Masturbation and Orgasm with Erectile Dysfunction

I am new here, just joined about an hour ago, so I don't know what to expect in the way of an answer or if I should even expect one. I'm a 63 year old male & have lost the ability to achieve an erection. I've drank more than is good for me most of my adult life and maybe that's why I can't seem to get it up any more. My question is, what's the best way for me to reach a good orgasm when I don't have anyone to help me?

Well first let me welcome you to the forum. There are lots of very nice and intelligent people on the forum who can provide many insights and guidance on a multitude of subjects based on extensive experience and very diverse backgrounds.

There are physicians on the forum and I hope they weigh in on this thread. I think there advice would be very valuable. That said I will throw in my 2 cents on some ideas that might help you achieve an orgasm.

I have had orgasms without having a full erection but it helps when you are hard. You could try getting erection pill like Viagra and see what happens and it might help achieve an orgasm.

I love to stimulate my prostate while I masturbate and that always seems to enhance the magnitude of my orgasm. There are numerous prostate toys on the market and you might want to browse some of the sex toy sites and get one.

Lastly you may want to schedule an appointment with a urologists and get checked out. The could identify a physical problem you may be having which likely could be addressed and overcome.

Good luck and again welcome to Zity.

I'm not a doctor either - but erectile dysfunction is often an indicator of other health issues - such as high blood pressure or diabetes. Many prescription medications also list it as a possible side affect. Definitely tell your doctor about your symptoms.

Then there's always the possibility that you simply don't find anything arousing anymore. For a lot of men, anal stimulation - and as ProV1 mentioned, prostate stimulation - can jump start the arousal process. There are several threads on this site that talk about men achieving orgasm through anal stimulation alone - or that they get enough satisfaction out of good dildo in the ass - that they don't feel the need to ejaculate.

I'm not a doctor, but a retired health care professional.

It's sort of critical that you talk to your doctor. Not and emergency, but sooner rather than later.

There's loads of reasons for loss of libido and loss of erectile capabilities. It can be a localized problem and it could be a symptom of something more critical. The only way to find out and get things going in the right direction is to get with a doctor and be open and honest.

I would agree with the other posts. When in doubt, see the doctor and be very up front with everything.

It's very difficult for me to believe that the world wide population of men, who are generally fixated on their manhood anyway, don't seem to think there is a need to see a Doctor for E.D. problems. If you took a poll and asked them if they have gone to a Doctor for their E.D., the most prevalent answer would probably be "not yet". I agree with every one here that, yes, you should see a physician about this and don't take too much time in doing it. Your sexual well being for the rest of your life hangs in the balance.

It's more than sexual well being if the ED is a symptom of cardiovascular disease or other systemic issues. It could be the difference between a long life and dieing young.

Wow, don't scare anyone too much ... it could also be something physically (more or less) benign like a thyroid disorder ... that can cause all manner of unbalanced hormonal levels ...

See a urologist please as everyone else has said. If no health issues are involved at least you could be prescribed something such as viagra. I don't have erectile dysfunction but I have taken viagra and the results were pretty amazing. Welcome to this site. It's a lot of fun and you will enjoy it.

If you knew how to effectively use 2 vibrators together, or whatever these gadgets are, you can follow this series, where these instruments are used to generate sensation and "get things moving" from various parts of the anatomy over various stages of treatment, ultimately focusing n the shaft & the glans until...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LDe7l1uL4aY

If you knew how to effectively use 2 vibrators together, or whatever these gadgets are, you can follow this series, where these instruments are used to generate sensation and "get things moving" from various parts of the anatomy over various stages of treatment, ultimately focusing n the shaft & the glans until...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LDe7l1uL4aY

Actually, what he is doing is using vibration and percussion to release fascial restrictions that interrupt blood and lymph flow as well as nerve and Chi energy that he believes are a cause of ED.

His work has its basis in acupuncture and Chinese Traditional Medicine.

Actually, what he is doing is using vibration and percussion to release fascial restrictions that interrupt blood and lymph flow as well as nerve and Chi energy that he believes are a cause of ED.

Is there anything risky with doing this procedure, either for a short or long treatment period?

Actually, what he is doing is using vibration and percussion to release fascial restrictions that interrupt blood and lymph flow as well as nerve and Chi energy that he believes are a cause of ED.

Is there anything risky with doing this procedure, either for a short or long treatment period?

If you believe that energy medicine is valid, random therapy without knowledge could adversely effect you. That effect would likely be very minor. The therapeutic effects of the treatment are also very minor while the results can be profound - releasing some minor restrictions results in reversal of symptoms.

IOW, unskilled therapy might not help ED while skilled therapy can help.

I am delighted to find this thread and applaud Jds4med for the comments and the link. I do holistic bodywork / energy work, and am a board certified polarity practitioner. The linked YouTube videos of pnpapa seem to be very realistic application of both western and eastern medical / therapeutic knowledge.

Erectile Dysfunction is only one of the many problems that clients / patients present. It may be caused by many issues: physical, neurological, psychological, etc. A common denominator of presenting issues among men with ED and other problems is often tenseness of muscles and fascia. Soft-tissue manipulation, manual or mechanical, can give real relief - temporary or permanent - for any of a host of ailments and is generally a benign and conservative therapeutic approach to releasing energy which has been blocked or diminished. Things can get complicated, though, in treating problems related to sex, especially when fees are involved. This is possibly more true in some cultures than in others.

It is instructive to me that some of the videos in the list accessed by the YouTube link refer to "happy endings."

As a medical professional, I always take a history and clarify both a client's limits and my own before proceeding with an exam and treatment. A "happy ending" to a treatment with me is when the client is satisfied with the level of health and energy he or she has available when we are finished. That may, as in ED treatment, involve orgasm and/or ejaculation, but oftentimes it is more healthy for the client to reserve that energy for other purposes to which he or she may wish to put it. If there is a climax, is this "sex for money"? Some people may think so. Some communities may outlaw it. It seems to me a real pity that issues of healthy physicality, sensuality, eroticism, and sex can become such political footballs.

In any event, I follow Hippocrates' lead: at least do no harm.

Please keep this thread alive.

Chuck

I'm only 32 and I've been having decreased sensitivity, less intense climax, and difficulty getting erect, though I still get morning erections.

A blood test showed my 'free' testosterone was on the low side. It'll be interesting to see what the next step is and, hopefully, this might be temporary. I read the testosterone gel is pretty darn expensive. Ugh.

Trimix penile injections help about 95% of men with ED achieve strong erections. The injections are simple and painless.

They are self administered, are covered by most insurance plans and are generally less expensive than Viagra and Cialis.

Just get a prescription from your PCP or urologist.

I may need this sometime soon, with AD meds and 65 years old. Is "Trimix" a drug name or a colloquialism for the injected drug ? If so, what is the real (trade or generic) drug name?

Eric

Ericmacson:

Trimix is a prescription that is a combination of 3 drugs that is prepared at a compounding pharmacy; you can't get it at just any pharmacy, you do need a doctor's prescription for it and it is usually mailed to you although you can pick it up if the compounding pharmacy is near enough to you.

The 3 drugs are papavernine, phentolamine and alprostadil - PAP/PHE/PGE). Your urologist will prescribe the proper compounding dose of each drug. A combination of 30, 1 and 10 mg/ml is pretty common.

Hope this answers your questions.

My ability to maintain an erection has diminished over the past 10 years. I have no problems with masturbation and reaching an orgasm. I can get hard enough without resorting to medication but sometime use an elastic "pigtailer" hairband around the base of the shaft.

I had two totally different experiences consulting a physicians with regard to E.D. The first was in the UK. There was no medical check and only a cursory attempt to gather information. I was told I was getting old and not to worry. On asking if medication would help, the answer was I was a bit old for that sort of thing.

The second was in a small town in Thailand where I had been teaching English. The doctor asked about my lifestyle, took B.P. examined my eyes and finally asked me to drop my pants. He told me it was age-related and handed my local GF a 4-pack of Sidegra (the Thai version of Viagra) with instructions on use and side effects etc. I received my first dose of 1/2 tablet that evening. Everything went well. Two weeks later I returned to the doctor who gave me a long-term prescription for Sidegra. The pharmacist happily obliged and handed the order to my GF for safe keeping.

I am 67, also have ED. But I have solved it, mostly, with testosterone therapy and ED pills, as well as tantra and semen retention, which help a lot!! I have learned to have orgasms without ejaculating, and they are BETTER than the old orgasms!! Would love to chat about this!

Another thought--I use cock rings, simple rubber ones, and they help a lot! Again, I would love to chat about options!!

I have also used penis injections, Trimix--they work great, very hard erections, and are easy to do once you learn. You do need a doctor's prescription, but they will do it for you.

@Teddyball, you may want to check out this link

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LDe7l1uL4aY

for ideas on physical therapy options, as shown here with a combo of vibration and percussion. Which would hopefully prove a viable substitute for meds.

JTMac--video would not play, was not available. Yes, I am doing several things to treat my Ed without pills. Exercise, yoga, meditation, diet, semen retention have all helped. Would be interested in seeing the video and what it suggests--can you give me a name of what it is about so i can google it? Thanks!!

I also do kegel exercises every day--squeezing my PC muscles many times--this does help with ED.

Check out youtube videos posted by VNPapa. He's a Japanese doctor who demonstrates techniques with his equipment on his real patients and comments on the progress he makes with them.

Every once in a while they ban a video or two because they think it's too sexual for youtube or something. One of my favorites was when he was using a vibrator in one hand and a percussion instrument in the other, and all of a sudden his patient started ejaculating.

He focuses on areas aside from the genital region before eventually getting closer to, and working on the genital area.

Interesting thread. I do not have ed but I do have some prescriptions that I take on an as needed basis that can make it more difficult to get it up than it would be if I had not taken them that day. Because of this I am often just not interested in any fun involving my penis if I'm still under the influence of these pills.

Sometimes by the time Sunday rolls around my pecker is too pooped to pop, but I still feel the mischievous need to squeeze out one last load for the weekend.

I can reach orgasm pretty easily (without getting an erection) by using a Hitachi Wand and an attachment called Hummingbird.

https://smile.amazon.com/Great-Gift-Hummingbird-Masturbator-Attachment/dp/B01F1AM7FY/ref=sr_1_2_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1509764877&sr=8-2&keywords=hummingbird+wand

I don't need to fully penetrate it - but some water based lube is still helpful. I use the cordless wand which has 4 speed settings. I start out on low and gradually work up to whatever speed feels best. It's easiest to stand over the sink. That way you don't have to be careful with the lube and cleanup is quick and easy.

I do have some prescriptions that I take on an as needed basis that can make it more difficult to get it up than it would be if I had not taken them that day. Because of this I am often just not interested in any fun involving my penis if I'm still under the influence of these pills.

Have you discussed with your doctor about possible alternatives for your meds? it seemed when my doc started prescribing blood pressure meds for me, she was willing to work with me o an alternative if i experienced a problem with sex. She specifically mentioned it.

I'm currently under my "use it or lose it" belief, whereby I credit not really having any problems to jacking off regularly.

Trimix penile injections help about 95% of men with ED achieve strong erections. The injections are simple and painless.

They are self administered...

See the video at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_n2vsEBphPc&feature=youtu.be (adult rated and shows a real penis)

Another alternative is Alprostadil which can either be injected or inserted into the meatus of the penis in as a pellet.

JTMac--I just watched the videos--loved them!! they are really erotic! I also wonder if this works--looks like vibrations are what doctor uses, on back and pelvis and penis. I know there is new ED treatment using shock waves. and there is Viberect...thank you for the videos--I will watch them all!!