Comfortable Enemas

Enemas are definitely meant to be comfortable. Otherwise why bother? If you want to be uncomfortable, there are much simpler, more expedient ways to have your pleasure or displeasure or whatever.

That's one thing enemas and girdles have in common: Comfort is relative.

They both have a job to do that can only be done just so comfortably and that's it, as they get more effective comfort drops off.

I prefer enemas that are comfortable rather than just crampy, or a punishment type of enema.

Baking soda seems to work the best, and as noted, water temp, bag height, and just having the time all adds to the enjoyment

Emom has it right about comfortable enemas. I like enemas as a means to relax and unwind or to ensure a good start to the new day. I am not punishing myself, or anyone, with my enema so it should not hurt. Yes, there may be some temporary discomfort from the fullness or cramps, but for me an enema is a pleasant experience.

I believe this all started when I was a young child. I got occasional enemas from mom for constipation or minor stomach discomfort. These enemas were small, usually only a couple of squirts from the bulb. They were in private with no fanfare. They actually were so pleasant that my sister and I played with the bulb in the bathtub, giving ourselves and each other small enemas, because it was fun.

This carries over to today. I take frequent enemas because I like them. If during the process it becomes uncomfortable or painful, I let it out and start over. There is no law that says you have to take the whole bag without stopping. Is there?

This is a great topic! Fantastic sharing about our comfortable,relaxing,sexy and intimate quiet times with our lovers. My man treats me like a princess in her throne. Kick back and love your enemate!

When life feels like it is closing in on me and I need to find a way to relieve all that tension, heading off to the bathroom with my enema bag for an hour or so never fails to do the trick. Enema time is my time. The bathroom door is closed and I can enjoy a little piece of heaven. Emom is totally spot on when she tells how to do a comfortable enema.

I have to agree with emom, a comfortable relaxing soothing enema is what I am after. I have done enough hurried uncomfortable enemas. A relaxing time were I can enjoy the rush of the warm water is what I am after.

"Is it going to hurt?" What does Mom tell daughter who's sick in bed and looking up with anxious eyes as I'm holding a fountain syringe filled with warm water and a pinch of Castile soap. "I'll make this as comfortable for you as I can, but you are all blocked up and you need to go to the bathroom. This might make you more crampy, but it's going make you better." That's about what I said.

Daughter had been in bed sick as the dickens, and I will spare several days of details. The reality about giving an enema is you can try to keep it comfortable, and there are tricks you can use, but you never know. I'm not into pain either giving or taking an enema. However, I've taken enemas when I've had terrible cramps, and in the above instance with Jen, I remember she was pretty uncomfortable at first, but once that first wave of stuff was expelled, she was fine during a second round with a little warm water as a rinse. She gave me a hug and said that was not too bad.

There is always a little discomfort with an enema but . If shared with a caring partner it can be the best thing and very comfortable😃 Like a chameleon changing during the process many different feelings but in the end you feel better.

"However, I've taken enemas when I've had terrible cramps, and in the above instance with Jen, I remember she was pretty uncomfortable at first, but once that first wave of stuff was expelled, she was fine during a second round with a little warm water as a rinse. She gave me a hug and said that was not too bad.

I've had enemas like that. It seems to be less comfortable the more you need it, but even then at some point you will feel things change, start to move, and finally begin to come out. From there it just gets better, but often the enemas that I really need never cross over to the erotic. Even on those times when the enemas are just practical and they're crampy and uncomfortable they are still SO WORTH IT!

Addendum to post 38:

The more experienced you are at giving or taking enemas, the more you'll know and be able to make the experience as comfortable as possible. There are "tricks of the trade" covered in other posts that I've used, i.e., volume, speed, bag height, patient position, type of solution and temperature, etc.

I wonder: Are today's newly-trained nurses as knowledgeable how to give a "comfortable" enema as those who had more experience giving enemas during the Golden Age? If they're giving mostly Fleets today, God help us. I had two Fleets years ago in a hospital, and I had terrible cramps.

Yes, "Comfortable" is the operant word here!!! I concur 100%!! Unfortunately sometimes the "Dr. B's" solution has to be enhanced a bit to get the desired effect! Even then I have found... it will still work but not so harsh if you add 2 tablespoons of bi-carb for 2 quarts!! Quite pleasant!!!

With a "Kinky Klick!!!!"

highwater

I enjoy enemas (giving and Receiving) and playing doctor (usually doctor but sometimes patient). In both of these endeavors comfort, gentleness, and realistic are a must. I do not enjoy pain, nor do I enjoy inflicting pain. I am not and will not criticize anyone into pain or punishment. It's their thing but it isn't mine.

I like to give but I always try to give a comfortable enema. It all depends on the colon so I usually start out slowly with just warm water with a pinch of salt and don't cross any lines as to volume or bag height. I try to make it enjoyable and add some vibrator and like Marlene's famous quote "It's an enema, not a race" Going slow and easy can make for much more fun down the road.

A very enjoyable thread. My mom was really good at giving enemas, but that is not to say that I really enjoyed getting one. In retrospect, hers were also given slowly and with water just the right temperature. I know I've said it before when I say that I always thought her enemas, at least from the bag, were huge, but I'm now convinced that they were not. Did they work? Oh, yes, every last one of them gave a good cleaning out.

The enemas I was given as a small child were warm and gentle which is exactly how I like them now. I do my enemas slowly and mindfully enjoying each aspect from the sliding in of the well lubed nozzle, to watching the bag slowly deflate, to the gentle pressure that builds. I take my enemas very slowly to prolong the pleasure and relaxation. After two or three such enemas I enjoy a feeling of well being and wholeness.

I totally agree with EMOM.

I have not had an enema for quite a long time. I wonder if someone can tell me for a comfortable enema, what should you add to the water (or can you just have plain warm water) to get the most effect and also, do you have to do a 2nd one if you do add anything? All information is really appreciated. Thank you.

I have not had an enema for quite a long time. I wonder if someone can tell me for a comfortable enema, what should you add to the water (or can you just have plain warm water) to get the most effect and also, do you have to do a 2nd one if you do add anything? All information is really appreciated. Thank you.

FetishFiend,

I guess everyone's different, but for me, and I have a colon very sensitive to irritation, the most comfortable enema is either just plain warm water, or saline (0.9%) at about 1-1.5 tsp/quart of salt to water, or baking soda. I don't use soda much, but I believe about the same amount is adequate. Next time I weigh it I'll post the amount to produce 1.4% soda. If you use one of those, you don't need to rinse with anything unless you just want another enema to enjoy. I hope you enjoy yourself - let us know how it goes for you.

Eric

When I take an enema, I focus more on how I will feel in a few hours when it's all over than on how I feel when I'm actually taking it.

Short term discomfort for longer term pleasure

@fetishfiend the only time I rinse after an enema is if it had soap in it, which seems to be standard from posts I've seen over the years. I've read responses, though, from some members here who don't rinse even after that.

I think it is a good idea to rinse after a soapy enema but I know members who got a soapy enema from mom and never had a rinse. In some cases their moms were nurses.

I think it is a good idea to rinse after a soapy enema but I know members who got a soapy enema from mom and never had a rinse. In some cases their moms were nurses.

As a kid I never got a rinse. I do rinse now, and I find one soapy and one rinse gets noticeably more out than just one soapy, and it sure seems as though my colon settles down a bit faster after the rinse than if you stop after the first soapy. I don't think there are any major problems to not rinsing other than maybe a little discomfort, so do whatever you like best.

My guess is that moms and nurses don't want to put their patients and themselves through another enema if they don't have to. With the way I was as a kid I can well imagine why too!

Communication is so important when you're giving an enema and trying to keep it comfortable. I know that I'm talking to the choir here.

I'm not into pain either taking or giving, but we know that's not always possible to avoid. The first time a nurse gave me a cleansing enema, it was very uncomfortable, even though Angie kept talking to me and every time I would wince with pain she would stop the flow and let me rest. She taught me different ways to breathe through the cramps, tricks I've have used for years.

I think my biggest smile after giving enemas to a very anxious and ill daughter in the middle of the night was afterwards when Jen gave me a huge hug and said she felt better how much she loved me. Then we had a good cry together before I put her back to bed.

My greatest source of discomfort is volume. I like to take a suppository or have a small amount of liquid entered for a preliminary clean-out, then proceed to the major enema. If I don't do this I just can't hold much at all. I agree with other posts that speed is an enemy to a good - and enjoyable - enema. Having a nozzle that remains inside by itself allows me to better relax (because of my situation a self-administered enema is my only option). Soap for a better clean-out is often uncomfortable. Is soap necessary for a better clean-out? Any testable information on this? If I want a really relaxing experience I go for a professionally-administered colonic.

Is soap necessary for a better clean-out? Any testable information on this?

Soap isn't necessary, but they have done studies that indicate it provides a better cleanout if your definition of better is a greater return. They tagged enema solution and measured how much went in and how much came out in a couple different studies. I can look up references if you would like.

Emom has always told of her great life experiences. I agree with her comments here and everywhere. My dream during receiving or giving an enema to a lover is all her written items. Thank her as I do for being kind and loving. For me, soap is always an occasional option.

L

Enema’s are not meant to be uncomfortable at any time.

They should be slowly given or taken. No harsh soaps and a volume that you can handle .

I like the bag and bulb, however I find the bulb a more controlled way of receiving either from my wife or myself.

With a bulb you can stop, roll back and massage the belly.

Also while receiving on bed you can relax and experience other things as it is pumped into you.

Time is the other issue, the enema should be race. Just a sensuous journey.✔️

A comfortable enema is a very complicated thing. It depends on both the purpose and the circumstances. I try to make all the enemas for myself and my wife with a solution that is strictly in the range of 38 to 42 degrees Celsius. The solution is best accepted by the body at this temperature, even if the bottom is full and the solution is irritating. Volume - most often one liter of irritating solution is sufficient, especially if the bottom is not too full and can be injected deep enough. If the solution is gentle (eg 0.9% sodium chloride), two liters can also be tried. If the gentle solution is inserted slowly enough, the feeling of comfort does not disappear even at fairly large amounts. It's hard for me to decide which solution is more comfortable - 0.9% sodium chloride, or a slightly stronger baking soda solution. I can enjoy both of them - the bottom accepts them without cramps and side effects. Of course, the most pleasant enema is with about 400 grams of warm olive oil. It needs to be let in very deeply (with the right nozzle) and go for an hour walk around town. Very interesting feelings - as if a little drunk.