Fairness? Or selfish?

Well, my husband is about 5'11 and about 180 pounds very well toned and lifts some weights at the gym. I'm 5'4" and about 117 pounds well toned, I swim, ride bikes and play tennis but not super muscular. I think it would be a stretch for me to throw him down and make him fuck me, let alone be able to inject his penis with a caverject while holding him. If we were more equal in size, I would consider it if I needed my daily screw.

Sex is a marital obligation. It's nice when the feeling is mutual but it doesn't have to be,

Although I will say plenty of smaller women have killed their partners with a handily placed knife, scissor or other sharp instrument while having sex, so I guess it would be plausible for me to inject him if I had to! Of course, he would probably have to be tied down first, but the likelihood of that happening if sex was not on the table is also pretty remote.

Luckily, all I need to do is to extend my arms holding my wrists together and one of us is going to get tied up.

@SwitchableSusie :

A Jewish friend of mine told me there's a Jewish law which states that if someone violates the Sabbath, they shall be put to death. In fact, no one has ever been put to death for violating the Sabbath.

I'm sure in the old days, plenty of people were put to death for not observing the sabbath and for much lesser "crimes."

I am also told that in the Old Testament the husband is required to "service" his wife. In fact "service" is also the legal term people use when one person is injured and they want to sue someone because the wife is unable to have sex ("service&quot 😉 her husband.

In fact, no one has ever been put to death for violating the Sabbath. That draconian penalty is meant to illustrate how important it is to keep the Sabbath, but not meant to be imposed.

Religions have thousands year old histories. And one of the things they are so good at, is imposing death penalties and carrying them out for all sorts of reasons, sane or insane.

You can bet your boots that people have most certainly been put to death for violating the Sabbath. Only, perhaps not recently anymore or not massively, but only occasionally, pour encourager les autres ...

When I was young, we were convinced that talk of stoning people was something that used to be done in the Middle Ages, a long long time ago, all done and in the past, never again to be repeated. Well, you should read the news sometimes, see how some religious groups interpret their religious texts ... utterly depressing.

@agracier : You may well be right; I was repeating what I was told from someone I considererd credible. In any case, it came into the conversation much as used it here, somewhat allegorically. It certainly remains on the books for the reason I noted.

I do read the news and am appaled at what's being done in the name of religion. Many people in the West and Mid-East might point to Islam as an example, but what goes on in many African nations, involving religions most of us have never heard of (some small, tribal religions) is difficult to accept is happening in this day. Of course the fact that it gets very little mainstream media attention is a poor reflection on our media and probably our society as well, showing litte interest in it.