4 - They know, they're supportive, they know it's part of you, but will not participate.

5 - They know, they will sometimes participate in a passive way (let you wear around them, to bed, etc).

6 - They know, think you're cute, are somewhat turned on by seeing you diapered, and participate in an active way (diaper you, change you, encourage you to wear).

7 - Basically #6 plus they incorporate your diapers into your sex lives (go to bed in your wet diapers, this leads to sex, during sex they baby talk / humiliate you and do anything else related to help you enjoy yourself).

8 - They actually wear and enjoy diapers WITH you.

My wife has spent most of our marriage between 5 and 7. At one point she tried 8 for a while but I don't think she liked wearing diapers (she said at the time that diapers reminded her of having a Kotex pad between her legs during a period). When my kids were in diapers she dropped down to a 4 (she just wasn't able to diaper my kids and diaper me and keep the two separate, so she quit participating with me for a few years).

What about the rest of you?

mchas

My exes weren't told, but I had a feeling my last one was a 1, or 2 at the very most. I asked her about spanking once to test the waters and she said she thought it might be a bit silly. Didn't do anything 'kinky' with her.

My current partner is also into diapers! So an 8. I'm lucky to know him. We're long distance, but when we get together I get to wear around him.

SDB

My wife is a 7-8. I told her about my bed wetting early on while we were dating. She accepted it and thought my diapers and plastic pants were cute and kept her from getting wet while sleeping. It evolved into sexy with my diaper on almost every time. Then when I started leaking during the day she suggested 24/7. She tried wearing one on long car trips but didn’t like the bulk between her legs. About 2 years ago she started having accidents when she coughed or laughed and now wears pull-ups. I got lucky!!!!