Ever had your genitalia spontaneously groped by someone you were not in a relationship with ?

From time to time during the past few years, I've revisited a fond recollection of something that happened in a split second over 30 years ago.

It was the early 80's and i was either 16 or barely 17. I was working a closing shift in the grill area of a fast food joint. There was this 16 year old girl who worked the register (not closing shifts) who had a mom, Jackie, who also worked the register on closing shifts (don't recall them ever working at the same time). Occasionally Jackie would drive me home from work, as the buses had stopped running for the evening and I didn't yet have a car. Whether during rides home or during slow periods at work, we would talk,

I was going through a period where I was depressed that I didn't have a girlfriend & didn't think I had what it took to get one any time soon. Yet I was super horny. Whenever Jackie & I talked, most of the time this subject would come up. Jackie would always try to reassure me. I remember her often saying "Someday you're gonna meet a nice girl !" with a big smile on her face. And at the time I think I was like "yeah yeah yeah bullsh__"

This one evening when we were both working & there weren't any customers Jackie walked back to the grill area where I was working alone. We might have been the only 2 working on the floor, with the manager in the back. We started talking, and this subject probably came up again. All of a sudden, she reached out and grabbed and gave a good squeeze to my junk over my pants. I was taken by total surprise, with a shocked look and smile on my face. I wasn't upset, because we always had a positive vibe with each other, & though not her daughter, but there were a few black girls I was really starting to become attracted to at the time. I'm not sure if eventually I told my older co-worker about this, but while talking to him about her one time, he told me something to the effect of "I think she likes to have fun", whatever that meant.

When I think about this incident now, I wish she would have used that aggression to initiate sex with me, Something about the way she smiled at me after she did what she did, it has often made me wonder if she was driven to do that, knowing I hadn't yet lost my virginity, To have that privilege to reach out & grope a horny white virgin. I wish it led to something more, even if only more groping incidents..

Being involved in BDSM and group sex, yes.

Not "groped", but fondled and examined. Same reason as Jds. Same thing on the other side of the coin.

One other time was when I was about to have a wisdom tooth extracted by my dear personal periodontist friend, I was in the chair and playfully grabbed his crotch saying, "we aren't going to hurt each other, are we?"

NOTE: I don't recommend doing this unless you really are good friends.

In my early twenties, I ran sound for a small but popular local band. I had a cousin who was quite the wild child. Any time she was at a bar where we were she would sneak up on me and grab my ass.

One time we were at a small bar that was always a sweatbox, so i decided to wear a loose pair of gym shorts - and as I often would - went commando. As I was getting into the music and enjoying the free beers that came with the job, I suddenly felt a hand go inside the elastic of my shorts and grab a handful of ass. I knew immediately who it was so I didn't even flinch - I just pushed my butt back a little further and shook to the music.

To my surprise, her grip released my butt and her hand reached under and grabbed my cock and balls! Then I flinched 😃 - wow!!!! From our position behind the equipment, I was pretty sure nobody would see what was going on - which was good because she fondled my balls for the rest of the song and my flimsy shorts did nothing to contain the raging hard on i got.

When the song ended she let me go and devilishly said, "Boy, if you weren't married I'd show you what kissing' cousins is all about". I had to hide behind the sound board most of the night because every time I thought about it, my hard on came back 😃

I was in the army in the late 60s, stationed in Germany. One afternoon, four of us were detailed along with four men from another squad to move a very heavy piece of printing equipment on a dolly from one building on base to another. I was in the front rank, shoulder to the machine and pushing hard when I felt a hand of the man behind me go between my legs and goose me. I looked back quickly, recognized the guy and smiled, then turned back and resumed pushing. He did it twice more before we got the big press to its destination. A couple of nights later, we found ourselves walking back to the barracks from the local gasthaus. He preceded me up the stairs to our third floor billet. I walked very close behind, and when the chance presented itself I goosed him back. We got to my room first and he showed no inclination to go to his while I got out my key, unlocked the door, and motioned him in. Thanks to seniority, I had a single room, small, probably no more than 6 by 15 feet, with my bunk in an alcove. We ended up standing in darkness and silence in front of my dresser looking at our selves in my mirror. We were gently rubbing each others butt through our uniforms. He said, "What do you think?" I said, "I think I should lock the door and we should strip down to our shorts." And that's what we did, for starters. The motto is, never let a random grope go to waste.

See, i think that's the thing. I feel like i let a random grope go to waste, that I didn't try to pursue something further. Back then, i had my sights set on certain girls & never really thought outside the box.

And now, all i can do is think about what "could've been".

Twice. Once when i was a kid; the groper was 30. Fortunately he stopped when i winced and jumped back.

Second time when I was 21. I grabbed his wrist and said, "I'm married" by which i meant I was straight. He assured me that most of his partners were as well. I couldn't leave the vicinity fast enough.

And, sorry to spoil the mood, I have never looked back on those moments with anything but revulsion.

Let's see, back in my junior year of highschool I was publicly ogled by two different girls on two separate occasions. The first girl who I'll call A, was a very sexy black girl with a lovely ass who had been teasing me for quite a while. Unfortunately she moved later that year and I never saw her again.

The second girl who I'll call C is a more interesting case. We were already good friends at the time and she caught me up against a wall one day, grabbed my arse with one hand, dick with the other and made out with me for a good while. Funnily enough over the years since then we grew even closer and she's been my SO now for about a year.