Special words in normal conversation

Ever feel funny about saying certain words in normal conversations like diaper, rubber, bedwetter, etc. that relate to our fetish?

Always makes me feel weird. Especially if I'm w/friends and jokes are made. My girlfriend knows I wear and we look at each other when the jokes are said with a weird smile. The "Oops I crapped my pants" SNL skit is often referenced on a night out by one of my friends

The reason for that is as stated, we think that the conversation relating to diapers, baby, incontinence, and paraodies on TV are somehow directed at us.

It's like this, if you have carnal knowledge of a murder, are you the murderer? NO, but you are an accessory.

With any fetish, that you have not become completely comfortable with, and are afraid, someone might discover your skeletons in your nursery closet, you will always be on your defensive guard against being discovered. If you ever get comfortable with it, it's just like anything else in life, it's a part of you, but it's not all of you.

If you let your fetish define who you are, it will consume and devour your life, family and social interaction lifestyle. When you discuss it, discuss it as if it were you were talking about having dinner, or going out for coffee.

Rehearse in front of a mirror. Get your facial expressions, voice influction, tones etc down pat, before you attempt to discuss this with a friend or significant other.

Also, learn about your fetish, medically, legally etc and know how to talk INTELLIGENTLY with anyone, including your doctor, lawyer, friends or even family.

As you get older, you WILL get more comfortable with the facets of your lifestyle that make you who you are. Educate yourself about why you enjoy what you enjoy. Then educate your partner, friend, family etc.

This is no different than someone coming out of the closet as being Gay or Lesbian. It should be accepted as such also. Some people's perception is that, since it involves diaper, it MUST involve CHILDREN.

Some pedophiles are adult babies and diaper lovers, just as some police officers like to wear diapers. Make sure you explain intelligently and emphasize, this has NOTHING to do with any minors or underage children PERIOD. If you are a pedophile, seek SERIOIUS medical and legal attention.

Years ago on AOL, some Gay Pedophiles, lured minor TB's and DL's into rooms to attempt to molest and meet them, and that's how some people perceive this fetish and some people are so closed minded, they want to ban AB/DL behavior for example in the UK.

Ignorance is not only bliss, but it's blissfully stupid. Arm yourself with education and knowledge. Speak intelligently about your fetish to anyone that asks or accuses you of something. It's about time we stand up and waddle!

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The reason for that is as stated, we think that the conversation relating to diapers, baby, incontinence, and paraodies on TV are somehow directed at us.

It's like this, if you have carnal knowledge of a murder, are you the murderer? NO, but you are an accessory.

With any fetish, that you have not become completely comfortable with, and are afraid, someone might discover your skeletons in your nursery closet, you will always be on your defensive guard against being discovered. If you ever get comfortable with it, it's just like anything else in life, it's a part of you, but it's not all of you.

If you let your fetish define who you are, it will consume and devour your life, family and social interaction lifestyle. When you discuss it, discuss it as if it were you were talking about having dinner, or going out for coffee.

Rehearse in front of a mirror. Get your facial expressions, voice influction, tones etc down pat, before you attempt to discuss this with a friend or significant other.

Also, learn about your fetish, medically, legally etc and know how to talk INTELLIGENTLY with anyone, including your doctor, lawyer, friends or even family.

As you get older, you WILL get more comfortable with the facets of your lifestyle that make you who you are. Educate yourself about why you enjoy what you enjoy. Then educate your partner, friend, family etc.

This is no different than someone coming out of the closet as being Gay or Lesbian. It should be accepted as such also. Some people's perception is that, since it involves diaper, it MUST involve CHILDREN.

Some pedophiles are adult babies and diaper lovers, just as some police officers like to wear diapers. Make sure you explain intelligently and emphasize, this has NOTHING to do with any minors or underage children PERIOD. If you are a pedophile, seek SERIOIUS medical and legal attention.

Years ago on AOL, some Gay Pedophiles, lured minor TB's and DL's into rooms to attempt to molest and meet them, and that's how some people perceive this fetish and some people are so closed minded, they want to ban AB/DL behavior for example in the UK.

Ignorance is not only bliss, but it's blissfully stupid. Arm yourself with education and knowledge. Speak intelligently about your fetish to anyone that asks or accuses you of something. It's about time we stand up and waddle!

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Very well thought out and said. This is very good advice for all. This is the kind of light that needs to shine on us, not these sideshow type daytime talk shows that make it appear people who indulge in this fetish are all nutcase weirdo's. I don't care how well meaning you might be, appearing there is like going to a clown collage to speak on a serious subject. No disrespect to anyone who makes there living as a clown or clown collage per say.

Luvs It.

My favorite word in the english language is diaper. i have no idea why. i have been in many conversations where the word diaper or depends comes up. I wil right away say soemthing about whatis wrong with Depends, they are great, want to see mine. Most people just look at me, others however, think about it.

i am becoming very opennow aboutmy diapers, of course ihave an excuse and i don't readily share the fact that i am AB.

Got that deer caught in a headlight feeling? I get excited when these words come up. My wife will usually look at me with a knowing smile or a wink, especially if I'm wearing diapers at the time. I think she wants to share with someone, but is too embarrassed to try.

Right on wendi, i'm the same way wen anything like diapers come in up in convos and all and i'll be like well i sure as hell wouldn't know wut to do if i didn't have mine or something along them lines 😶. granted i'm basicly sayin yea i wear diapers, but most people take it as a joke or like i'm not being serious wen in fact i should just moon them :😃 And it's tru to that the word diaper just has that ring to it, like the ice cream truck is coming or something 😁

The other day at work a co-worker of mine announced that he had to run or he would pee his pants. I said why don't you just get somthing you can depend on, like I did. He did not respond but I am sure he got the idea that I wear diapers!

I feel the same way. I ushually come up with some excuse to walk away or change the subject

The strangest one is watching diaper adverts on the TV. I feel as though my wife is reading my mind, and realising exactly what i'm thinking. All the same, I kind of like watching them...

When you mention some different words pertaining to thins of that nature you wonder what is going through the other persons mind. Or if they are into it.

The longer you constantly wear diapers the more comfortable you will become in them, regardless what is said around you. Diapers are our kind of underwear, and who cares what others might think. Diapers are part of my life and I love them. If it is a proble for you just get lost. It is just part of growing up (again).

Anything "diaper" usually gets my attention in a conversation, or tv ad,...my g/f and I even call depends pampers"...cause i love that word. 😉

When certain words, jokes, or even that infamous Jerry Springer episode comes on T.V. I do not get uncomfortable. Only my fiancee knows of my diaper fetish and she has a Bondage fetish of her own. We do exchange the knowing glance occasionally or even laugh outright when we are alone about certain things. The laughing is normally in response to how wrong people have it about someone with a diaper fetish. While I agree with most of FullDiaper's post about being comfortable with yourself, I feel that the nature of a fetish is different from sexual orientation. I do not think we should subject other's to our fetish simply because we believe it is our right to do as we wish. Some people will never understand or even want to understand. For them ignorance is bliss. I say leave them be. Live and let live.

I use to get nervous about certain words to but now doesn't bother me anymore

jonjon

I know I said a couple of posts back it doesn't bother me any more, but that's just not true, though I've gotten a little more comfortable about it. I guess it just depends on the situation and whether or not I'm wearring at the time 😳

jonjon

Doesn't bother me one bit.... i'll be like HI! I'm Mr.Smith (cough"diaper"cough) how's it going today? not really like that more on th eline of yo i'm D and it's just another day where i'm "Pimpin My Pampers" so how you doin? and so on and so forth... but when eva i get the chance to drop a diaper reference or indwindgo... i'm blowin up the spot with the love peace and diaper-ness and no one suspects a thing... but maybe it's in my delivery of the joke or my everyday personality, who knows... all i know my words are special in normal conversation :😃

~D~

Get this. About 15 years ago my dad and his new wife were working a word scramble puzzle and I commented that I never could do those. They were struggling with a word and I took one look at it and blurted it out, "diaper". I know I must have turned as red as a fire engine. My step mom looked at me like, hum... are you hiding something here?..

All the time. My heart will skip a beat, and I swear to god it feels like I blush if someone says the word Diaper.