Never found a Mommy

Hi,

This is my first post. I am a 49yo diaper lover and sometimes adult baby. Through the years, I have had several encounters with woman and diapers but they were the professional babysitter type. I have, in all my time of wearing diapers, never found a woman with an interest in being the Mommy. I have met women that want to be in diapers, but it seems this desire of mine (and yours, i guess) is very one sided. Most everybody wants to be in the submissive role. Lots of men and women want to be diapered, not a lot of people wanting to do the diapering. I was just wondering if my experience seems typical or have others found this to be true as well?......Peter

I had a mommy a while back. I found her an adult baby website. Luckily she lived in my area. She would leave work and come to my house on her lunch hour and change me from my always wet diaper to a fresh dry one. Then she would breast feed me. She has huge breasts and she has always milked them to keep them producing milk. She would feed me from both sides until I was so tired from sucking that I would fall asleep. She would put a fresh pair of plastic pants on me and go back to work.

The main thing i found out is that a mommy is not just going to find you you actully have to start as friends and get your relationship moving and all the girls i have loved and loved me they like to see you happy

I guess I could say, "I've been very lucky, findind women to be mommies"

Most of the women I've found have either been nurses, or worked in the medical profession. CNA's, MA's, LPN's and RN's deal with diapers usually on a daily basis, from Pediatrics to Geriatrics.

Most enjoy being able to play with their "toys" as they call them at change time. When you work in a hospital or nursing home and find a patient with very nice toys, they can't play with them, they have to be professional, but if they have an adult baby or diaper lover, they get the best of both worlds.

Also, most don't mind wet or messy bABy's and diapers, since they're used to dealing with that TOO.

I have even heard of people putting ads in local papers to hire caregivers and being honest, but paying well, like $10.00 an hour for four hours of work a way, morning, afternoon and evening changes and feedings and since most CNA's and MA's don't make much over minimum wage, they accept, and spell out what they will and won't do !!

Hi, I would do almost anything to find a care giver who was interested in baby sitting me. I have no control over when I wet my nappies but I would only dirty a nappy if I was made to

Ok boys never give up hope about finding your mommy out there. i have found a wonderfull girl who accepts me and my diapers and even gets into it herself a lil bit. but just remember if you go around hopunding girls here with be my mommy change my diaper stuff at first you will be single forever . get to know them first and chat about life in general not just your fetish and diapers

That truley is key!. So many make that mistake and just try and want someone so bad they push too much and scare them off; if you take your time get to know em... sooner than you realize you'll have someone who says.. awwee... look at that cute lil baby... i think someone needs a bummm change... c'mere sweetie... let's get u all nice and dry.... dont' make a fuss or I'll use the handcuffs... after your diaper change I'll make you a nice baba we can sit on the couch and watch Barny and friends while I feed you your formula.

See what i eman ? and that was from a girls mouth not mine LOL. just remember the girl has to feel connected on mental levels first then fetish after. seeing if they date you or whatever the truth be told is your going to be in eachothers company for however long and need to connect like adults once ina while . baby time will follow soon enough for you just dont be so hard up for it that it scares them away .

like they are feeling the only intrest this guy has with me is as a momther figure to them and not as a partner to them.

Mommys are hard to find. Good daddies too. I bet I would have more luck if I didn't keep my ABDL so secret to my home/online life...but going out to ageplay events, etc and really dolling it up is scary. The thought is that if I were to live out these fantasies online first then they would be easier in person. Idk.

I feel for you, bro. 😃 huuuugs

I've found a few great mommies over the years. But most lives in other parts of the world or are just to far to drive to. Then again this post is 2007 and it's 2014 now so alot has changed I guess woman are becoming more open to the idea of it all.

The thought is that if I were to live out these fantasies online first then they would be easier in person.

It never does, I'm still really shy and nervous about it. I have talked to these ladies for years and I still can't get off my ass to go see them.