How do you prevent soreness?

I love my bide seat! No more anal abrasions.

Inexpensive (around $25) home bidet systems are available for installation just under your toilet seat and connects to your toilet's water supply system. Adjustable spray system works really well and reduces toilet paper use by 80%. “Clear Rear” is one of these.

NEVER use “baby wipes” or any other cloth-like product with the idea of flushing it down the toilet when done. You're just asking for a $200 plumber's bill to come out and remove the “stuck forever” wad of old wipes which will eventually plug up your waste pipes!

My wife and I will typically go have a machine colonic the morning of if we’re going to have his/hers kinky ass play that evening. One single 3” insertion of the speculum. Not much wiping is required afterwards because your butthole is squeaky clean after a session.

We have a simple gravity setup downstairs, but sometimes we just enjoy having a third person therapist give us a colonic. I see an attractive female therapist, her therapist is a man. We both sometimes attend each other’s session, which thrills my wife. She gets worked up watching Mandy spread my cheeks and slide the jelly coated speculum up my ass. I get worked up simply knowing my wife is watching another woman penetrate me. I’m not ashamed to admit the insertion feels awesome done by Mandy. She hits my prostate every time. Mandy probably knows I get my kick’s from it because of the goosebumps on my naked ass. We keep that kinky enthusiasm to ourselves. A nice buildup of feelings until we get home.

A bidet is nice and comfortable - but you still have to use TP to wipe or blot. The air drying systems (at least the one we have) doesn't really dry you off unless you sit there for a long time - and it can get pretty hot and irritating. Simple blotting and a shower is an easy way to 'clean up" without irritating.

Curious, why do you need a series of enemas before anal play?? Even for deep anal, I wouldn't think more than one or two should do the job.

One thing that helps is: As the enema expells the expulsions should get progressively more watery with less and less solid matter. The more watery the expulsion becomes, the more I dab, and the less I wipe.

Also, I only clean off when I am serious about getting up off the toilet. If sitting there is an option, that's what I do.

That cuts down the number of touches and reduces the rawness.

I always use a washcloth and warm water to clean the anus between enemas. If I’m giving a series to an enemate, I use the warm washcloth on her.

Occasionally, my most active enemate will come out of the bathroom saying she is not sure if she is clean. I always tell her she is fine but I’m going to use this warm washcloth to prevent soreness.

She has never complained about soreness and I always use Prep H when we finish her series. She says she enjoys that.

After my partner watches me expel my enema, he pats my bottom with a warm washcloth and applies a generous amount of A+D ointment both internally and externally. Not only does this soothe any soreness I might have, it helps me relax my sphincters so that deep penetration by his well lubricated penis happens comfortably.

Dab your paper & not wipe as that causes irritation.

I know most people don't have bidets, but I do, and I use it every time to clean myself after I poop or expel enemas. Mine does have hot and cold water so I will set it to warm and wash with just a little bit of hand soap using my hand, then wash my hands after using the bidet. When I am doing multiple enemas and expelling many times throughout the day, I have found that I can just run warm water over my anus and be clean. This reduces irritation from too much usage of the liquid hand soap. I should have mentioned I do not use toilet paper at all because the wiping absolutely causes irritation and is worthless when it comes sanitizing your anus. My final tip is to try putting a little dab of coconut oil on your anus after you have expelled your last enema. I have found that to be very soothing and will reduce any irritation after a 3 to 4 enema session.

Something I've had pointed out to me is that today's tiolet paper is not what it used to be, most big brand tiolet papers have all sorts of chemicals in them from the manufacturing process etc. Or for various marketed so called features like for example many brands tiolet paper has various Bleach or other harsh detergents or cleaners still in decent concentrations left over from when they were provessesing the product in the manufacturing facility or some brands ad coloring agents or antiseptic agents or fragrances etc.

And when you consider that your anus might already be sore or irritated to some degree from the enema solution or the constant watery expulsions or straining of any sort etc. Then you add the friction from wiping and the possible micro tears etc. And now at last add the possible chemicals in the tiolet paper that my leach into the moisture and or skin and it makes sense that soreness might be in part because of the unknown stuff in the tiolet paper or the force with which you wipe etc.

@Brad242023

Get a bidet attachment for your toilet. After an enema, I use the bidet followed by a soft, warm, wet washcloth and then dry with a fluffy towel.

10 oz of magnesium citrate.

give yourself a good 30 minutes for it to work.

After the Magnesium Citrate cleaning that's when you go to work cleaning the rest of yourself out.

Sometimes I can use up to three bags for a flushing.... depends on the color that comes out

usually you're good when you start getting a lot of clear mucus.

I use Vaseline for the lubricating Grease..

you might want to try some water soluble Anal or vaginal solution And it squeeze bulb and inject it....

make sure your toys are greased or well Coated before use.....

very seldom do I ever get that raw feeling.......

if you get that try some witch hazel on a paper towel.

don't flush the Paper towel down the toilet.......

A bidet is a must. When I bought my home, 2008, I had a new kitchen and bathroom. Bathroom revamp included new toilet and matching bidet. The plumber thought my request a little odd, but did what I wanted. More recently we made our bathroom into an ensuite, subsequent changes to our house now mean we have a second bathroom and a guest toilet, and again have matching toilet and bidet. As @Iris1858 says a wash with a soft wash cloth after every enema and then baby lotion means, despite daily enemas, my anus is never sore.

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@Brad242023

@Iris1858

Definitely get a bidet attachment or install a bidet attachment PLUS, as my wife and I have done.

In our master bathroom, we have a small, separate room (more like a closet at 3x6 feet (1x2 meters)) for the toilet which does not give us enough room for a full-blown, proper bidet unless we want to remodel which we don't.

We came up with a pretty clever and very nice alternative.

Next to the toilet there is just enough room for a small water heater (2.5-gallon capacity (9.5 liters)) because it is so nice to clean off with water at 105 degrees F (40.5 degrees C) rather than the cold water from the pipe. This water heater attaches to the cold-water line, between the wall pipe and the toilet. Coming off the water heater I installed a line with two separate hoses with their individual attachments. One hose has a bidet sprayer for cleaning the outside of the bum. The other other hose has an enema nozzle for cleaning the inside of the bum.

Originally, I had two different bidet sprayers.

The first sprayer was used for cleaning off the backside and, additionally, could also be pressed against the anus to inject water into the rectum, a.k.a. an enema. However, the bidet can spray with quite a bit of intensity like a super jet spray which can tear the tender skin of the rosebud and that produces soreness which we are trying to avoid because we don't like soreness in general and it's not good for backdoor play.

The second sprayer was for my wife for her frontside. I didn't want her to have to use the backside sprayer on her hoo-ha and get cross-contamination after I practically stuck it up my caboose for an enema.

Turns out, my wife never used the second sprayer to clean the front side or her foo-foo so I exchanged the second bidet sprayer for an enema nozzle. This way we can get nicer enemas or I can get a quick clean out for anal play without “injuring” the rosebud with the jet of the bidet sprayer.

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