Deepthroat vs oralsex

I have never ever had oralsex with a girl and I have always wondered what the difference is between deepthroat and oralsex?

How do I tell a girl I want to deepthroat her?

Deep throat is taking a penis deep in your mouth/throat. Not everyone can do it due to the natural gag reflex.

Personally, it never did much for me.

Tilting your head (woman's head that is) back straightens the path from mouth to esophagus which makes it easier to deep throat. I do it occasionally but most of the time I take the penis in my mouth and use a hand to stroke the shaft while I suck and lick.

As a matter of semantics, I always thought the woman deep throated the man.

Might be a ESL issue?

I've been working up to deep throating. I know I got him on fairly deep, the other day... but not ALL the way. Is a "deep throat" job legit only if its all the way in?

To be an official "deep throat" the penis has to contact the esophageal sphincter! 😁 😁 😁 😁 😁

Rita, I don't think there is any officially recognized depth you have to reach, but if the guy has a four inch penis, you aren't going to deep throat it even if it is all the way in. If the guy has ten inches, I think you can say you deep throated him even if only six inches went down your throat. If you can get all ten inches down, you're a pro!

Practice with double dong dildos or a double dong with the balls between the two dicks that will prevent you from losing it down your throat. Use a LONG one for practice because you don't want to accidentally let go of a short one and not be able to retrieve it.

DO NOT NOT NOT practice with a banana. If it breaks and gets stuck in your throat, there better be someone around who can do a Heimlich Maneuver for you.

I have reason to believe I could deepthroat. It turns me on to swallow my girlfriend's fingers all the way to my epiglotis. The next step could be for her to peg my throat with a soft strapon, with me on my back with my head tilted back over the edge of a bed or table, and then peg my ass using the mucous from my throat as the lubricant. What would be really wild would be for her to peg one end while another woman pegs the other. I also can fantasize about a man being part of that threesome. I do have a male friend who would be more than happy to fill that role, but fantasy is usually better than reality and he doesn't get along well with her.

To answer your question, oral sex is generally considered to be any oral-genital contact. The most common types of oral sex are fellatio, in which the penis is placed in the mouth of the partner and stroked and/or sucked. Oral sex called cunnillingus is when the vulva is stimulated with the mouth and tongue. The vulva includes the inner and outer lips of the vagina (labia), the clitoris, the opening of the vagina and its glands, the opening of the urethra, and the mons pubis. Deepthroating is a special kind of deep fellatio in which the penis (or dildo) enters the mouth so far that it enters the esophagus in back of the throat. It's a skill similar to that of a sword swallower. The receiver cannot breathe during this act and must be allowed to pause to take breaths. Some people can deepthroat and some can't, depending on the intensity of the gag reflex. Deepthroaters are often able to accommodate the entire shaft of the penis in the mouth and throat. Practice is often required to achieve this, but the penis should NEVER be forced into the throat (or anyplace else). Of course the mouth can be used to stimulate any part of the body, including the breasts, ears, fingers, toes, and even the anus, which is called rimming or anilingus. Sometimes the tongue is even inserted into the anal canal.

Nothing like a spot of muff diving, particularly a nicely trimmed pussy.!!

I am not convinced that any guy or woman can really enjoy what is known as "deep throating". It cannot be as satisfactory for a man as I would have thought that lips, tongue and sucking is far more stimualting than the throat !! Also, for a real woman there is no way she could enjoy anything like that !

Also, for a woman, that act of sucking a man's penis is more of a psychological pleasure than a physical one. In as much that she knows the power she has over the glans of the penis and can make it ejaculate whenever she desires !!