Birthing Role Play, Strict or Nice Doctor?

I like the doctor to be strict and stern. A it’s for your own good type doctor. I like them to be encouraging but very firm with their instructions.

When I struggle with pain I’d expect him to be very firm and to the point

For me, what turns me on most in a birth or exam scenario is a kind and reassuring practitioner who tells me what is happening and how it’s going to feel, and praises me (the praise is the best!) but I’m going to be in pain and that’s going to be challenging for me, so they will have to be firm and give me instructions, orders and talk me through it when something needs to happen urgently or they can’t stop.