Bi Curious

Greatly enjoy crotch watching, and playing around with male genitalia; have been that way since puberty. Only regret there are so few opportunities to find like-minded men for innocent fun.

I consider myself 100% heterosexual. The thought of any physical, erotic activity with another man doesn't turn me on in the slightest.

Usually. Once or twice in my life (and not for at least a decade) I have been relaxed and thoughts have wandered to pleasurable touching and being touched by another man. Don't know quite why.

Not enough to make me want to experiment.

Totally straight for 64 years but so bi curious I tried anal sex with a guy last year. It was incredible. So hot and felt incredible. What was interesting was that I loved the feeling of cum dripping out of my ass after he came in me. I now seek out a partner as often as I can.

I can say with great authority that it is not "sick." All you are saying is that you want to enjoy sex and all the various and wonderful facets of good sex. I applaud you for wanting to do this, and hope you find someone to help make it true for you. We would be so much healthier as humans and sexual creature if we buried all that we fear.

Been straight with gay fantasies all my adult life. Happily married. I’ve slept with21 women.

Now I want to suck and fuck men. I haven’t yet because I’m a coward. In the closet.

You couldn't be more wrong. Read Alfred Kinsey's research.

I realize this is an old post, but it does not change that Kinsey's research is a half century old, and flawed to begin with. Very few people in psychological/sexual research would give his research any credence at all, and almost all have decided there are infinite variations between gay, and straight.

I realize this is an old post, but it does not change that Kinsey's research is a half century old, and flawed to begin with. Very few people in psychological/sexual research would give his research any credence at all, and almost all have decided there are infinite variations between gay, and straight.

If I am not mistaken, that was what Kinsey concluded from his research and questionnaires: that there is a sliding scale between the extremes of completely heterosexual and completely homosexual. I think he used a scale of 1 to 10 which would now most likely be thought of as too restrictive. But the basic premise remains correct: there are scales in the way people experience their gender preferences for sexual partners.

Love this post! I have always considered myself to be straight. I have been married 37 years, never any gay experience. I do find myself (I am 67) more bi curious--the penis thing fascinates me, to be honest--brotherhood of penis possessors! I do love seeing porn of men cumming...and i no longer fear being "gay"--who cares! Enjoy pleasure! Would love a masturbation experience with men, medical exam...wish I could figure out how...

I enjoyed my only two limited 'gay' experiences, both at a young age. At about age 13, my best friend and I got naked in our tent on a Boy Scouts camping trip. We cuddled, fondled each other, got on top of each other, and gave each other hand jobs. I did the same thing with a college buddy who turned out to be gay after I'd known him 3 years. He talked me into a weekend fling at his place. We jerked each other off a few times. When he wanted to switch to oral and anal, I felt weird about it and bailed on him.

Now, decades after college, I feel differently. I've experienced and loved every form of anal stimulation, except anal sex with a man. I'm not turned on by looking at hot male bodies anything like I am by looking at hot female bodies. However, I've become bi-curious enough to become somewhat attracted to a clean shaven, hard male bod as I think about what his cock would feel like inside me, and what his body would feel like slamming into mine as he fucked me. I'm pretty sure I'd love it, and I might even enjoy fucking him back.

Still my attraction to males is not overpowering and not to the entire male body. Hugging a man while french kissing him is not something I want to do. Still I want to try anal sex with a man, if only once to satisfy my curiosity. What holds me back is the disease risk and hurting my wife if she found out. It would have to be something she knew about in advance, approved of, and preferably watched and even participated in.

@WildBill2 Sounds like fun Bill, I'd let your wife watch or participate. 😉

Having discovered early in life my enjoyment of anal stimulation, I have pretty much stuck to just having females satisfy my anal desires. I was fortunate to find a "fantasy nurse" who would give me large, cleansing enemas, followed by intense rectal and prostate examinations. Near the end of our relationship, she introduced me to strap-on sex, which brought a new level of intimacy to our relationship. Now, I have expanded my desires to men. What would it be like to have a man fuck me in the ass? I would insist that he took care to get my sphincters relaxed enough so the experience would not be painful, and that a generous amount of lube be used. I would expect to enjoy the warmth of his penis inside me as well as his thrusts against my prostate. I would hope that as he neared climax, he would shoot a large load of cum deep into my rectum before withdrawl.

Just curious

I really have not had a hard cock in my ass, but I am open for it. I think the warmth and different sliding feelings and pressures would be a lot different than an artificial stimulus. I definitely love sucking cock preferring uncut, but would never turn down any clean cock. The warmth of hot cum sliding down my throat is sensational. When sucking a cock I really get into it in my head and usually ejaculate without any touching of my cock before finishing my partner. I cum so hard it will fly 3-4 feet. 😜

I've decided that I am bisexual since I've found myself attracted to other men as well as women my whole life. I've only fairly recently owned up to it and have had a few experiences with other men. Getting it from behind with a reach-around is one of the most intimate and sensual things I've ever experienced. I used to find others thru Craigslist until they stopped allowing those kinds of ads. DoubleList is a way to find others who feel the same way you do.

I’m straight but always enjoyed having my ass stimulated. I love using all kinds of dildos inside of me. So a few years ago I decided I’d try to get fucked by a guy. Of course we did lots of other things as well. Nothing is as good as a real cock in my ass. But I also enjoyed oral sex as well. Go figure. Now I’ve had lots of sex with guys. It’s really good.

I’ve been anally penetrated with dildos and strap ons but I have to say my preference is for a real penis.

I use to consider myself a straight man until a couple years ago when I met a friend who is bisexual and one night he started rubbing my dick and and then he took my pants off and gave me a really good blowjob and playing with my ass. It felt so good and was really turned on. I ended up giving him a blowjob.

I've never been attracted to another male.

But I do enjoy be examined by them in play scenarios. (Then again, I would derive the same pleasure if it were a female play doc.)

Although I have no desire to have sex with another man, I am curious about how it would feel to give a genital or rectal exam.

Does that make me bi-curious? Heteroflexible? I'm bad at labels.

You could possibly be bi-curious, not heteroflexible.

. . . . and yes, I like labels. It keeps all the ducks in a row.

Susie,

You wrote earlier that you are trisexual. What do you mean exactly? You'll play with anyone, male, female, straight or gay?

Eric

Susie,

You wrote earlier that you are trisexual. What do you mean exactly? You'll play with anyone, male, female, straight or gay?

Eric

I was most likely joking about being willing to TRY anything sexual (tri-sexual) at least once or twice.

You could possibly be bi-curious, not heteroflexible.

. . . . and yes, I like labels. It keeps all the ducks in a row.

Are there actually definitions of each of these and related terms (e.g., homoflexible, etc.) either on Zity or elsewhere?

Eric

YES, there are. They are also defined on wikipedia.

GOT GOOGLE???????

I read the first post with interest. I’ve never felt attraction to a man. But as I’ve gotten older, after a lot of anal play with many different women, I’ve come to wonder what it would feel like to have an actual warm, hard cock fuck me and ejaculate inside me.

As @SwitchableSusie pointed out, arousal is different than attraction. The idea arouses me but I’m not attracted to men.

It will likely never happen. But if I were still dating a certain someone from some years ago, it might have though. Knowing her, she would have sucked the guy to full erection, then lubricate him, then lubricate my asshole, then hold my cheeks open to guide his cock into me, then watch and video the action for awhile, and then suck me off and swallow as I cum while the guy cums inside me. And knowing her, she would have invited her best friend Lila to watch the whole thing.

Too bad I didn’t think of it then, coulda been fun.

It wasn't till I started getting into women's wear, that my bi interests began. I had been collecting women's girdles and foundation wear for my gal to wear and model for me. At some point I began trying her things on and it was like switch had been flipped. While I have no interest in a masculine man's body, I found myself wanting to show off to men and to have them do things to me as if I were a women.

Long story short, when I'm in my regular male attire I have no interest in bi activities. But, put me in a woman's girdle and bra and suddenly I'm open (both figuratively and literally) to all sort of activity with men! Over the years I've know other men, like myself, who in order to be with me, they have to be wearing something feminine. I've started a thread for this called "bi when dressed"

https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=1112614

I first became bi curious very soon after first getting sexual feelings. My first sexual experience was with another guy and it was really good. My bisexuality however is just sexual. As far as long term relationships go they have always been with females and I never had any desire to have that type of relationship with another guy, just sex.

My bisexuality however is just sexual. As far as long term relationships go they have always been with females and I never had any desire to have that type of relationship with another guy, just sex.

It's the way I am... and would not be surprised if most bi's feel like this. True that It's just sex - but do we take up bi activity because we aren't getting what we want from our female partner? Or, is it because there's no satisfying us sexually - the more we get, the more we want? That's my case, as it seems no matter what my gal would do, there was always something else/more I wanted.

I have had sex with both male and female. I married to a female and all the tops I have talked to wanted more then just a sex thing. It's just something about being bent over and used. Then having my ass filled with cum.

Sucking a guy's hard cock while fucking his wife had always been a fantasy of mine, so I guess I also fit in this group. I've had a couple of hand-to-dick experiences in my life and I find I enjoy the feel of a hard cock just as much as I like the feel of my cock slipping into a pussy.

As Ilovetosub just noted, there's something wildly exciting and pleasingly shaming (I'm speaking as a male, of course) about bending over and having someone play with my ass and anus. To have it done in front of friends would only add to the pleasure!

I have been in a threesome before, but it was with two other men. I met one of them in a forest preserve out house and he wanted me to fallow him home so we could have some naked sex. When we got there I was pleasantly surprised with his roommate being there.

I started to undress and so did both of them. I was standing there completely naked and then found myself in their bed with the one that I followed with his cock deep inside of me while his roommate was suckling my hard cock. They both knew what they were doing and it lasted for 20 minutes or more until I came

Pleasant times!

Let's face it. As we get older we are not as attractive and women our age including wifes lose interest in sex. I have found that an orgasm from playing with a man or him playing with you is just as good as playing with a woman. ENJOY IT!!!