MARRIED MEN: How often do you masturbate, and where?

I posted below. We both have now started watching each other masterbate at times. We do both mutual masterbation as well as solo. As I stated below, when I masterbate , I like to have her lay her head on my chest and watch as I stroke. I get off having her watch me pleasuring myself. When I get close to ejaculating I say ” I’m cumming!” She pushes my on prostate externally as I spurt.

She masterbates with 2 vibrators. One goes in her vagina and smaller one on her Clit. I lay beside her with my head down by her genitals. Verbally encourage her. She sometimes calls out right before she orgasms, “ Fck me hard”! She uses the vaginal vibrator on high And fcks herself hard.

To the question of frequency, In total I masterbate 2 to 3 times a week. Sometimes as soon as alarm goes off, if I am horny I immediately begin stroking. Keep a hand towel under my cock to catch ejaculate.

Highly recommend trying this form of masterbation. We all masterbate, this makes it intimate.

My average would be 4 times a week. With us both getting older, my wife is less interested in having sex, I get it, it's part of life. We used to, at least, have sex or mutual masturbation sessions pretty regular, but now she's somewhat disinterested. My drive has not slowed down, so I masturbate to “clear the pipes and sweep out the cobwebs”. It's not a secret from her, because when I try to get a little frisky, she'll usually say “Not right now, go have some quiet time”. Occasionally, she will accommodate me with a hand job.

I have been married for 44+ years, we haven't had sex in 15 years. I had my prostrate removed for cancer 14 years ago so that is the main reason. I cannot get an erection or ejaculate, but I can still get a limp dick orgasm every so often when masturbating which I do once or twice a week. Which is how often I have always masturbated even as a young unmarried male. I have only been able to ejaculate when masturbating by humping standing up or laying down. The only time I would ejaculate while on my back is when my wife was on top and I was in her vagina. I have masturbated many times in the shower but have never been able to cum, would always have to finish by humping my pillow.

Once or twice a day. Wife not interested in sex anymore but my cravings are more intense now so i have to get releaf on a daily basis. I like to lay on the bed stroke and rub my hole while i have thought's of someone going to insert something up my rectum.

Not at all right now just had surgery but once healed will be back to 2 or 3 a day just really enjoy the feeling and have the need to satisfy my needs.

I’ve been married 22 years and sex life was great until 3 years ago when she went through Menopause. Went from 3-5 times a week to maybe 2-3 Times a Year. Last Time we were intimate I was almost a year ago. I'm a 52 yr old diabetic and have ED & BPH but a little Viagra works wonders for me. I've never lost my high sex drive. The last 3 years I masturbate 1-3 times, almost everyday.

The lack of sex/intamacy plays hell on ones mental/stress level daily. I could never bring myself to cheat on her because I love her. I do get a massage every couple months. Never more then just a massage, even if offered..

I used to hide my masacistic side from my wife. She was aware I liked some pain play during sex, but nothing to the degree I truly like. I got married before I became comfortable with being gay. My wife says she knew before I did, and liked the fact I was different from other men. Our sex life has been good, but I can't give her oral sex, I just can't. Being a masacist, I have recently decided to stop hiding my kink, and now torture myself in front of her. She says she can't hurt me, so I torture myself, until I cum. I'm getting where masterbating and pain/torture, are one and the same. I am working on making her understand that I need a male play partner to torture me. She is starting to understand. I have long self torture sessions, that lead to great masterbation sessions. I'm learning about edging, it's great practice to make masturbating last longer. The longer my cock can last, the more torture I can endure.

If you're into masturbating, you have to check out a edging app to help with practice. I think there are many out there. I have found one called “edge me please”. It has multiple levels to chose from,and length of time to edge. It helps with ED, which I don't have, but am gaining some welcome new control. I do the edging exercises with different nipple clamps on. I find the more I torture my nipples, the longer I can extend cumming. Pain and masturbating are becoming very close companions.

I am now 91 years of age, and only came back to live in Thailand this past twelve months. Wife number 3 (Married for 15 years) is not much into sex. I can go any time. So in the shower (we have separate ones) I toss off either with a vacuum pump, E -stim, or just by hand. But before Covid, I used to go into Ubon City, twice a week for Oil Massage- and always got full on sex with the same female. But that has stopped, as I say, due to Covid.

Wish I could find it here in Phi Bun Mangshan. My penis has a very large knob end. Due to lots of pumping! I am very lucky.

@Nudenow69 - I think you really need Estim- If not already using it?

I would estimate 4 times a week sometimes more sometimes less.

I masterbate everyday, even after a round of intercourse with my wife. She loves to see me completely naked and shagging my penis and the way I shoot the sperm out.

She herself gives me a kinky blowjob / handjob at times.

She loves playing with my uncircumcised penis, retracting the foreskin all the way back and again covering up the exposed glans.

2-3 times a week at63 due to wife has had 0 interest in sex for last 20 years which led to increased interest in enemas catheter use injections and anything adding new spin on masturbation

At least once a day, usually twice, and occasionally 3 or 4 if I'm exceptionally horny. A month or so before and after physical exams, I would say at least 3 times per day thinking about them and what's coming up or recently happened. The only exceptions with the frequency is if I'm really sick, or on family vacations and the opportunity doesn't present itself. I jerk off in the bathroom because it's the only place I have any privacy.

Since my wife has no interest in sex, I usually masturbate about 3 times a week, always while sitting at my desk looking at erotic pictures, watching movie clips about pelvic exams, enemas or spankings that I have saved or reading erotic stories I have saved and edited to my liking. Sometimes I will masturbate twice in the space of an hour or so. I am in my late 70s. It doesn't get as hard as it did 30 years ago and there is not nearly as much cum as it was back then and I miss that pulsing feeling as the cum was pumped out of me. But the orgasms still feel great!!

Since my wife has no interest in sex, I usually masturbate about 3 times a week, always while sitting at my desk looking at erotic pictures, watching movie clips about pelvic exams, enemas or spankings that I have saved or reading erotic stories I have saved and edited to my liking. Sometimes I will masturbate twice in the space of an hour or so. I am in my late 70s. It doesn't get as hard as it did 30 years ago and there is not nearly as much cum as it was back then and I miss that pulsing feeling as the cum was pumped out of me. But the orgasms still feel great!!

When I read this, at first I wondered how one of my old posts got up here.😞 All I can add is one time I was laying in bed beating it while she was in the shower. She came back before I was done and asked "What are you doing?" I replied "What you won't do for me." So she stood there watching until I finished.

She came back before I was done and asked "What are you doing?" I replied "What you won't do for me." So she stood there watching until I finished.

And how did she react after you were done?

Superior condescension or disgust, smiling at the folly of men or totally uninterested? Or anything else ...

And how did she react after you were done?

Superior condescension or disgust, smiling at the folly of men or totally uninterested? Or anything else ...

She just walked away

I have no need to masturbate. My wife wants it every night. Now if I can just get or to do it more in the morning. Since I'm more into it when I first get up.

Once or twice a week, depending on the number of times she's out long enough for me to really take the time to enjoy it, and not be in a hurry 😄

I have quite a routine now, on tuesday, because she works at her office (as opposite to home office) and does some singing in a choir in the evening. Those days, I can do it two, and even three times ! And then, I'm done for the week 😁

I have no need to masturbate. My wife wants it every night. Now if I can just get or to do it more in the morning. Since I'm more into it when I first get up.

You'll get no sympathies from me...

If the opportunity and mood exist I’d masturbate daily but average 4-5x/week. A lot depends on the time and intensity of workouts. Places include bathroom, shower, bed and outside when conditions are right. It’s such a wonderful relief and experience.

Every day; but living in close quarters it's difficult to get the privacy and I don't want my gal to think it's a putdown to her....

I also should mention that I can only do it while I'm looking at something, generally something on television.

Do you clean up after ejaculating in public toilet or do you just slip undie back on without cleanup?

I usually masturbate every day that we don't have intercourse. Usually, this would be in the bathroom in the morning while waiting for the shower to warm up or in the shower itself. If I go on a business trip, or am otherwise by myself, I will masturbate in bed.

The shower too...probably about 3-4 times a week

I'd say on average over the years...twice a week. Bathroom or shower.

Myself and my partner have included masturbation into our sex on a few levels.

She likes to watch me giving my cock a good tug, this playes to my CFNM kink.

She enjoys rimming me whilst I lay down and wank off, I can reach around and finger her, this plays to my Dom and her sub nature. So I guess masturbation is always there in one way or another most days!

If we are apart for a few days I would wank every morning in bed or in the shower.

I did and do it always. As I was married, we did it mutual from time to time or she watched while I was masturbating. My current partner doesn't really like it so I masturbate if she's too tired for sex and/or while she's sleeping. I enjoy to have the privilege to work from home where I generally have relaxed time to celebrate my expanded jerking off session almost daily while she's off for work.

Usually I do it two or three times a week, never in the shower. I don't mind the mess, in fact, I actually like it. I usually whack off before I start my working day after the kid and wife left for school and work. I usually kick back at my pc with some porn and enjoy a couple of minutes of me time. Seldom my wife and I masturbate in front of each other to mix up sex.

I’ve been married for over 30 years, and I masturbate at least once a week. My wife and I no longer have sex. Unfortunately, I am very disappointed with my marriage.