Guys: Which do you like: A hand job or a blow job (pick one) and why?

I never refuse either! Whatever she's in the mood for because I know that if she's in the mood it will be orgasmic!

It's like a surprise egg: I never know what is her plan, may be a hand worked ejaculation or a blowjob with happy ending, or something else..... I like it all and prefer what is actually done.

I may be a minority here but I would sooner a lover gave me a good hand job than oral sex anytime. Maybe I haven't met women who were particularly keen on giving oral but while I enjoy the visual aspect for me the sensations of a good handjob (ideally with well lubed snug fitting shiny latex gloves) are so much better. Of course I'd rather stick it in her butt than either 😃

Handjob. I've never had a great blowjob - so I may be bias. All of my girlfriends could hand job me pretty well, whether it was a dry one or a oily lotion massage - they have all been amazing.

Assuming we're not discussing our own hands-on activities, my first ever handjob involving someone else was pretty good, considering she had no real experience or knowledge of what to do. I was pretty young and horny, and she was even younger and curious I guess. We were joking about, showing our bits, and I told her what I liked and she just started doing it for me. I couldnt quite believe it. I laid back and she pumped and rubbed me laughing her head off. No one had ever touched my cock before, so I was dealing with a lot of emotions. I came in about 3 minutes and we both sat there in the woods in shock. I returned the 'favour' without much success and well went back to our friends.

Handjobs during my life have sometimes been quick and messy, some slow and sensual. Girls sometimes start with a blowjob but end just jerking me off. It's all good. I've enjoyed handjobs in cars, in the bath and showers, in a jacuzzi, on a night flight and even at work.

My wife is more inclined to give me a handjob now more than a blowjob. Its a regular planned event, on the bed, naked, with massage oils.

For me it takes a combination of both.

I think I’ll go for a blowjob yet to try it hope to get one some day. I can imagine it will be awesome

Handjob is more intense! Maybe my wife does not know how to do blowjobs, or maybe I'm not sensitive enough for blowjobs.

I prefer the vagina anyway.

Well Blowjobs are obviously better as even in novice hands, the stimulation is focused on the exposed glans where most of a man's sexual response is. Hand jobs are more concentrated on the skin below the head, where there's more physical movement but much less feeling.

But I feel nostalgic towards handjobs in the same way as when watching a DVD or streamed film, I feel nostagia for the long forgotten VHS video player. Oh if we ever dust the latter off we're shocked just how poor they are, but back then that was all there was, and we were plenty happy with them.

I think many women are very skilled at blowjobs; even a bad one is still very good. But there's just something wrong about women and handjobs; I've rarely known one who didn't do them like she was struggling to change gear in a borrowed car.

Hand job. I’m not all about someone slobbering on my dick. And I like having the guy giving me a handjob up close to me so I can play with his dick at the same time.

On a ''technical'' point of view, you can easily do yourself a handjob, not a blowjob.

Blow job hands down.

Blowjob for sure. I think guys give better blowjobs - guys know what they want / like. When giving head I like to slip a finger deep inside the rectum, find the prostate and massage it as it can really enhance the orgasm. I usually do this with the guys legs up over my shoulders. I've never had any complaints.

@Svensson Not the same to rub yourself and have it done by somebody else who controls your erection and climax!

I would like a blowjob. It is fun and more pleasurable for me. I do enjoy it.

A blow job. Nothing beats a nice warm mouth around me.

I prefer a BJ but, it's easier to convince my wife to give me a hand job.

A slow handjob with lots of lube is a winner. Vary the length and speed of the strokes, hold the shaft at the base and pull the skin firmly down, use 1 finger to rub under one area of the glans and then move on to another, rub fingertip up and down the frenulum, use a fingertip to massage just the pee hole and tease out the precum, polish the penis head with the palm of your hand while avoiding themost sensitive nerves along the ridge of the head. Bring me to the edge then stop abruptly then start all over again. To add to the excitement, tie me up and disregard any request to finish me off.