Do you ever feel guilty

I know most people do not accept DL, but I do not think being DL is a sin; therefore, I do not feel guilty now 😁

Wearing diaper is much better than smoking which harms the health of smokers and that of other people.

If wearing diaper is wrong, how about smoking and drinking alcohol ?

Have you heard someone cause traffic accident because wearing diaper ?

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It is a rollercoaster ride to wear diapers for me...

from extreme excitement to a low of guilt.

I wake up in the morning and can't wait to put on a new diaper, and by the end of the day - if I have masterbated -

the euphoria has ended - then the guilt. So i think it is connected with masturbation somehow, and not with diapers...

The diapers are just another form of underware/bathroom....

These is my thoughts...

I would get these feelings a lot in the past, I would drive miles to buy a pack of nappies, sometimes a large 40 pack and not just a 14 pack of pampers!

After using just a few I would get a sudden complex and an imense fear of being caught and would then tie them up in a black plastic bag and drive miles again to dump them in a large public bin hoping I wasn't seen!! I would try to tell myself I was just being stupid to have such an interest in wearing nappies but then several weeks later do it all again!!

Also and strangely, I find my desire stronger during the summer than I do in the winter but I don't know why.

Happily though since meeting my financee and sharing my desire for nappies and her acceptance to the point we can now share it I still get odd times where I have a feeling of guilt but it now only lasts a matter of hours now whereas before it could last a lot longer, weeks sometimes months between wearing nappies. Since finding acceptance I don't really find it much of a problem anymore.

Yeah i get this sense of guiltyness although i think thats all part of why i like it, not in a depressing kinda way, but it feels quite good... dunno if that makes any sence to anyone 😜

I am 60 years old and wanted to wear diapers and plastic pants all my life.but in my late teens early twenties I felt guilty and ashamed so I got rid of the plastic pants, they were all I had to make feel like a baby.Then I felt depressed even suicidal and ended Turing to kill myself ending up in hospitals and seeing shrinks which did not help in the least.But after reading first child care books and toilet training books I got a better understanding didn't feel as ashamed as before then I started ti find books such as Letters and Forum with adult diaper fantasies in them and then Rubber Life and I realized I wasn't the only One anymore. Years later since Ive been on the internet I feel even better. I just it was easier to find a soulmate in my area.

Sometimes I think my life would be easier without the diapers and plastic panties as far as meeting girls go, but when I thing of the pleasure I've gotten from i can't feel guilty

I have/had similar feelings of guilt. Somehow I always knew this wasn't something everybody did. Although everybody knew what being diapered was about. But starting at a young age you don't want to be called a baby, have to act though and sometimes lie about things, whilst knowing you feel different about some things.

Still all this applies when you grow older, and discuss opinions and feelings rather than toys. And again I find myself laughing some things away.

Keeping these things for yourself, it builds up somehow. When you find the time to give in to it, these feelings are set loose, and make you feel guilty. That's how I experience it.

I have yes, but you have to accept yourself for who you are, and not worry about what others may think. That's how I got over my guilt trips anyway.

See my reply to Therapy today. I also fought depression because of the need. I finally sought help and came to grips with my AB/DL side. That was 15 years ago and since, I have allowed myself to completely explore my AB/DL personality needs without guilt, including being in diapers for months at a time, wetting every night and sucking on a pacifier with my wife next to me in the bed at night. I haven't fought depression in any of the years after seeking help.

I've been married for 27 years, have two grown children, have led a very successful career. My wife is very much in love with me, accepts my diapers and let me enjoy my needs without any conditions.

You can lead a perfectly normal life with your diapers. The first thing you need to do however is to accept who you are and start to love yourself. Once you have done that you'll realize that although your need for diapers is a part of you it isn't all of you. My wife has no problem with my diapers because I have so many positive qualities that make the diaper

thing seem like nothing.

No never because i have been in them my whole life and love them.

Wearing diapers sort of makes me feel weird, but they are just my kind of underwear and that is that. I do not make any attempt to hide the fact that I wear diapers. I even like the bulge that they cause in my jeans. There are people at work that know I wear diapers. I never leave the house without wearing a diapers, waterproof pants, plastic pants and a onesie to hold up a soggy diaper, and I LOVE IT! I have learned that I just need to be ME and not care what others might think. No guilt here. :😃

I think you need to have someone you can be with in diapers and you need to tell your wife/husband before you marry them or look on the internet for an ABDL to date.

I too feel the guilt of hiding in my room with a diaper on and know that it is a part of me. When I move out soon I will find a diaper wife and enjoy myself.

NO WHY SHOULD I I wear diapers at night my boy friend is a bedwetetr it makes him fell better becuse I wear too It is also a great way to live in diapers at night you wet then and you really enjoy the felling of wet diapers and you get to make love in a wet diaper too so NO

Nope! What's there to feel guilty about? As long as it's not interfering with my social life or other aspects (like, for example, if I choose not to do shit with my friends cause I wanna masturbate with my diapers), then it's not harming anything. It's not changing anything in my life except for the fact that diapers happen to turn me on. Women still turn me on, I'm not spending all my cash on diapers at all, I'm not becoming a pedophile or anything fucked up like that, etc. There's nothing wrong with liking diapers as long as it interferes with nothing else.

I think plasticpantslvr has a good point - "at least we don't hurt anyone". I think our fetishes are more healthy than those that require severe pain and degradation, not that I condemn this (I am open-minded to all fetishes) but it is interesting that those kinds of fetishes are much more widely accepted and 'mainstream'.

I am incontinent now and have to wear nappies. It takes away any guilty feelings. I wouldn't go back to being dry for anything.

I went through a period of not wearing diapers. I began to feel odd. Here I am an adult man wearing nappies? The feeling went away and I began wearing again. It's pleasurable. I would be uncomfortable telling another non-DL person, so is that guilt? I just want to go my own way, doing what I want in private. ???

I think most of us who wear them for fun / pleasure (and not because we really need them) go through this at some point. I know that in my case, all through my teenage years I felt horribly guilty about it. Also, as this was in the pre-internet 1970s, I also thought that I HAD to be the only person in the world who loved diapers and therefore, there must be something wrong with me. It wasn't until I was over 21, after months of going to porn shops looking for something--anything--relating to diapers, that I finally found a small ad for Amber Enterprises (small newsletter published by Mommy Florence for adult babies) that I realized I wasn't the only one.

Still, I went through the usual "binge and purge" cycle. Usually it was: Meet a girl. Fall in love. Then I'd decide "I'm done with diapers!" and throw away all of my diapers, plastic pants, ABDL stuff. After a few months, I'd start getting "diaper horny" (usually after something set me off, like visiting someone with kids and seeing a big full diaper pail or a pile of wet diapers on the floor in the bathroom and smelling that wonderful smell, or any other sort of "trigger"). This would build and over time just drive me crazy. Then I'd have a big argument with or break up with the girl, leave her house, slam the door, get in my car, and leave. Then the little "light bulb" would go off over my head and on the way home I'd stop at the store, buy a big box of toddler-sized Pampers (in the purple boxes) or a package of the largest sized (usually 24x24) prefold cloth diapers that they had, pins, baby oil, Baby Magic lotion, etc. I'd then drive home with a raging hard-on and as soon as I got there, I was right back into diapers again, loving every minute of it, and thinking "Finally, I'M ME AGAIN!"

During this era I had one girlfriend who--for a while--let me wear diapers. For the first two years of our relationship she would not let me into her pants. But she did let me wear my diapers. Finally she agreed to have sex with me, and as soon as she did it was "Now that you have this, you no longer need THOSE." Of course I didn't see it this way and this was one of many things that led to us fighting and eventually breaking up. Then it was back to the same old "cycle" again.

Around the time that I turned 25, after many rounds of the "binge and purge", I finally decided "This is ridiculous, I love my diapers and I'm never going to give them up. So I might as well stop throwing my stuff away just so that two months later I can buy it all again, accept that I am who I am and make peace with it." At the time, I just assumed that this meant that--while I'd still have relationships with girls--I'd probably never get married because I'd never marry a girl who didn't accept my diapers, and I'd probably never meet a girl who did.

This meant that, any time I dated a girl and the relationship started getting serious, I'd out of necessity just tell her about my diapers. If she didn't accept it, fine, I'm no worse off than when the relationship started. Then, believe it or not, I started dating a girl and after a few months, when it started getting serious, I told her my secret. And she was just fine with it! In fact, she realized that putting me in and seeing me in my diapers actually made her horny. A match made in heaven! That's why I married her.

Morals of the story: Be yourself and don't feel guilty about it, we aren't hurting anyone else in any way by wearing and loving our diapers. Be honest with those you have relationships with, maybe not at first, but, after you get to know each other and it starts getting serious, tell them and give them a chance to accept you for who you are, or not. Either way, at least you know and that way there are no secrets. If they don't accept you, move on and try again. As I used to say, "Girls come and girls go but you ALWAYS have your diapers."

If you keep trying, eventually you will find somebody who will accept the ABDL side of you. Lots of women (especially once we get into our 30s and 40s) seem to enjoy taking care of a "baby" and, in lots of cases (like mine) they know that as long as they let you wear your diapers, you'll be very faithful to them and love them appropriately in return!

That being said (what I said, below), there is one aspect of my loving diapers that DOES make me feel guilty. Throughout my life, I've missed out on lots of fun activities with family and friends--vacations, events, road trips and such--because I instead wanted to stay home and enjoy some diaper time.

It's not that I didn't want to go off and do what everyone else was doing. It's just that I saw these opportunities--my wife taking my kids to visit family and such--as a time I knew I could be alone in the house and openly wear my diapers. Get them all out, spread them out on the bed, get out my diaper pail, not have to worry about hiding it for a few days, just living the life of a diaper wearing toddler again for a while.

These days I've found ways to fit most of my diaper fun into the rest of my life, I'm very good at wearing them around the house under my clothes and not being detected by anyone other than my wife (who knows and doesn't care), so--even with kids still living at home, I can manage.

But, for me to go "all out" and go around in nothing but a t-shirt and my diapers, or poop them and wear them all morning, or whatever--well, those are still things I can only do when I'm home alone or home with my wife (and with her, if I load my diapers I still need to go off to the other part of the house so she doesn't have to smell them, but, otherwise she doesn't care).

So, it's always the situation that everyone else wants to go to the beach for the weekend and I politely decline, saying that I have work to do around the house, or whatever. I mean, it's not like I can come right out and say "Oh no thanks, I'm going to be spending the weekend wearing diapers and sissy clothes and being a great big baby!"

Now that everyone is getting older I sometimes feel guilty over the missed time I could have spent with my kids when they were little--but didn't because I thought I'd go nuts if I didn't instead spend the time by myself having another diaper binge.

No why would I feel guilty, I'm not harming anyone and I could be doing lots worse.

Thats the weapon I use to my parents.

I felt somewhat when started wetting on things then my wife gave [her] opinion.I,ve been in diapers for 30yrs now.

I wrote a reply to this question on Quora.com I hope it helps you a lot. When I was 12 I was put back in diapers for medical reasons. I was scared to death and found the only people who were able to help me were DL?TBs. I am not a DL but it hurt me a lot when my DL friends told me how badly people looked down upon them. I wanted to help them and started doing research to find the answer as to why they liked diapers. What I found I posted on Quora. I hope it helps to give many of you some reassurance that there is nothing wrong with you. I hope it is okay to use urls here too.

There is a lot to this question that good child psychologists are well aware of but many others are not.

This is about what is known as the Transitional Phenomenon and the Transitional Object . This phenomenon is something that all children experience and certainly not something to be taken lightly.

I do not normally reply to posts about Adult Diaper Lovers but after thinking about this I’m thinking I should, because an adult DL is normally a child or adolescent DL first. This is not about Infantilism you are always a diaper lover first.

First let me reassure you there is not anything wrong with you. Yes this is very normal for some boys and girls, though not as prevalent in girls.

There is nothing that you should be afraid of. This is much more common than people realize.

This phenomenon happens to a child in infancy.

This is about the baby’s first personal possession the first comforting possession known as the Transitional Object that helps the child to console themselves during times of anxiety, when the mother is not there for the child, and is carried with the child all the way through adolescents. And yes a diaper can very normally be that first possession. Just as easily as a teddy bear or a blanket. This is not something to be ashamed of or afraid of. All children experience this phenomenon.

It is not unusual but not something people know much about.

Do not shun your child for this. This is about the bond between the infant, child and adolescent and the mother that is crucial to good healthy development. (This is not about regression.)

This is something very important throughout a child’s life.

Please read my reply at the following post. Please read all of it, it is very informative.

How common is it for a 12 year old to like wearing diapers?

My reply is, Why do boys become Diaper Lovers?

https://www.quora.com/How-common-is-it-for-a-12-year-old-to-like-wearing-diapers

It is a long post but try to read all of it. The last part is just as important as the first.

Some people would call this a fetish but the doctor whose paper I referenced my reply from did not feel that liking diapers in childhood nor adolescence constituted a fetish although it was possible to develop as an adult.

For a person who is a diaper lover wearing diapers is not in itself a fetish. When wearing them takes on a more aggressive nature in affect for sexual gratification that is when it becomes the fetish. When it comes to Infantilism this is a paraphillia which is a derivative of the fetish. You are always a diaper lover first.

It is important to refer to the usage note of the following url.

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It is important to notice that the term can be and is also used to imply "less mainstream sexual practices" but without necessarily negatively implying any dysfunction or 'wrongness'.