Anal first time

You have received some very good advice in this thread. My basic rules for anal sex:

1. When you think you have too much lube, you have half as much as you need.

2. Condoms are a must for the protection of both parties.

3. Slow and easy makes for more fun.

4. Use a good water based lubricant, not Crisco, nor Vapo-Rub, nor other oil based products.

5. Avoid contaminating other areas after anal play.

The best way to go about anal sex for the first time, or just for those who are unaccustomed, is to have the man lie completely still on his back and lower yourself onto him at your own pace. I absolutely love anal sex, but I have been hurt more times than I care to remember by overanxious partners. Also, I have had many men complain that they do not enjoy sex (anal or otherwise) as much if there is too much lubrication. All I have to say to that is, "TOUGH!" I am not going to tear my insides because you like the feeling of extra friction from a dry orifice! Speak up if it hurts!!! Tell him to slow down, add more lube, or both. Do not be afriad to express yourself. I am now with a man who listens to my needs and concerns, and we are both having the best sex of our lives! Go forth, explore, and enjoy anal!!

Me and my girlfriend had our first anal a week ago. She was nervous but wanted to make me happy. It was a surprise at first when she came in the room she had some KY and said go slow. She lifted her skirt and puled down her panties and bentover .I used a lot of lube and used my finger starting with the pointer. Once i could put my middle finger all the way in I told it was time she took a deep breath and I started sliding in I did not go all the way till the end .I could not help it .She said it felt good and we will do it again

Baby you gotta give it a try. The first time might not be fun, but the second after so e kinks are worked out wow! My advice is explain to him that you want to push it in. I like getting doggie and me pushing against him. I can say woah or move forward. Mmm it feels so good. And once it is in, in that position you can feel the weight of the member almost resting on your bag. Gives me goosies.

I don't think any cock is going to do any harm, but the key is to go slow and at your own pace. Try a home made plug first if you want to ease in to it.