A real spanking can be extremely painful, I say this as I've been on the receiving end on many occasions throughout my relationship and eventual marriage with my current wife, We agreed from the beginning of our relationship that two people with a dominant personality would never work, I had always been very dominant in all aspects of my life be it work or play and for the most part called all the shots in prior relationships, yet something was always missing, That extra spark of chemistry was always what held me back from marrying,
As a bodybuilder from my early teens I've attracted many beautiful women over the years, some very good girls that most men would give anything to marry yet something was missing, I was introduced to my wife by a local TV news reporter I was dating at the time, She was just divorced and tagged along on a dinner date with my girlfriend so she would not be alone for the evening, I felt instant chemistry and soon after we became very good friends and continued our friendship long after my relationship ended with the news reporter.
It all started when she invited me for dinner one night, I was in the process of buying a new car and excepted her offer while I was in the dealership early in the morning not realizing how time consuming the deal would take and many hours passed before I closed the deal and I lost track of time and went home to take a shower and change my clothes, when I got in my new car to drive she started ringing my cell phone as I was a half hour late, when I answered she was nice but in a stern voice asked if I had a accident, when I said no and that the car deal took longer then I expected, her reply was so its my guess that your cell phone had no reception in the dealership, I'll talk with you when you get here and hung up.
When I arrived for dinner about forty five minutes late the door was open and the table was set for one, She looked me in the eyes and said in a cool but stern voice if you were my boyfriend or husband I would pull your pants and panties down and spank your bare ass till you cried like a small child and stand you in the corner to think about your actions, You can sit and eat by yourself. I was stunned and followed her orders,I had never had a woman speak to me like this, Hanging on her chair attached to a leather strap was a dark brown thick wooden style school paddle with her name engraved on it, my heart pounded as I finished my dinner all alone with music playing in the background,My mind was racing, how could a small petite woman talk to me in that manor, How could she refer to my underware as ladies panties, emasculated with shame my ego told me to leave but her total dominance and control made me stay.
I found mysel wanting to please her, I picked up my dinner plate and glass and went to the kitchen and started cleaning them, It was then that she appeared and told me that when I'm finished that I should open the bottle of wine on the counter serve her a glass and join her in the living room, Her power was intoxicating, I poured her wine and joined her. I was told that never again would I disrespect her and if I ever had a chance of being her boyfriend I would follow her rules and regulations, She told me she was done wasting time dating rude, selfish and arrogant boys, it was at that moment she walked over to me took my chin in her hand and looked me right in the eyes and asked, Do you understand me? Yes was my answere, Good she said while still holding my chin firmly in her hand, Then Stand up go to the kitchen serve yourself a glass of wine come back and sit at my side and listen to the list of requirements I'll have going forward.
I was not spanked that night and was sent home early after our conversation, However I've been spanked many times over the years as we live in a 24/7 FLR relationship, My pants and ( Panties ) in her own words are lowered for all punishments, we never role play, it's not a game, She still uses the dark brown heavy wooden school style paddle with her name carved in it, I receive twenty to sixty strokes depending on my offense, I can say this that on most occasions ten strokes makes my eyes well up over twenty brings tears and sixty leaves me marked for over a week, She is very petite and powerful and just a few strokes can be excruciatingly painful, I stay in position as ordered or the punishment can and will continue. I've spent many nights In the comer pants and panties lowered in shame, she still refers to me as a boy or her boy, She is very private and would never let anyone know or see my position in our marriage. She has slapped my face in public on a few occasions but always out of sight of people. I'm more in love with my wife today then ever before, we don't role play our relationship is real and we love each other. In our neighborhood people call us the fitness couple. No one in our family or circle of friends would ever believe that she wears the pants and has the final word in all asspects of our marriage. It works for us.
Yes real spanking can be very painful.