MARRIED MEN: How often do you masturbate, and where?

About four times a month for me ... I prefer the shower (less messy!)

Usually in the shower - same reason. Although I'm no longer married, I've masturbated 3-4 times a week for as long as I can remember.

I usually try for three to four times a week now - "use it or lose it" mentality at work. Besides, orgasm is till one of the most intense human feelings available!

Less as I get older lol

Less as I get older for me too. To make matters worse, I don't get as much enjoyment out of it either, and I have to work harder at it. If it keeps going this way, in another year or tow it isn't going to be worth the effort. Finally, then, I'll be a good boy.

About a dozen times per month, give or take. I'm 46.

About 8-9 times per week

My husband masturbates 2-3 times a week.

I have seen him do it in the shower and in bed.

I'll join you in the shower....about once a week 😃

Usually once or twice per day, and my wife and I have sex about 3-4 times per week. I usually do it in bed- my wife keeps a towel and lube in the nightstand for me, so she doesn't have to keep up with my drive all the time!

Right now I'm working in another city for an extended period of time so I'll masturbate 4-5 times most days. Hey, I have uninterrupted privacy in the hotel room and lots of time on my hands, why not! I'm 51 and still can't get enough.

I'll get a hard on and stroke several times an evening. I only masturbate to ejaculation a couple times a week. Obviously there are exceptions from a few times in a day - to maybe all week without. My favorite is into a sink full of hot soapy water - plunging into it at the critical moment.

I can usually count on my wife for one hand job a week - some uninspired and some incredible. And intercourse about once a month. Menopause can be a bitch.

Usually in the shower too...probably about 3-4 times a week, but i'm trying to introduce a chastity device into our play, so that might be decreasing soon!

Varies... When I'm home, not often, because my wife & I have a very active sex life. I travel a lot, though, and sometimes masturbate 3 times a day; and sometimes don't for 3 days... Usually in bed; sometimes sitting at the computer. I'm 62.

A couple times a month when the family is not home and when I get horny ..lets refresh this a lot of times ..

Probably at least two or three times a week and mostly in the shower. I Iove the feeling of the shower spray on my cock head as I'm cumming.

Sometimes I'll just stroke it and enjoy the feeling for a while. After a few stroking sessions I Have to either finish of get my wife to help. She doesn't want sex anymore, (We are 66 and 64) but she still gives a great handjob. I would be absolutely content with a weekly blow job though.

One a day usually after getting home from work, more on days off. Mostly with the help of this forum and similar material.

3-5 times a week, usually in bed

Usually in bed, nightly, reading stories from Literotica.

I see a lot of responses "in bed". Are any of you masturbating while your wife is present?

If so, what is her reaction?

3-5 times a week. Usually in shower, sometimes in bed.

It probably averages out to about twice a week. I think it is important to ejaculate as you get older in order to exercise your prostate. I don't think you can OD on masturbation so the more the better.

Usually 2-3 times per week in my bedroom.

I masturbate on average one time per week. I usually do it in the morning before I get up. I leave much earlier than my wife and usually wake up before the alarm. My wife is usually asleep in the bed next to me when I masturbate.

I masturbate on average 4 times a week. I do it usually in the afternoon since my mind has been randomly thinking about sex throughout the day and it is a good diversion from my work day. I also feel it is good to exercise my sexual anatomy at my age (59), and have the perspective of "use it or lose it" to avoid ED. I work from home and just go into our bedroom and put in a DVD of some gyno exam or BDSM porn that I have. I have a higher sexual appetite than my wife, and she is content with sex about once every 2 weeks.

I got married when I was 30 and am now past 70. When I was first married, I did it most nights after I thought that she was asleep. Over the years, that tapered off to nothing, and now viagra or a vacuum machine does not do much for me. Sometimes I can cum while taking an enema, sometimes not, but that is about the only time that I can, if at all. I think that the "use it or loose it" idea is a myth, for we will just loose it over time, regardless of amount of use.

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I try masturbate every day to keep my prostate healthy because my wife is seriously ill and has not any interest in sex. When she was healthy, we intercoursed 3 – 4 times a week, so I did not need masturbate at all.

Not as often as I would like! Too much to do with too many people nosing around the house for a wanking every day, most days though.

I masturbate every time my wife leaves the house. This can be as often as twice a day. It insures that I last longer on the offchance I get to make love to her.

... It insures that I last longer on the offchance I get to make love to her.

Yes. I find I too often time my masturbation sessions with the prospects of sex. Far enough from the expected encounter to insure maximum arousal and orgasm, but close enough to lengthen endurance. If it weren't for that (considering DW) I suppose I would let fly with a wank far more often.

When my wife is traveling, I'll masturbate daily. When she's home it drops to a few times a week (usually in the shower.) While we'll masturbate each other, our solo masturbation is done in private.