Sorry I'm late to this thread but here's my experience.
From medical investigations, the human colon and small intestine can withstand 0.5 of an atmosphere.
That's about 7.3 psi.
In hydrostatic terms, that corresponds to about 17 ft of water-head.
My enema pressure limit is about 6ft of head; that's about 2.6 psi; and I do that regularly.
About volume; I find that an initial small [2-4 pints] enema clears a way through and I do that about 1 hour before the main insertion.
Then, I have a two-gallon [8 quart, 9 litre] bag warmed and installed at 6ft height.
The inflation takes 20 minutes of more and I stop as soon as either the flow stops,or else the transverse-colon discomfort becomes noticeable.
At that stage,I will have taken between 4 and 6 quarts. Never the full amount.
But that's a gallon or more and the feeling is very special; very exciting in fact. Walking about with that volume requires a plug and I've developed the knack of pressing a big one into position quickly when the hose comes out.
The expulsion then takes a further 10 minutes; usually in a number of surges and explosions, with massage round the tubes.