How and why do you get spanked?

I honestly wish I knew why I like being spanked. As a child I loathed being spanked, but suddenly when I became sexually aware I wanted to be spanked and enjoy spanking men. Is it perhaps watching siblings being spanked?

Was it because sometimes getting bare butt spankings as a child aroused sexual feelings which I never realised as a child? Or is it just physical?

The warm sexy feeling that a smack on my bare ass smack arouses me the same was as hands on my breasts arouses me? But of course without spanking my sex life would be dull I think.

So perhaps I should not question why?

I get spanked almost every week as part of foreplay..

My husband does it normally with a hand on my bare butt.

Punishment spankings are delicious in many ways but not frequent. At times I punished very hard with a wooden hairbrish or strap.

While I am the spanker in my household I get spanked once a month. We've evolved to me over the wedge and her using a heavy lucite paddle. These continue to very red and very sore, with the spanking not really starting until I wish it was over.

I get spanked just because I love it!

I fantasise frequently about getting spanked. I've only actually been spanked three times as an adult. I wish I could find a young woman who would give me regular spankings, just to keep my bottom red, to make sure I wouldn't dare take my pants own for any other girl. It would be so embarrassing to admit to a girl I fancied, that I had been recently spanked across another woman's knee.

Getting spanked by my wife is a big stress reliever for me. And as I mentioned, she also allows me to visit a pro domme twice a year.

I usually get spanked for being rude to barn customers, not doing all of my chores, procrastinating, bad language, and not being dressed neatly when I have to give a riding lesson to some lady's brat kids. I think I'm a better husband and man because my wife spanks me.

I have been spanked by a friend for behavior issues that she believed deserved a sound spanking. She always spanked me otk, face down and bare bottom up starting with her hand and moving to her hairbrush and paddle. I spanked her the same way when her behavior merited a spanking.

I'm usually spanked for being badly behaved. My wife usually first drags me into the room , undresses me and then places me over her knee and gives me 10 smacks on the behind

I get my naked butt paddled by my wife for what a reasonable person would call seriously bad behavior like drinking or stuff when out with my guy friends---She puts up with a whole lot before she has to vent her frustration by paddling me--I got it coming so we both agree--- We both seem to know at the same tiem when a bare paddling has to settle things---I take my clothes off and bend over the bathub and put my hands flat on the bottom of the tub and she paddles me and it hurts alot----then things are great I do not seem to need it for at least 6 months---- One rule: no one knows except the two of us ever. Since its just my wife and I no shame or humiliation involved just a damn sore butt and one very sorry guy

I've begged my husband to spank me if he is ever upset with me but it has never happened... but a week ago I left my towel on the shower bench and he came into the closest and sanpped me twice pretty hard with my wet towel, I have not left it in there again.

It was doing wrong as a child and learning not to do whatever you did again.

I've been fascinated by spankings my whole life. I hated getting them as a child, but enjoyed hearing others talk about them.

My husband was never really interested in them like I was. Until I started asking him to spank me before sex. Recently, I explained to him how much it turns me on and I like the anticipation of being punished. So, now he "punishes me" when I do "bad" things. I told him I wanted to feel different implements, but I want him to be in charge of which one and for how long. So far he has spanked me with his hand, wooden spoon, wooden hairbrush, paddle, and belt. It's made our sex life better because he knows how much it excites me.

I get spanked for three different reasons: good girl spankings, correction spankings, and punishment spankings. My Dom says that my belt spankings that I get each session are kinda like our version of maintenance spankings, so I guess it’s really 4. Correction means I was out of line, but not bad enough to be truly punished. Usually he’ll just use a light cane and a stingy paddle that he made to redirect me, and our school paddle to ground me. Now he has this thing that he’s made that I call his “rod of correction”. It’ll get you too!

I get spanked because I ask for it. I have a disciplinarian that I can call whenever I feel like I need a session over her knee. We discuss why I think that I need it and she gives it to me. She makes me feel like a kid and it does make me feel better. I haven’t been to see her for awhile and after writing this I just might have to call her. I’ll let you know………

We usually use spankings before sex because I love the sebsation of it or as a part of bigger scenes or roleplays.

Sometimes we arrange "saturday spanking" which is more like funishment, including some corner time and usually no sex just after it.

When I am in a relationship and there is spanking, I am usually the spanker. However, I have been spanked by girlfriends. I had one girlfriend who enjoyed spanking me. We would pretend that she was my teacher and she would give me a test with the understanding if I did not get at least a 70 on the test, I would get a spanking. The test was hard and normally I would get a grade less than 70. As a result, I would go over her knee for a good hand spanking.

I prefer to use both maintenance spankings and disciplinary spankings. Disciplinary ones are longer, harder, usually with a paddle or something that stings a good bit. Yes, sometimes there may even be tears. Maintenance spankings occur whenever I feel they are necessary...better not to have a proscribed schedule, so that my sub is always on edge a bit. Both are administered while I tell a sub why they are being spanked (sometimes just because I wanted to see her cute butt!, and sometimes because she has been a naughty naughty girl).

I get spanked because I asked my wife if she would. She said I will do whatever you want but it has taken a long time to get her to spank me hard enough, she still doesn’t understand why I like it but she does now paddle my ass good but she will tend to want to stop when my ass starts getting red. She absolutely doesn’t want to be spanked which is okay with me although I would love to spank her but for me I love to be spanked more than I want to spank, so spanking has been added to our play sessions.

@Corn_Flower What all is involved in a “good girl spanking” for you?