How many STRAIGHT men would spank or be spanked by another man?

Just thinking about guy having a homosexual experience doesn’t makes you bisexual or gay. Lots of guys like anal stim from women. They may fantasize about getting fucked - but would never follow up or do it with another male. Myself included.

My unsolicited advice (for what little it's worth)...

Ignore the troll !!!

You can't win!

Even if you happen to agree with the troll, you're encouraging him/her by stroking his/her ego. The troll still thinks that his/her opinion is better than yours, even if it's identical to yours.

If you challenge the troll, s/he is getting the rise out of you for which s/he was trolling in the first place.

Just ignore him/her!

My unsolicited advice (for what little it's worth)...

Ignore the troll !!!

You can't win!

Even if you happen to agree with the troll, you're encouraging him/her by stroking his/her ego. The troll still thinks that his/her opinion is better than yours, even if it's identical to yours.

If you challenge the troll, s/he is getting the rise out of you for which s/he was trolling in the first place.

Just ignore him/her!

What is this about? Are you specifically talking about someone? Sounds like you have a hard-on for someone but don't have the balls to say who!

@Quintana_Roo 's post was absolutely ridiculous.

Just thinking about guy having a homosexual experience doesn’t makes you bisexual or gay.

That's just it.

The subject of this discussion is "How many STRAIGHT men would spank or be spanked by another man".

Why spanking should be equated with a homosexual experience?

As a nerdish footnote remark, this kind of belief is known within the classification system of fallacies as a fallacy of defective induction (aka faulty or illicit generalization). "Socrates is a human, hence all humans are Socrates".

Why spanking should be equated with a homosexual experience?

As an adult - I see no need to be disciplined or to discipline another person - male or felmale - for any other reason than a sexual advance. It is nothing more than an excuse to submit in a sexually submissive manner to another person. Call the rationale or the "game you play" to initiate it whatever you want. My comment about just thinking about having same sex activity has nothing to do with actually acting on it. As a STRAIGHT man - submissively submitting to another MAN in a scene that I BELIEVE would have a sexual connotation - isn't someplace I would want to go.

I also do not pretend to be on the same level as Socrates just because I am human - there are other reasons!!! 😁 😁

I could see it being played as a sort of contest of wills/hazing/bullying "mere violence" sort of thing. Sort of like a ramp up of the "punch your arm" game. Yeah, adolescent, I know, but let's face it - many guys slip into "adolescent mode" more often than we like to admit.

Option 2: with the "endorphin high" bit or the physical overload hypothesis that could also have a primary motivation that was nonsexual. Indeed, should a guy want an experience that has reduced sexuality he might find it easier with another man then with a woman.

Granted these are all just armchair hypotheses though.

I'll probably get crushed for saying this, but I'll go ahead and throw it out there: Any man who would derive sexual pleasure from spanking another man or being spanked by another man is not straight. He would be at least bi-curious or bisexual.

A truly straight male would only derive sexual pleasure from a spanking session with a female.

Same goes for oral sex, medfet play, bondage, enemas, etc.

I see no need to be disciplined or to discipline another person - male or felmale - for any other reason than a sexual advance

I do. Spanking is a social ritual imbued with a lot of meanings and emotions.

Can eroticization of spankings such as in the childhood be an enabler for this activity? It sure can. However:

1. it is an enabler, not an essence.

2. This enabler applies (generally speaking) to spanking as an act and not to the spanker as a sexual being.

Any man who would derive sexual pleasure from spanking another man or being spanked by another man is not straight. He would be at least bi-curious or bisexual

This belief seems to naively presuppose a structure of the spanking that includes only two entities: a spanker and a spankee. Whereas in fact there are at least six:

1. The spanker, further substructured:

1(a) The spanker as a sexual being.

1(b) The spanker in his/her other, non-sexual qualities.

2. The role of the spanker (such as a parent, in case of roleplay parental spankings).

3. Spanking as an act.

4. The role of the spankee (such as a child, in case of roleplay parental spankings).

5. The spankee (can also be subdivided, but I'll skip it here).

Spanking can be qualified as a homosexual or para-homosexual activity (for №5) if eroticization is directed from №5 to №1(a).

Eroticizations of all other kinds (there are five other conceivable parings for №5, counting in 5->5 for the case of autoeroticism) do not make spanking a homosexual or para-homosexual activity for №5.

For me, spanking is not to be followed by any kind of sexual reciprocity. The idea that a "straight" man is being spanked by another man is just a fantastic way to introduce shame, humiliation, power-exchange, submission, and discipline. The sexual preference of either participant is not critical. However, if (and that really is IF) there is a sexual component to the scene, it must be agreed upon and in my opinion, should only contribute to further shame, humiliation, etc. aspect of the spanking. I always insist on clear communication with the males I am to spank (orientation is irrelevant) and when those boundaries are respected, the spanking scene is deeply satisfying to both participants. And in case you were curious, I have had several "straight men" have strong orgasms while being spanked.

I am in the camp of spanking being independent of sexual activities. Not that they can't be combined or overlap. I could never achieve my goals through self spanking, and when I convinced my late wife to spank me with several implements, she didn't have the strength to get the job done. That is not to say that another woman couldn't. I would be willing to let either a man or woman try.

Personally as a spanker, i would prefer administering a spanking to a female. However, I am intrigued with the inherent awkwardness and embarrassment/humiliation that comes with administering a spanking to a male with a female witness or observer. So while direct male/male spanking does not in and of itself get my attention - if there is an added element involving a female observer those dynamics would interest me.

I am straight but put a hard cock an inch from my mouth......! As i do need and spankings, harder and longer than my wife can give me, yes i would submit to a spanking from another man, as long as my wife were watching, cheering him on till well after i can not even beg or plead understandably! Oh and he must be submissive to my wife & i must be submissive to both of them!

As long as there is no intercourse, I would have no qualms, be it as a giver or receiver.

It can even be a turn-on if there is at least one female present. And, in case of being the receiver, it would add to the arousal if the spanker was more handsome than me and was at least partially undressed.

Not in a million years.

Doesn’t interest me.

Similar - but slightly different spin on Straight Men getting spanked by a man:

https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;topic=72097;firstnew

So what is the different spin? I don’t see a question or discussion point here. ???

So what is the different spin? I don’t see a question or discussion point here. ???

@oldskoolotk I don't recall starting this thread - I think my post (which is now #1) was commenting on the original post - which appears to have been deleted. Without the original post - there is no question or context offered. I'd delete my post if I could!!

I consider myself straight — all my relationships have been with women — but on occasion I have been spanked by or spanked another man. A good time was had by all.

I have been on a male spanking site now for about a decade . Last week I connect with a male spanker who is local for me. His preference is spanking spanking younger males . However I have posted pictures of my ass after I have been spanked . Even though I was an older male he liked the pictures of my ass and purposed a session. He desired to examine me including taking my rectal temperature before finally spanking me . So last weekend this is how it went.

On my way to his house thought I may be late as I was hung up at a train crossing . I replied to his text he sent me when I was walking up the street to his place. He meet me at the door and welcomed me in. We chatted for about ten minutes before going upstairs . Upon entering a roomy bedroom I removed my jacket and got things prepared. I bring a towel with me as I have cum before during a medical scene or spanking. Know he expressed a desire to take my rectal temperature had my own lube and thermometer. Before the scene started he was going to undress me. After removing my shoes and socks stood before him . His removed my shirt by pulling it off . Next I stood there facing him as he unfastened my pants and pulled them down exposing my briefs. I was then order to step out of them which I did. At that stage I was already semi - erect now. Finally his hands reached into the waistband of my briefs and took them down. Once again I was order to step from them and now stood naked before him. The examination he gave me was fast. His hands went across my hairy chest then squeezing my nipples which does nothing for me . Then his hands went down across my belly . Lastly his hands touched and caressed my penis which was getting stiffer. Taking my towel he tossed it on the bed . Getting on the bed now on all fours he donned gloves and inserted a finger into my ass. He commented then how tight I was there. Next he lubricated the rectal thermometer well before slipping it into my ass. I felt him moving it and asked if he could just hold it in place. Before the rectal thermometer could register I came . I was the ordered to get off the bed and stand in a corner with my ass facing out.

As time passed in the corner felt my erection subside . He took me from the corner to a couch where I was put over his knee . Just using his hands he spanked me quite hard . As he was spanking me found myself shifting my weight until I was half on and off his lap . With me in that position he now stood me up again and changed my position to the wheel barrow position. Reaching for a leather paddle began spanking me again. Pushing me a bit towards the floor he applied the leather paddle to my inner thighs. I felt so exposed in that position I began to get hard again . He donned another glove and after lubricating it slipped his finger into my ass again which got my even harder. Again I got another short break in the corner. Next he took a final position seated at the top of the bed. He draped the the towel again across his lap . I climbed onto the bed and laid across his lap again. This time he had a large wide leather paddle he was spanking me with. Amazingly I was asking for him to spank me harder which he did. I told him I was at the pinnacle of coming again but did not. His hands now lightly ran over my ass before up my crack and I came again.

I have recently been spanked by another male, it’s been great nothing to hard yet ,hair brush stings a lot and the wooden paddle can hurt a lot I like these 2 implements slow n steady for good reddening , leather paddle I like a lot he can hit a bit harder and longer with it,the belt I really like love the sting it gives and with more practice he’ll get better and I can handle longer spankings sessions

Men can spank well, for sure, perhaps because we are more often the disciplinarian as adult to child or perhaps because we were disciplined more often than girls, as kids.

Key is the flexible curve of excitation. Start slow and build. No one, well, most folk, don't want to be bashed right away. and our tolerance rises when it begins modestly but it can crash into panic if it starts too fast.

Me spanking men And

Men spanking me

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I am a switch. I've been that way for over sixty years. I enjoy giving naughty men bright red naughty bare bottom spankings. I bring them to tears so they can get rid of all the stress that they have built up over the years.

In the same vain I to need to have my naughty bare bottom spanked till its bright red and have tears rolling down my face so I can get rid of all the stress that builds up within me from time to time.

I am a switch. I've been that way for over sixty years. I enjoy giving naughty men bright red naughty bare bottom spankings. I bring them to tears so they can get rid of all the stress that they have built up over the years.

In the same vain I to need to have my naughty bare bottom spanked till its brigjht red and have tears rolling down my face so I can get rid of all the stress that builds up within me from time to time.

That's all well and good, but you are not straight.

No problem spanking guys. A butt is a butt.

Whoever started this thread deleted their original post. I simply commented that this thread was similar to another thread about straight men getting spanked by men. I have no desire to be the “lead” in this discussion, but I can no longer delete my post. I thought the two threads should have been merged. For the record, I have zero interest in spanking other men, or being spanked by a man.

@gwhap That can happen just like you said, when you post as the second post in a thread and the person who started the thread deletes their post… I had this happen where I started a thread and ironically I think you were the second post and I deleted my opening post… I saw that happen and had the entire thread deleted so as not to leave you holding the bag - ha, and it wasn't an enema bag 😄😄😄