Does whipping excite you?

EROTIC SPANKING with a gal has fascinated me since I was a kid. Pain enjoyed as part of sex has always turned me on...

I've also dreamed that she would give me a painfully good BARE BACK WHIPPING...

Not drawing blood--but a nice warmup before getting SEVERE and INTENSE. I want to scream in pain; later I want to wear a ball gag while the woman I trust whips me!

If anyone else relishes this type of erotic pain, please write a bit about what turns you on, how hard you want it, and if you've tried it.

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I seem to only be interested in being whipped on the buttocks and if I'm really in the mood, inner thighs and genitals using something light-weight.

If this is something you're really interested in, hire a Dom if you can afford to. I think most professionals would enjoy doing this to you, and it would allow you the experience. You only live once!

OP, I'm wondering why you don't discuss your spanking fetish with your wife, and perhaps start off playfully exploring this? I noticed in another post that you would never cheat on her, which I find refreshing. It's not like you're asking for a 3some, just some spanking fun. Have you ever discussed this with her? It seems you have had this desire for years.

Not quite sure what you want no such thing really as a warm up bare back whipping except with a very soft flogger I suppose. But back whipping not really for beginners.

Go for your bum spanking sodt paddles get used to it and she would have to learn as well.

Personally the tawse is the best but they come in so many different shapes size and thickness ans stiffness. You have to find which ones work for you.

Xx

My wife loves to be whipped on her bare ass while restrained and ball-gagged, She loves when the flogger inadvertently lands on her labia. She also enjoys light flogging of her breasts while they are bound. Once I lightly hand spanked her pussy till she wet herself.

I believe I would want to be spanked with my clothes on then my Dom would pull my shorts down and spank me on my bare butt! I have had this happen to me a few times now and I prefer to use a paddle. It may not suit you but it certainly suits me! I love the pain when I get spanked. Though I would have a hand spank me just to warm me up. Then I want to have a full time paddle on me, but not to hard!

I think you should talk with your partner about your sexual desires, there is a point in a any relationship when we desire more, normal vanila and positions does not excite us any more. Start talking her. Its really erotic and i also love spanking.

A whip produces a sensation all it's own. I purchased a dressage whip from a farm supply store for about ten dollars. It produces a sting that is quite stimulating at the moment, but trauma to the skin is minimal so it takes many strokes build up to a pain level that makes it worth while. I prefer getting a heavy strap, paddle or crop (horse whip, from the farm supply as well), they give a better burning sensation and bruises that remind me of the experience for days. 😃

before getting SEVERE and INTENSE. I want to scream in pain; later I want to wear a ball gag while the woman I trust whips me!

I think if you really get what you describe you could really reach Subspace, and I wish you to know it. Then if it was too much for you to bear at least you will had experienced a very strong session. As Paynefan said, you only live once!

Yes!

I think I know exactly where It comes from too. My brother and I used to get serious whippings with my stepdad's thick leather belt. It was horrible at the time but it used to make me aroused.

When I was a teenager my mum remarried and suddenly I had a step sister come to live with us. We got on really well, but she was a couple of years younger and had horses. I got a thrill out of seeing her walk around the house in her horse riding stuff (tight breeches, long boots etc) and I had a thing for the strong smell of leather in the tack room at home (a farm). What made it worse was seeing her with her collection of whips (from short crops to long dressage whips).

One day I was watching her practicing jumping and her pony was being awkward. When she was at the jump right in front of where I was standing the pony refused and she gave it two hard whacks with the crop. I hate seeing an animal suffer un any way, but the combination of her in her beige breeches, long riding boots and little strappy summer top, combined with the sound of her using her whip was too much for me as it made me cum in my pants.