All the years I was an enema taker and an enema fetishist I considered myself straight and in many ways, I was homophobic. How could two persons of the same sex enjoy "playing " with each other or having sex with each other. I even had another guy that had the enema fetish and one day he suggested that he give me an enema over his lap. I vehemently refused and gave up my friendship with him. My third marriage was a great sexual experience, including spanking , finger sex, receiving enemas and having fun with sex toys. There were other issues and she divorced me three years ago. Being lonely and alone I certainly enjoyed masturbating to my own tune. One day I put another male into my enema fantasy and "Voila" I got a wonderful conclusion. I became bi-curious and now I consider myself bi. I have had many live meetings and enjoyed most of them. I am bi-dominant and enjoy spanking, giving deep anal massages, sensual enemas, cock play, and using sex toys! Why have I changed? I don't know but I am going with the flow.
- wh00