Humiliation

How do you humiliate your sub ?

I'm not particularly a Dom but if I were - Letting every one know that I was going to give my sub an enema later in the day.

I tell friends, right in front of her, what is going to happen to her later.

Hello John6094. I agree with your suggestion. If you have to be more forceful I suggest giving her a couple of bisacodyl suppositories, (while in the BR at a party), then bringing her out and telling folks what a baby she is when she starts to complain.

I like making her naked in front of others. She would have to show her most private privates.

We are not much into public humiliation but I do like to make my sub wife pose naked in front of me while I remain clothed. I make her spread herself open, insert her fingers in her vagina and butt and make her lick them clean following. She hates to be on her knees, chest on floor holding her cheeks apart for a perfect view of her ass.

My sub is never allowed to close the bathroom door. She keeps her legs spread wide apart any time she uses the toilet so I can see her bare, shaven cunt. When I make her take an enema, she is required to hang the bag high up the wall so the flow is maximum.

I usually pull up a chair to the bathroom door and watch her give the enema. As it progresses and her belly expands I sometimes step into the bathroom and roughly rub her belly to increase her discomfort. Also, when she sits on the toilet her mouth is at the perfect height for me to fuck her mouth. I may or may not climax, but if I do, she sucks it all down and swallows every drop before she is required to suck my cock and balls clean.

When she is full and cramping, I go back to my chair and make her complete her anal cleaning while I watch and make comments about what a naughty slut she is. By the time i am satisfied with her efforts, she is completely humiliated.

My wife will take away my clothes and shoes for the day. i find it much more humiliating to be barefoot and naked in front of her while she is clothed and wearing shoes. she will make me kneel in front of her and touch myself until i am about to cum, but then tells me to stop. she will go out and force me to clean the apartment naked. when she comes back, i help her carry things in while only wearing short shorts. her friend is in on it too. if she comes over, my wife will make me serve them wearing nothing but tighty whities. she sometimes lets the friend tell me touch myself, but they never let me come.

Mmmm good topic.

Works well with so much else too including medfet and bdsm humiliation requires some degree of control afterall.

Would enjoy having a sub for such purposes. Have had partners in the past perform bathroom functions in front of me using he toilet or a bed pan, even a bucket. Have used diapers to humiliate and control my subs as well as utilized casts and braces to acheive helplessness. I've also restrained a sub with casts and bondage and left her in bed spread very wide for an entire day forced her to ask for assistance with urinating and bowel movements.

Humiliation kind of varies from one person to the next or at least that has been my experience.

Public humiliation doesn't really appeal to me, but I sometimes fantasize about being humiliated by a guy in front of some of his friends

Revoking her bathroom privledges and making her go outside or use a litter box.

Wearing age inappropriate clothing, she is over 50 and is very humiliated to have to dress like a teenager in public

Wearing age inappropriate clothing, she is over 50 and is very humiliated to have to dress like a teenager in public

I think older ladies who dress younger look hot. If they are confident I find it incredibly appealing and nice to see. But the voyeur in me also likes it when I see an older lady dressed younger who is not comfortable, I just can't take my eyes off a lady trying to pull the hem of short skirt down, or trying to cover an exposed belly, or constantly checking the back of her jeans for exposed thong. Gives me a thrill.

I take her to a hotel, and fuck her stark naked from behind in full view of the window. If possible, I'll press her right up against the window if its feasible - sliding glass doors are perfect. This works great in an urban city environment - a real mindfuck for her.

It varies but last thing I did was make her walk around with her purse around her neck, with a sign on it that said "Ask me about my purse"

Maybe next time she won't forget it.

I have fantasised that my husband makes me wear a remote control vibrator while going out to a restaurant with leather chairs. I am not allowed to wear knickers and only a tight fitting blouse and short skirt. During the meal he may or may not place the remote on the table. When we leave he will notice the wet patch on the chair and say loud enough for other diners to hear " go and apologise to the waiter for making a mess on the chair you horny slut" and I have to ask for a cloth to clean the chair.

I tell friends, right in front of her, what is going to happen to her later.

That's really only going to work in front of kinky friends, in which case I doubt it would be genuinely humiliating.

I think if you did that in front of your vanilla friends, your friendship would become on tenuous grounds.

I take her to a hotel, and fuck her stark naked from behind in full view of the window. If possible, I'll press her right up against the window if its feasible - sliding glass doors are perfect. This works great in an urban city environment - a real mindfuck for her.

We did that at a hotel on a trip to Disney World before we had children about 25 years ago. We both looked really good. We were too excited to be embarrassed.

Pressed up against the glass on a high floor overlooking the city - and if it was anal and he whispered naughty words in my ear, I'd come in a heartbeat. Wouldn't be the least bit humiliated no matter who was looking.

Actual humiliation is not on my negotiation list. Embarrassment, on the other hand, can be hot. To me humiliation is meant to diminish someone. Embarrassment, with a partner you trust, is intimate, revealing and shared.

I keep him in diapers, plastic pants, and baby clothes and make him use his diapers. I take lots of photos of him in them and especially dirty diapers that's why you will own him forever.

I guess the biggest humiliation is being confined to diapers sends your head way back.

I love fantasizing about being humiliated. My favourite way is for hubby to choose what I drink/eat and wear on a date. He will choose things he knows I do not like.

It would be great to be told to wear a skirt and blouse without underwear.

I also find standing naked in front if him whilst he inspects me very humiliating yet arousing especially when he comments on my bodily reaction. If you know what I mean.

Among other things I’d like to come home and sit down. I’d have them stand right in front of me and ask them if they had managed to keep their panties clean and dry all day, or if they’d thought dirty things and made a slutty mess in them? After a few minute of discussing this, they’d be required to lower their panties (and pants if wearing them) so we could look and see. If they’d made them wet and messy there would be appropriate repercussions.

For me the humiliation is what it is all about, both receiving and giving. Most of the things that happened to me growing up started with and after a hygiene check. I would be sniffed and smelled, both my bottom and around the front to see if I smelled of pee and/or poop. The checks usually starting through my trousers and then if necessary with my pants lowered and inspected. I would LOVE now to be just going about my day to day business, maybe at home, maybe out and about and with no warning at all have a real strict and handsome dad like figure grab me and proceed to part my legs and stick his nose deeply into the seat of my trousers and spend minutes thoroughly sniffing and smelling every part of my bottom, crotch and through my fly zip or buttons. I'd like him to loudly (loudly enough for passers by to hear) tell me I stink bad and tell me what he is going to do about it. He might for example say out loud that I will be getting his finger inserted into my butt followed by a suppository and supervised shit on the pot or in my pants, he might say I stink of piss and proceed to remove my penis and hold it while telling me to pee for him, all the time planting a few hefty swats on the seat of my pants or he might say I need to be thoroughly washed and cleaned and drag me off to a men's room and proceed to take my pants and undies down and hand wash my butt and bits in full view of everyone in there, using nothing but cold water from the tap and hand soap from the dispenser. Hmmm made me rock hard thinking about all those scenarios lol. Anyhow that is how I would LOVE to be humiliated. I could just as easily BE that dad figure and carry out my checks on a naughty boy!

I send my sub out to prostitute herself but the money she earns she has to use to pay a total stranger to blow him, any money left over she has to go put it in a charity box.

Agree with @enemasubgirl , the difference between humiliation and embarrassment.

I don’t actually want to degrade the woman I’m with, just want to erotically stimulate her in a scenario that causes her to feel those butterflies in the tummy, something that I can remind her of later and make her blush immediately and say “shhh! not so loud, someone might hear!”

For most women I’ve been with, the embarrassment was about exposure and her bottom and often anus.

Oh yes Ihumilate all my subs but almost every sub that's ever came to me always asked for and you know I'll make them do things like I freshes they don't have such as licking my foot or my ass . Like my cigar get me a beer . The dog leash I've got probably 15 20 cheap pairs of independently wrapped panties from medium to 3x. There's a pair that I fit you. I got cheap ass stockings and they're not meant to look good or be passable they're meant to be humiliingting