Why is so exciting for somebody wearing diapers??

Okay, guys ... somebody may should try explain for me, why? Why is so exciting for somebody wearing diapers, or making somebody wearing diapers. I mean sexually ... Why?

If there was such a topic before, sorry, I didn't found, but I'm trying to understand, how can be this "light-pedofile" thing be sexually exciting. I did never understand this, and I'm not vanilla. At all ...

Margy, I'll do my best to explain my perspective if you'll please not make assumptions that diapers have anything to do with pedophilia. I'm a father of four, and have been married to a wonderful woman for almost 10 years. My youngest kids are 5 (twins) and never during their diaper years did I feel like my fetish conflicted with them. In fact, their diapers grossed me out more than anything. Almost like a teen boy having a cute teen sister. She's still his sister and he can't think of her in that way.

Here's my experience and perspective:

I was a bedwetter growing up, and remember many embarassing situations where I had to wear a diaper under my pajamas in front of friends, relatives, and family. Getting diapered in my parents bedroom and trying to walk without the telltale crinkle of late 80's - early 90's diapers was impossible. They were bulky, noisy, and just plain obvious. My babysitters could tell I was wearing diapers, my friends could tell, and of course, my family knew.

In spite of trying alternatives for a few years, I was told I would have to wear diapers again at the age of 11 because we were going on a road trip and my parents didn't want me peeing in the tent-trailer or hotel beds. My mom bought me a package of generic "adult briefs" (diapers), and I remember the feeling of complete vulnerability I felt the first time I put one on. I had no pride; who could feel pride as a 12 year old boy wearing a diaper? I felt vulterable, embarrassed, and I didn't have a choice. It was almost like I was submissive to diapers. The diapers were a requirement, and I wasn't allowed to choose otherwise.

Waking up in the tent trailer in our campsite at 6:30 in the morning the first day of the road trip was a new experience. Everyone else was still asleep, so I quietly got out of bed and stepped outside in a t-shirt, sweat pands, and diaper. I was well aware of how wet, and therefore swollen, it was, and how loud my diaper crinkled with every step I took toward the public bathrooms. I walked past dozens of other camp sites, hoping no cute girls would see me. I arrived at the bathroom aching to pee, but not willing to have an accident in my diaper while awake. I felt like that would be a new level of lowness. The bathroom had a 4 digit pin to get in, and for a moment I had a pang of fear that I may have forgotton it. I often imagine what would have happened if I had. Standing there squirming from an aching bladder as I punch in number after number, trying to get the lock to open. Losing the battle as my already soaked diaper fills even more because my immature body hasn't grown up yet. Feeling the embarrassment of standing there wet as a kind mom rounds the corner and sees my predicament, and lets me in to the bathroom just a little too late.

These feelings of public helplessness and vulnerability have stayed with me, and I've often tried to think of how I might recreate them in my life. Never have I imagined anything to do with a child, because the object of a diaper fetish is a diaper. It's how a diaper makes us feel safe yet helpless. Secure from accidents but vulnerable to ridicule. Submissive to the demands of our body and the confines and telltale signs that a diaper brings.

After being on this site for a while, I've read about some weird stuff, but I can see how we're all the same in some ways. Some people like to have a vibrator in their panties in public, with someone else holding the remote control. Some like to be humiliated like a gimp (pulp fiction), some like imagining being at the mercy of a doctor or nurse, and some like being given enemas and such. I think in the end, we all either like to be at the mercy of someone or something, or we like to be the one who is dominating someone else. Our objects and methods are all different, but our desires are all similar.

I'm not an "adult baby", but I can say with confidence that they would concur with the above. They aren't objectifying kids, they are enjoying the feeling of being the helpless, vulnerable person and having someone else be in control.

Thank you for asking instead of simply writing us all off as perverts. Most of us are real people with real jobs and real families, trying to make sense of our streak of uniqueness without going off the deep end.

Thank you very much for your answer ... hm, how can I say ... I see, for you, diaper wearing is something what releases you from all the adult-stuff things ... Khm, having a mom, like yours (11 years old you said with diaper??????). Sorry ... Okay, I see your motivation, what brings you to wear baby-things ... if as an adult is too much the "real world", there is always a place ...

What's interesting is my mom was actually a good mom. She wasn't mean or trying to embarrass me, but she just didn't know what else to do to manage the situation. An 11 year old can make quite a mess when they wet! Today, kids can wear Goodnights or underjams and have just a little bit more dignity, but those weren't an option when I was growing up. I also remember a family we knew who had kids my age, and the oldest four all were bedwetters too. I specifically heard their diapers and saw them in the trash on numerous sleepovers, and they were ages 7-10 when I was 13. I still keep in touch, but haven't had the nerve to ask if they share the same feelings. I think it's a part if life though. Seemingly insignificant events can have a major impact on sexual mapping during the early puberty years.

Huhhh, it's real? Really real what are you talking about? You are not kidding? Really ...?

Just to understand, me (born in the ends of '70-s) was not wearing kid-diaper since age 1,5 year. Till than I was totally used with toilett.

Khm, in Eastern Europe. You know those barbarian people ... 😉. It was a very big shame at age 2, when we went first to kindergarden, when somebody was using still diapers ...

Khm, and you know what a mother or grandmother can do in this kind of situations? To teach you, how to be a "big boy" or a "big girl", who is using the toilet by his/her own, and proud of this fact. Okay, it's true, the mother or grandma has to have much more interest by this in their son/daughter, than in Spriengfeld or Oprah-show ...

Some of us adults have to wear nappies have no choice so make best of it turn it into a game helps get on with life

Yes, my story is 100% true. It's very embarrassing to be in diapers here in the US after the age of 3 usually, but when a child sleeps so deeply that he or she wets while asleep like I used to, there aren't many other options. There is medicine, but it has adverse side effects. You can try to limit drinking fluids before bed and wake them up in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom, but these only had a small effect on me. I still would wake up with wet sheets and pajamas in the morning, sad and frustrated that I couldn't enjoy a good nights sleep without waking up cold and wet. It was embarrassing for my mom to buy diapers for me when I was 11, but the embarrassment was better than waking up in a wet bed. One of the hardest things to deal with was thinking I could keep the diapers a secret from my brothers and sister. I shared a room with my older brother and had to walk past him every night with the diaper on, knowing he could hear it. I even had to share a bed with him in the hotel on our road trip, and had to walk through the hotel bedroom with the whole family there watching tv. I felt like they all could hear my diaper, and by the end of the trip they all knew. I had to wear them until I was 12, but my wetting never completely stopped. I don't wet often now, but have had a few accidents since I've been an adult.

Samgin: Okay, when you are ill, and not curable, so one can understand ... you try to come out as well as possible from that situation.

But I don't think that 20... and old girls who are playing these "sugar-daddies babie's" things are all ill, with peeing problems ...

Wetnbulky: And had you ever been at doc with your peeing problems? May is just some not so bad prostata.problem... Anyway ...

From what I have gathered a fetish can come from an event in one's childhood or adulthood. It could be from anything and eventually a person's mind will try to cope with that event how ever it can. Some times it's forgotten and some times it comes back in the from of a fetish. Say a kid has trouble with their bladder. The parent(s) try their best to understand the situation but can fail at this. Some times the parent(s) can mistake this act for something it is not, like wanting attention. Thus the parent will try ways of making their child stop; humiliation is one factor or counseling. Which leads back to adulthood were a diaper can feel as a form of safety. This can also lead it becoming a fetish. Sometimes it could be from an event in adulthood. Say I get in a care crash and now weather I like it or not I have to wear diapers for the rest of my life. Eventually this can cause it to become a fetish but it also can not be come one. I've known people that wear diapers and hated it but eventually they accepted it. How I see it their mind turned it from a negative to a positive. This is all I've been able to understand so far but I'm still learning. I want to know more about how the mind works and why it does what is does.

For me I was lied to all my life by my so called birth mother. I found out when I was older that she did far worse things to my older brothers. So for me I never had a mother I never knew what it was like to be held or cared for by a motherly figure that actually loved me. Diapers help me connect to that feeling of security. It also happens to be my main fetish aside of being an adult baby. I don't see diapers as only a sexual thing nor being treated like a baby. I was also spanked when I was really really young and barely remember it. I have a spanking fetish and love to be spanked or spank others. I also don't see spanking as just a sexual thing. It can be used to release stress or tension. When ever I try to understand a person's fetish(s) I think about how my fetish(s) is to me. That gives me a good point to start from in order to understand another person's fetish.

I really hope this was not to confusing. I really went over this several times to make sure it sounded fine. I have trouble putting thought into readable words.

Babyboy: So, in fact you are saying, that those people who are in these diaper-plays, in fact are refusing to grow up. Or a part of them refusing to grow up and act like an adult. The reasons as I see, can be very various, in your case f.e. the lack of a caring mother ... but anything else, a traumatic event in childhood can be a reason of this fetish, where the diaper in fact represents the security of childhood.

Or am I wrong?

Hi Margy, I think that you are putting too much "psychobabble" into this. Speaking as a strictly straight guy, diapers did not interest me until the last few years. They are comfortable and allow me to dispense with some of the controls we are taught as young children. Don't ask for a Freudian interpretation of diaper wearing for guys; it just feels good and it is a harmless game, (kink).

Also, some women like to play with diapers and men in diapers. Don't ask me why, ask the women. I certainly enjoy some diaper play with women but it is not a "way of life" to me.

Thanks a lot for your answers. I think, I can now a little bit more understand this kind of play what was always too weird for me. Now is a bit less odd 😉.

Margy, there could be other reasons as well that people get into wearing diapers. Many people simply like the soft sensation of diapers around their genital areas. Some don't even like to wet their diapers at all. There are many diaper fetishists who like diapers but do not like the idea of being an adult baby. There are others who like to wet their diapers because they like the sensation, or the feeling that they are doing something that has often been considered taboo.

I am going to respond before reading anybody else's responses, so sorry if I repeat what anybody else's said…

For me it was pretty simple I think. When I tried on a diaper at the age of five out of curiosity, I spent the entire day having my genitals caressed by the extremely soft padding that diapers have. I think that created a significant imprint within my brain's sexuality response, because from that moment onward I wanted to wear diapers. At the time it did not actually make me think of sex, it just felt amazing. Being in them was all I could think of. For me, today, diapers provides sexual stimulation that is only second to the amazing feelings I get when a woman's hot wet vagina envelopes and squeezes my throbbing hard penis. I feel I am definitely most sexual towards the diapers themselves, so I'm deep in the DL range of the fetish. I do enjoy dressing like a little girl/sissy over the diapers, but that is a whole other story related to my gender identity.

It is very interesting to me how there is such a wide variety of interests within this fetish. It seems that there are many combinations of how people like to enjoy diapers. Some like to wet them or mess them, while others like me get most turned on by them when they are dry. Some prefer to wear diapers for that comfort feeling not so much the sexual stimulation side of things. Some like the diapers only, while others like AB or sissy play while in the diapers. I personally enjoy the feeling of dry diapers. The powdered softness of the padding is amazing as it was first discovered it as a child, but now the full thoughts and feelings of my adult sexual awareness takes it to incredible heights.

DiaperBound states it perfectly, my thoughts are identical to this entry