Scale of Diaper Acceptance

I was having this discussion with member MickD the other day. We were talking about his efforts to get his girlfriend to accept his diapers. I came up with the following scale of various degrees which your "significant other" accepts (or not) your diapers. Maybe I should call this the "DiaperPailPat Scale of Partnerial Diaper Acceptance". LOL.

0 - You're single so this doesn't apply.

1 - "You sick pervert! You need psychiatric help! I'm leaving you!" (door slams)

2 - They know about it, they hate it, they won't talk about it, try to ignore it, don't ever do it around them.

3 - They know, don't understand, don't participate, but otherwise don't much care.

4 - They know, they're supportive, they know it's part of you, but will not participate.

5 - They know, they will sometimes participate in a passive way (let you wear around them, to bed, etc).

6 - They know, think you're cute, are somewhat turned on by seeing you diapered, and participate in an active way (diaper you, change you, encourage you to wear).

7 - Basically #6 plus they incorporate your diapers into your sex lives (go to bed in your wet diapers, this leads to sex, during sex they baby talk / humiliate you and do anything else related to help you enjoy yourself).

8 - They actually wear and enjoy diapers WITH you.

My wife has spent most of our marriage between 5 and 7. At one point she tried 8 for a while but I don't think she liked wearing diapers (she said at the time that diapers reminded her of having a Kotex pad between her legs during a period). When my kids were in diapers she dropped down to a 4 (she just wasn't able to diaper my kids and diaper me and keep the two separate, so she quit participating with me for a few years).

What about the rest of you?

My wife is a 5 to 5.5. She did try them but doesn't really like them for herself.

Been married to a 1..dated a couple of 6 & 7's...looking for an 8! ?

7-8 mostly 7

My bedwetting and nappy wearing doesn't bother my wife at all.

6, my wife thinks it's cute, and I look cute. Likes to put me in diapers. Not exactly her thing, but she will, and has worn diapers. She will differently get involved, if I wanted her to wear. She didn't grow up liking diapers though. She just became curious being here. And with me, of course. She likes to play.

8 everyday 😃 go to my pics i love this girl

I have to agree, my wife is typically between 5-7 when she goes to 7, she is purely doing it to humiliate me beyond belief, which I happen to love!

Number 6, I'll accept it at that level, it's better than nothing at all.

4 1/2 I guess.

It's all kind of new- he knows and seems unbothered by it, by I've never worn around him. Yet??

It's different in all cases

My wife is a 6/7. She thinks I'm cute in my diapers and rubber pants, changes me and loves to tease me, especially when I wet. We sleep together in the same bed, her in her nighty and me in my cloth pinned on diapers and rubber pants. She changes me before we go to bed, or after we've made love, and are ready to go to sleep. She seems to enjoy having me in a vulnerable position, my legs and ass up ready for my diapers, but instead of a diaper, she sits on top of me, grabs my wee-wee and slips into her kitty, making it so hard inside her. Once she's had enough she gets off me, wipes her pussy and my wee, powders and pins my diapers on, pulls up my rubber pants and takes me to bed, her nipple in my mouth to feed me so I can sleep through the night. She also been known to embarrass and humiliate me when the occasion arises, especially if I've wet my diapers in public places where she can tell someone, usually a girlfriend or someone she knows, what I just did. She even told her mother about me and made me show her my diapers and rubber pants. Eventually my MIL moved in with us and changes me too.

This would be a 5, doesn’t seem to mind but does not participate.

Also a five for me.

5!

4-5 edging into 6 through encouraging to wear. (mostly when she's not home)

I'm looking and wanting an 8 which would be perfect. A 7 or 6 would be awesome. At this point a 5 would be ok.

When I became medically incontinent and needed diapers, my wife at the time was a 1. The next thing I knew she packed up and and left for good resulting in a divorce. To this day my life is so much better without her.

Before I became incontinent I never have any thoughts or desire to wear diapers. When I became incontinent I hated wearing diapers. Today I love and enjoy wearing diapers. I never dreamed this.

A 5, but with a golden lining.

I’m so lucky to have a partner that allowes me to have friends that can get diapered with, do whatever I want, without getting sexual (and I’m with her on that. I don’t want those two worlds to mix up, so a mutual agreement) and if I would like to have 10 enemas and use 15 diapers in one day, I am free to do so.

For the sexual part I have a phone mommy amd my partner is also good with that.

Fun topic!!

That SDA thing should be an official term in our community if you ask me 😁.

Spike

Spikey shared-

I’m so lucky to have a partner that allowes me to have friends that can get diapered with, do whatever I want, without getting sexual (and I’m with her on that. I don’t want those two worlds to mix up, so a mutual agreement) and if I would like to have 10 enemas and use 15 diapers in one day, I am free to do.

Wow Spikey!! That's awesome and I consider you very lucky. I wished that I could have friends to wear diapers around with. Your one lucky person.

Well @Diapered_Forever you hit the nail right on the head.

One of my friends I am referring to has become my ‘Big Sister’ who cares for me when she is around. She changes me, makes my bottles and food and puts me to bed when I need it.

She also organizes ABDL events and our core group is alway there, like family.

To be honest with you, I expect some people to doubt what I am writing is true (believe me, I have doubted a lot of posts on the web), but now that I have this in my life it is so more believable cause I know it can happen.

My sister and I have a strong bond, in and outside of the scene.

As for my phone mommy, it is just sex, that is it. Anonymous and safe.

So as for my partners SDA, I’d say a five doesn’t really fit and should be higher in my opinion.

I believe everyone can have this (bacause if I can, why not anyone else?) and I wish everyone such a free life with themselves, parners and friends.

Spike

Was a 7 with my G/F . Having me babied made her feel sexy and in charge . After a couple of years though she got bored and after telling her mother about me up and left . Her mum on the other hand wanted to continue babying me and was super maternal . Even taking meds to lactate . then my ex G/F had a new man and a couple of kids and re entered our world and gave her mother an ultimatum . Either me or her two real baby grandchildren . I lost out on that one .

#8

Solid 5.

Somewhere between 5 & 6. i’m so shy about th m that they don’t come out often.

I am a 24/7 diaper wearer. My wife accepts and full participation of diapering me.