Hot button words

A few that get me going:

Panties

Stirrups

Gynecologist

Examination (much more erotic than "exam")

I don't often hear words like " speculum" or "palpation" pop up in daily conversation. But if I did it would certainly make my ears (and probably my penis) perk up.

Examination (much more erotic than "exam")

Excellent concept, Wino, I agree that "examination" is more erotic than "exam." For some reason it sounds more technical and imposing than the shortened form. It implies a more formal and thorough process. A few other words that excite me are:

Penis

Circumcised

Uncircumcised

Scrotum

Testes or testicles

Hernia

Puberty and pubic hair

Puberty and pubic hair

Good one. I forgot about puberty/pubic. It's so erotic, but also very uncomfortable to hear. Makes me cringe when I hear someone refer to "going through puberty."

Good one. I forgot about puberty/pubic. It's so erotic, but also very uncomfortable to hear. Makes me cringe when I hear someone refer to "going through puberty."

It is cringeworthy. Even as an adult, the word or phrase are uncomfortable though nothing to compare to how it felt when I was between the ages 11 through 18. It was embarrassing having someone say the word and also knowing that my progress through puberty was one of the main things the pediatrician was assessing when the white briefs went down. I am glad I was unaware of the Tanner staging when I was "going through puberty" since it would have felt even more embarrassing knowing that the doctor was evaluating me with objective staging criteria. Also, I would have been dying to see notes from my examinations to know how I was staged.

For me, I don't have any sexual trigger words, but there are words and phrases that spark that feeling of being uncomfortable/exposed/anxious/excited.

I recall my pediatrician often used the word "privates" when he was about to commence the genital exam. The sensation of him moving from my abdomen, to unfastening my pants, lowering my underwear, and touching my genitals always felt so unusual that it's always stuck my me.

The two different doctors who have preformed my adult physicals both used the phrase "testicular exam". When I hear those words, I know that I'm about to expose my most genitals to a relative stranger who will then look, feel, and otherwise completely focus on them for the next 15-30 seconds.

Genital exams are a part of the physical exam that even though you know it's inevitable, it's impossible to fully prepare for or get used to.

I really like when a partner says "take me" or "have me", "use me" anything that has to do with he/she being mine to completely enjoy.

I've been known to use "take me."

I've been known to use "take me."

I will try that. I like it. I have been thinking about it and I have realised that there is more I could say that my husband will find exciting.

Enema, suppository, douche, mound, mons, vulva, penis, erection, ejaculate, jism - the hot-button factor of each, and others, varies with time and circumstance.