Am I a submissive

'Submissive' is a shorthand label for one who gains satisfaction from following the instructions of others. It may well be that the only area one allows this to happen is in the doctors surgery (office) or hospital where one has been conditioned usually since childhood to conform and comply. In other areas of life you can be completely different or opposite. SO is this an innate trait only given an airing in this specific area - but features massively in your fantasy world no matter how you behave in your vanilla life? Not wise enough to answer! But enjoy exploring it in others!

"submissive" is more than just taking orders,,, it´s more about power

Submissive not sure. Even if you were extremely dominant you would still need medicals and still have to undress so really is out of your hands so sub or dom really does not come into it.

After having satisfied my fetish for painful injections in the bare bottom from a nurse dominatrix while bending over the lap of her receptionist for enhanced embarrassment, the three of us discussed this aspect. It was acknowledged that I have a dominant personality but that people like me are often turned-on by reversing roles and submitting to the control of a strict nurse.

I wouldn't say that you are purely submissive if that is all you crave. I would say YES a strong interest in things medical and in a strong doctor figure, but that is a different thing from being submissive. I like the terms top and bottom myself because I like a guy who will take charge, but I like to be able to give Input into a creative play scene with a guy who will allow and use my interests too - not quite the same as pure submissive I don't think.

I haven't read the entire thread ... but what's in a "title" dom/sub?

This is about having fun, regardless of your idiosyncratic behaviors. It is just plain fun to "be done"! doesn't matter what the "title" Dom/sub; top/bottom, master/slave. the labels aren't important, having a frolicking good time(however you define it) is what matters.

According to my own feelings, you are submissive. My knees knock from anticipation whenever i am undressed for a spanking. It sounds like you are also, in your own way!

I'm not sure you are submissive . You just might have a doctor fetish.

I agree with Moppy here on this one.

Mashie

I don't know this for sure, but I suspect there is a difference between being submissive and being a bottom. I don't feel like I am submissive, but I like certain things done to me - like anal sex, genital play and mild-to-moderate spankings (and I like doing things to others as well). I like being a bottom and also topping, but prefer the bottom. Appreciate anyone's thoughts on this.

I see being a bottom as not the same thing as being a submissive. Just my two cents worth.

Mashie

My story is somewhat strange was average got married then had mishaps in bed my wife sit me down and said no more wet beds she had me return to diapers.There was no funny business but she became a lot more dominate with everything she is happy as long as I,am in diapers to keep things dry this is due to being a diabetic.It seems never right always know my place never thought would be here.