Men Watching other men getting spanked

I'm straight tho have lately come to believe there's a significant bi streak. In any event I definitely become aroused seeing an attractive male bottom being soundly spanked....no question.

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For me I am gay (completely gay) but sometimes a photo or the idea of a woman being spanked it strangely titillating. Strangely enough when a female is spanking it never is so really. If you enjoy seeing a male spanked it may just be you enjoy seeing someone in pain, for me I suspect I love seeing a dominate man inflicting pain, hence the reason I can somewhat enjoy seeing woman spanked. I think you can be 100% straight and have a desire to spank a man...

I personally get very aroused watching another man get spanked, whipped etc. For me it is the thought that it could be me on the receiving end and that simply takes me over the top. Of course I am bi so watching the male receiver and imagining his arousal is an added bonus for me.

I am straight but flexible and can say that I enjoy seeing a man spanked, especially if it's by a woman. The reversal of power is a turn-on for me and also something I like to experience for myself. I am less interested in seeing a man-to-man spanking, but I can enjoy it for what it is. So I don't think you have to be gay to enjoy that. I think it's more about the spanking than who's giving or receiving.

I do not think I am a sadist but when in junior high in locker room I once in a while saw a junior or senior guy get his bare butt paddled-- it was a sexual thing--especially if they were big strong guy--It happened our coach was a small man so it was somehow better to see a much bigger guy get his bare butt padded---But then when I got one bare paddling at 16+ it was humiliating to know younger guys watched PS for any guy who recalls locker room paddlings did it surprise you big strong guys cried???

I do not think it has anything to do with sexual orientation, but I always used to get quite turned on by watching my dad spank my 3 years older brother. We were both spanked until we were 18. We had to strip completely, bend over the desk or table, and receive the number of strokes of a riding crop which dad decided. I never missed watching him being spanked. He apparently felt the same about watching me being spanked.

I am as straight as they come, but like watching women spank and facesit men.

@jilly

... I find male-male spanking porn hugely erotic... I agree with what other people have said here about the attraction of watching a dominant male giving the spanking. I don't know, does it take the dominance to another level when it's a male getting the spanking?

In the area of romance, and all other areas of erotic behaviors, I am as straight as they come. But I agree with you that male-male spanking can take dominance to another level. Most men my age, from the southwest United States, remember the paddlings received from coaches and the whippings reveived from dad. These are memories of being dominated by men in authority. And most of us, if we're honest, remember feeling at least a bit aroused when being disciplined on our bare bottoms.

For my part, I can admit that from the age of about 11, I started becoming aroused when dad was taking me to the woodshed for a whipping. By the age of 12 or 13, I was rock hard before I had even stripped naked. My dad told me not to worry about it... he told me that he got erections before the whippings grandpa gave him, and it is just a normal part of becoming a man. He told me that by the time his razor strop was finished with my ass, my erection would be gone... he was right.

Also, paddlings in the high school boys' locker room were administered right when naughty boys existed the showers (before even being given towels). We saw many boys become erect while still in the showers, as they anticipated their fate upon exiting the showers (especially when other boys in the showers teased them about the butt blisterin' they were about to receive). And most of those erections went flaccid before the paddling was over. This happened to me on several occasions, which always meant a trip to the woodshed with dad later that night. On those occasions, when I received the paddle at school AND the razor strop at home, I couldn't sit down comfortably for a few days!

I enjoy or like a reddening bum, ideally with weals from a cane proudly displayed. It matters not if it is a Male or Female bum, the pleasure is the bum. The person doing the disciplining would hopefully be me...!

In phy ed I thought our coach was a little sadistic ans when i saw a shy guy or perhaps a guy who was very simple getting his naked butt spanked i felt very bad almost sick at such a bullying tactic---When I saw a big strong egotistical guy having to put his naked butt over coaches knee i was kind of glad and the big strong guy often took it worse than others---- so I must represent a kind of mix--I ahted to see a guy who was vulnerable get his ass spanked bare but did kind of enjoy the so called''"Big man on campus" get his naked butt paddled over coache's knee-----MOST OF ALL IAHTED THE TWO TIMES I WAS THE UNLUCKY GUT OVER COACHES KNEE GETTING HIS BUTT SPANKED HARD!

I love watch anyone spank anyone as long as they are adults and it is consensual. I even like it when anyone of either sex sees me get it or anyone of either sex administers it to my own hiney.

Sorry for the over use of anyone.

Rob

I am a straight buy yet find everything spanking to be exciting . So at spanking parties enjoy watching either gender getting spanked waiting for my turn .

I have often been spanked by men while being watched by other men and women. Also been watched being spanked while sucking a man.

I consider myself bi and have attended male-only spanking parties quite often (although not recently for obvious reasons). They're held at a local dungeon which has a large open play area as well as several smaller rooms for play. At those parties, everyone is able to watch and be watched! Yes, it is quite arousing to watch another guy get spanked, paddled or even whipped. But for me, it's even more exciting to be the one that everyone else is watching. I love being strung up on a St. Andrews cross, or tied to a spanking bench, or simply cuffed spread-eagle to a dungeon wall. Then the spanking (and other types of bondage) begins for the entertainment of the audience.

The OP asked:

Can a man, enjoy, or get turned on by watching another man getting a spanking and not be gay at all? Is spanking such a profound fetish that It's enjoyment is outside of the bounds of orientation, especially when watching??

You don't have to be gay or bi-sexual to enjoy a BDSM activity involving men, women or a mix of both. You can be straight as an arrow and simply appreciate the same sex activities without involving yourself with the same sex. Wouldn't bother me to watch a man spank a man, or for men to watch a beautiful woman spank me.

IMO a man getting enjoyment watching men doing something to each other depends on if the enjoyment gotten by the viewer is sexual or not; i.e., does the viewer get a hardon..

I've watched a number of guys get spanked and I have been watched while I got spanked or spanked somebody.. I had a friend in Mount Vernon. He had barbecue parties for his dom friends and their subs. I I got spanked in front of a number of people a few times. Watch the number of people got spanked their. I'm just thanking people myself I've spanked in front of a few people on time.

Personally, I do not see spanking as so significantly gender related. A spanking is punishment. There is an authority figure who determines that a spanking is needed and then delivers it. There is a miscreant who had in some way misbehaved who deserves to be punished.

From early on, I have been intensely interested in and fascinated by the dynamics of a spanking and the gender of the authority figure or the miscreant matters little to me.

In watching a spanking, my interest is more piqued by the positions, implements and especially the intensity of the spanking. Male/male spanking has a particular appeal to me, not so much because the participants are same gender but rather because it most closely mimics my own experience growing up. I was rarely spanked by my mother and almost always by my father. The relationship dynamic is much more interesting to me than the gender of the participants.

I like to see men being spanked by women.

I like seeing another get a good spanking from another man. I think in many ways guys do give tougher spankings than some women. Having said that, I know some women that really know to effectively spank men, too. I have witnessed guys getting spanking by another man, straight men and as well as gay men. For some it was quite an effective emotional experience regardless of sexual orientation. I have also many spanked over years many times by men and women. I have spanked in private by a man but also with other witnesses. It actually was more humiliating with witnesses for me.

As a kid, when I when I spanked, I was more focused on receiving end and did not care if there were witnesses. As adult I have found it different. Since I was spanked by mom and dad, A male or female spanker, I am fine with. I do however, like when it is over to feel like the spanking was effective with a sore bottom red bottom.

Growing up if me and my friends got into trouble as a group we got spanked as a group one after the other. There was something about watching and hearing the spanking if if you had been spanked or were waiting to be spanked

Has always seemed separate to me. I'm gay, but get a kick out of male or female spankers (although for whatever reason, don't like to see women spanked - maybe that is the gay element).