Sex or No Sex in a Play Exam

I haven’t had sex in a play exam context, and generally, I think in most circumstances I would say no to sex in this context unless my partner and I have already discussed it and already have done exams previously. Masturbation and toys are the most common sexual play I’ve encountered, and that has been so gratifying that I’ve never felt the need to have sex on top of that. I also am much more willing and generally interested in letting someone masturbate me than have sex with me.

No sex! Never sex in a play exam! Now, that's my personal preference, and HARD line drawn. To include it would be a VERY different and VERY scary element that is neither desired or wanted by me.

Depends on the person

I would not be a fan of sex in a play exam. Testing the patient’s sexual response cycle to get them off is ok as long as the doctor stays clothed and in his or hers role.

@Vin I consider that to be sex. When we play the doctor doesn’t usually get his until after the role playing is done. Maybe 2/3 of the time. So I guess by that more restrictive definition then no, I don’t usually have sex as part of my play exam

A realistic exam would not involve sex. As others have commented, examining and testing sexual organs are a fun part of the exam, but it should be done professionally.

I like some forced sex in the end of an exam.

I'm perfectly comfortable with a play doctor being overly touchy/feely during an exam and doing things that would be totally unacceptable in reality. I really enjoy this in a play exam, but anything more would depend on other factors.

No sex..... absolutely not.

No sex for me

No sex ...

I dont Involve sex in any of my exams and that’s including anything oral as well. Too much overt sexual play ruins the “realism” of the exam.

I don't like the involvement of sex in MEDFET. In MEDFET sessions it has to be completely realistic without the involvement of the doctor and patient without sex.

Depends on the person and if there is any chemistry

Though I responded previously to this very question with a "no to sex", I am realizing the answer is a little more nuanced for me now.

For me, orgasm and sexual gratification is a very important aspect of medical play. I have generally veered away from the idea of having vaginal intercourse in medical play with female partners. Most of the time, I've been masturbated by play doctors (most of whom are male) or masturbated my female patients. I think in my mind, feel this is the most in line with "clinically" assessing a patient.

More recently, however, I am realizing that I am not as opposed to sex. I definitely have had more fantasies of having to be examined with another patient who is having sex with me, particularly another male patient or even the play doctor having anal sex with me (with me being on the bottom). Certainly being examined with a female partner as we have sex has come to mind too.

Sex, as I think most of us think of it, is NOT desirable in a MEDFET situation. Having said that, I would agree with Vin, that orgasm/ejaculation WOULD be a part of an assessment of all kinds of things. For me, Dr Nash must remain dressed and in his most professional demeanor; however, his patient, feeling embarrassed, humiliated, controlled, or (fill in the blank), would need to provide "evidence" of a properly functioning system - and maybe that would include prostate health.

I'll be in Brussels soon, and then later in Düsseldorf. :-)

No sex, ever. Keep it clinical. At least that’s my personal preference!

Not so much a Before and After... but I want the pretense of a "real exam" with the doctor or nurse to remain clinical and consistent and clothed. But my doctors have always known me well and perhaps focused more on certain areas of my body during the exam 😇... done procedures for longer than necessary or maybe procedures that aren't found in a medical textbook.

The thing is: something about medical scenarios is directly linked to my sexual arousal (I mean, that's why a lot of us are on Zity I assume... that's what Medical Fetish is). So I'm not doing a play exam for the same reason I go see a real doctor. I want to enjoy it, be aroused, sometimes to the point of ecstasy.

But no, for me it's not 1. exam then 2. sex. It's all one fluid experience. But, aside from my very first play doctor, no my doctors do not disrobe and it's not a mutual sexual experience. When I'm the doctor, I stay clothed and want my patient to enjoy his exam, and although I do enjoy examining him, I don't orgasm and my clothes stay on throughout.

@GraceT So well said! I thought that most people on this site thought that way! At least I do!

I love medical play and anal play and to combine those are great and I like the play session involve sex in some way.

I go back and forth on this question. On the one hand I can fully see the appeal of having sex with a partner after engaging in a detailed scene, with all the intimacy and vulnerability from a session carrying over into the sex itself. Though on the other I also like the idea of a play exam being more focused on (if not entirely dedicated to) the traditionally clinical aspects of the exam experience rather than anything explicitly sexual.

I think it would inevitably come down entirely to the dynamic or relationship I have with whoever is performing the play exam. I’m certainly open to the idea of sex being an aspect of a play exam, but it is by no means expected or necessary for the scene to feel complete in my mind. This would also need to take into consideration the gender/sex of the person performing the exam.

I’m comfortable with both male and female play partners, but for example I probably wouldn’t really be interested in performing oral sex on a male partner in the same way that I would be comfortable with a female partner. I might be open to anal sex, however, or maybe other things. It all depends on the situation and how it feels under those circumstances, I suppose. Overall I think this is a really interesting question to consider!

I like penetrative sex while still restrained to the exam table. Sometimes I am there for the doctor’s research and will submit to whatever he needs to do, even if it involves taking him in my mouth. The examinations definitely have a strong sexual component, not very realistic. I also enjoy more realistic ones, but definitely need some sort of release.

I've never acted out my medfet. I just enjoy it online and in my mind.

My medfet is predominately patients being masked. And many of my fantasies have been set not in the hospital or medical center, but in the home. So maybe she needs to be on supplemental oxygen by mask or needs to wear a mask for some acute allergy, disease or immune system deficit. Possibly 24/7 except for showers and eating. In which case, yes, she masturbates and/or has sex with the mask strapped to her mouth and nose.

It all started when I was much, much younger and saw a pic of a girl my age being administered general anesthetic via a black beauty mask, but now it's mostly protective half masks. N95s, P100s, PAPRs attached to half masks. Half mask elastomerics themselves. And still oxygen masks and the old black beauties.