Cock Slapping

I know very little about BDSM and have never given it much thought as a fetish I'd be interested in. A recent discovery has me wondering if maybe it's just because I haven't explored it or I'm just not aware of it.

Often times, when I'm in the mood to play with my cock, i'll spend some time slapping it with my open palm. Doing this immediately causes it to get "meatier" and semi hard. I continue slapping it from different angles - increasing the intensity as it swells up. Sometimes I'll use my other hand to support it so that I get a good direct smack with more sting behind it. I find that I enjoy the warm swollen sensation this activity produces very much.

I'm sure my slaps are relatively light compared to what goes on in this community. I'm at the point where I'm thinking about getting some type of "instrument" in order to inflict a more intense smack.

I never even considered this action as fetish related until yesterday I found an entire group (another forum) devoted exclusively to cock slapping. There were links to videos of men receiving some severe cock slapping from Dom's - far more intense than anything I've experienced solo. It has peaked my interest enough that I want to introducing a small paddle or the like and see what the results are.

Does anyone here engage in cock slapping? If so, please elaborate on your best practices and results. What are some of the best "paddles/whips" for a good cock slapping? Are there variations on this that I'm not considering?

Painful, nope, not one of my turn ons. Other erotic pain, yes.

Cock slapping is a masturbation technique taught by Joseph Kramer and his associates.

This sounds like fun.

I was punished like this when I was young, and it was both painful and shameful (or the shame was simply to be caught in erection?)

I have been slapping my cock for a few years now. It will range from light slaps to get an erection to harder slaps that will sting but feel sort of good. I even slap my balls and get pleasure from that. After several months of slapping my balls, I can now slap them fairly hard and it doesn't hurt. It feels good most of the time. You can do the "twist" naked and have your cock and balls slap against your thighs. A great feeling.

I think a little bit just to establish control would be alright, I have not had it happen to me though, so my opinions might change. Dick's comment was interesting and I will have to try that sometime. Your username makes the comment pretty funny :^)

Having someone else slap my cock is a real turn-on

I have never had my cock slapped but would like it when errect to see what effect it has on turning me on

I have been a long time crotch slapper, and would slap myself down there whenever I needed to pee really badly. The sudden shock and pain would somehow cause the need to pee urge to subside. Later, I found that slapping, and other types of abuse, also caused orgasms so now I do it fairly often.

I enjoy light to moderate applications of small leather belts and straps. Additionally, a nice nylon-strand flogger provides varying degrees of stimulation, from tickle to mild sting. And of course the leather-thonged penis whip when I need it.

There are many devilish things one can do to another's genitals. Or ones own. I enjoy performing this on subs at parties, carefully. It is called CBT, cock, ball, torture. Everyone has their personal degree of 'torture'. And is fairly common in the bdsm community.

Many like to have their junk bound, and flogged, cropped etc. Read up on it. You must be VERY careful with your jewels as they are important and a busted testicle is quite dangerous.

Trauma to an erect penis is also dangerous. A fractured penis is a surgical emergency and will likely lead to permanent erectile dysfunction.

Having my penis cropped with a leather mini-crop is one of the most erotic/humiliating to ask for and have done. Done just right, the pleasure is amazing.

I'm usually the disciplinarian in DD situations and dominant in romantic/erotic situations. When that occasionally switches (power exchanges), either because I deserve discipline or just for fun, my GF usually focuses on my penis.

When I really deserve to be disciplined, it is very humbling to have to switch (exchange power) with my GF and ask her to punish my penis (usually a pretty severe whipping, along with some additional CBT). This is not at all pleasant (very uncomfortable and/or painful), but I appreciate being held accountable and I learn my lesson! This discipline usually doesn't take very long and is not explicitly sexual. In fact, from a certain perspective, it's oten almost anti-sexual, because she often finishes my punishment by locking my severely chastised penis into a male chastity device for at least 72 hours... occassionally up to a week... on one occassion for 10 days! This is much worse than having to wear the device for 24-48 hours as a type of foreplay. If you've never been denied all erections and having your penis touched by your partner, yourself (not even in the shower or standing over the toilet), or even by fabric (your underpants, sheets, etc), for over 72 hours, you can only imagine, but not actually have any idea how unpleasant this punishment is, especially right after a severe penis whipping (no chance to alleviate any discomfort with some physical touch).

When I decide to exchange power with my GF strictly for romantic reasons, I find a good penis spanking to be the ultimate in power exchange. Occasionally giving up my dominant role, to the point of humbly having to ask her to be dominant, and then obey her instructions to strip and present my bare penis for a spanking (actually, swats with a ruler and/or a short leather strap) is a huge turn-on. These erotic encounters play out over a much longer period of time than discipline (in the form of foreplay)... teasing me with a combination of tender stroking, squeezing, pinching, and rythmic swats with the ruler/strap. None of this is uncomfortable or painful... even the swats sting only enough to drive me crazy with sexual arousal. After 30-45 minutes of this "torture" (especially if my penis has been locked in a male chastity device for the prior 24-48 hours), I am ready to explode... literally!

A few days back I slapped my cock by myself using a small stick... It did cause pain, but as my cock was tense, and I had not ejaculated for last few days, the pleasurable pain was welcome

Even during cock slapping when my hand strikes the balls, the pain is so good... And only after reading this article I realised that there were a whole lot of people already into cock slapping, and the new thing I learnt was that of you slap the sleeping cock, it gets aroused... Great buddies

I don't want anyone slapping my cock. I can't see how this is a turn on, causing pain to your manhood. Anyway I prefer not to have anyone, or myself so this.

CathedInMO my sub is not into getting cock or balls smacked around, no matter how gently it may be done. Though occasionally I have thought about smacking his cock when it decides it doesn't want to "play". May need to do that one day just to prove it will hurt a bit.

Elsewhere I've posted I twice got spanked naked by a babysitter at about age 10-11. After the spanking, she touched me, I had been instilled with a strong sense of modesty by 10, and I was severely shamed, embarrassed by her touching. I got hard. I was too young to know the significance of an erection. I still remember my face feeling swollen and hot, my butt still hot and stingy from the spanking, and having a pleasurable feeling in my penis. The latter was cut short when she took her hand off & said, "Bad penis!" I had no idea why my penis was bad. She spanked/slapped my penis several times. There wasn't much pain. However the humiliation was intense. She finished the punishment with a scolding. The second time she touched me more, teasing me with a few slaps & scolds and more touching. My sister, who only knew about my being spanked naked, told my parents, who fired the babysitter.

With internet videos I found cock & ball whipping videos, I enjoy watching any video where a woman is doing something to a naked man, as I identify with him. I got into self cock whipping & testicle spanking acting out the video. I use similar implements and strike myself as it;s done in the video. Riding crop, short strap on a handle. rulers, paint stick. tawse, etc. I sometimes hit my penis over 200 times keeping up the hits with a singe video

The penis--at least mine--has fewer pain endings. Same blow on the palm is much more painful. The stimulation of a riding crop will often cause an erection, and an ejaculation. There is an old urban legend regarding men getting erections during nursing care, and the nurse reducing the erection with a flick, light slap with hand or pencil. My experience, and as one can see in videos, is that cock spanking, hard, may not make the erection go down but stimulate the penis.

I think I have a very low pain tolerence, when I change clothes, I lay my belt on the bed and when I slipping it on I wait until it's half way around my waist. Then I pull it hard and sometimes I hit and other times I don't but the anticipation is scary, and when I do hit, it's all I want. LOL

I do enjoy light to mild slaps to my cock and balls as form of punishment or added to a punishment session.... I’m not into severe pain but light to mild can be very erotic

Not one of my favorites to do ever.

I enjoy slapping my cock with a pair of Leather gloves ,as it gives a lovely feel