Comfortable Enemas

Since one of the major reasons that I'll do an enema is to find some time for myself and truly relax. Years ago, Marlene, was known for saying "It's an enema, not a race," and I always thought about the things that make an enema truly comfortable, including:

1. Temperature, maybe just a bit more than body temperature. Not too cold nor too hot.

2. Bag height. Not too high so that you take it too fast

3. Ingredients. If I want a real cleaning out, it's soap. Otherwise baking soda is soothing

4. Quantity. Sometimes I can take a full bag, but other times a single quart is all I need.

5. Time. Set aside enough time to make, take, and expel your enema. Don't rush it.

Afterward, take some time to relax. A soak in a hot tub or a nice cup of tea for some quiet moments. What do others think about comfort?

However it's arranged, a warm and comfy environment.

I like to have a large time slot to have my enemas. I have a hard time retaining even small amounts, but had a sensual massage before a series of enemas once and found I could take over a quart then. I also have to administer my own enemas and its awkward to do so. I prefer a mild soap solution for cleansing but recently have taken to straight water enemas from a shower nozzle. Its not as comfortable but much handier. It would be great to have someone administer them but that isn't possible under my circumstances. Emom's advice is great! Good luck to others, and enjoy!

Emom,

I agree. While I enjoy the sensual aspect of enemas my wife only takes them for relief from constipation. I try to make my wife as comfortable as possible when I give her enema. We take it slow and I began using a colon tube which she finds more comfortable than the hard plastic nozzles.

Yes very slow you should enjoy the enema.

Agree totally - take your time, and enjoy every moment of it!

Emom, I totally agree with you. Enemas are usually used for my "special time", total comfort and relaxation are a must. I always relax during and after while listening to soft music. I set aside at least 2hrs. for a session. I no longer try to see how much and how fast I can take an enema. Thanks for the thread Emom.

For me, it is a combination of many feelings. I like it warm...almost hot...hung high for fast flow, taking a large volume, 4 quarts or more. But the relaxation afterward and the mindspace resulting is the true high. Sometimes there is an orgasm, sometimes just a peaceful feeling of relaxation. There are usually several in a sequence. Wine, love it, but with care. Salt and soda is the favorite...soothing.

When it isn't rushed, about 105 degrees, Rosemary & Camomile. 2 quarts is comfortable for me to retain for some time.

Emom's suggestions are great and have used similar procedures. For an exceptionally good nights sleep I do a cayenne enema. I take a teaspoon of cayenne and make a "tea" by boiling the water and seeping the cayenne for 15-20 minutes. Strain to remove the solid pepper and add water to make 2 quarts. I like the resulting temperature to be around 108F. I take one quart hold for 10 minutes or the need to expel arises. Empty and take the second quart and hold for as long as I can but not more than 30 minutes. Expel. Do a rinse enema with baking soda at 100F.

You will sleep like a baby. And the process feels good. You do get hot and may perspire. After the rinse enema I usually shower and go to bed.

If you only want to relax ... camomille is the rule !!

Emom's list is almost my exact procedure. I like the water to be about 105, salt and soda with the bag about 24 inches above my rectum. After gently inserting my colon tube, I start the flow and take as much as is comfortable. Sometimes it's 2-3 quarts, sometimes more. But enema time is a "special time" and one to be savored and not rushed.

Have fun and play safe!

Deb

Nothing is quite like a nice, slow, comfortable high enema to calm the nerves, relieve anxiety, and cause total relaxation, especially if you have a partner to give it to you. For years, my partner was my mother. Aside from the high enema series' I would get every 4 to 6 months for detoxifying me colon, almost all the other enemas I got from her were for stress related issues, not constipation. She knew I liked getting enemas from her, and if I was being harassed at school or by the neighborhood bully. She could tell by the look on my face when I got home that i was stressed out, and suggested I go up to my bedroom and get undressed, and she'd give me a nice warm enema to calm me down.

Emom, Karma for you! I'm amazed at how many folks partake for relaxation rather than sexual release

EMOM has descibed a perfect reason to give yourself an enema.

You should try a cuddle enema 😉 i did this quite often with my ex on rainy days, just stay at home, get an enema for us boath and snuggle up together in the bed.

After a house full of company yesterday and perhaps a little too much indulging, the house was really quiet this morning so I retreated to the bathroom with the combination syringe, a box of baking soda, jar of Vaseline and a couple of scented candles. It was a perfect way to pamper myself and I feel absolutely great now. Happy Thanksgiving everyone.

I would like to talk with someone like Emom, who knows so much about enemas.

I indulged too much the last two days too. So woke up this morning and enjoyed a couple soapy enemas and a rinse, feel much better now.

Happy Holidays to all. 😃

My family, including myself, over did it on Thanksgiving and as soon as we arrived home went to bed. But on Friday morning at breakfast we were all very sluggish and lazy. Our youngest girl an enema would fix her up an mom said that enemas would be good for all of us.

The end result was that we each received a soapy followed by a rinse in a family enema setting. When we were done we sat around and discussed what to have for dinner, pizza or chinese.

Im intersted in the arousements while taking enemas,not so often or very often

Enemas are SUPPOSED to be uncomfortable

They are like a good newspaper They comfort the alfflicted and afflict the comfortable

Lisak said

Enemas are SUPPOSED to be uncomfortable

REALLY????

Only in an S&M scene.

Enemas are SUPPOSED to be uncomfortable

Well not all enemas.

My approach to enemas has always been from a pleasure / soothing / erotic POV. I have been doing enemas for decades and have learned how to enhance the pleasure aspects of my enemas based on volume, type of nozzle or colon tube and recipe of the enema. I do recognize there are some who do wish to create discomfort for their enema experience which ironically may produce their pleasure. But I am not in that camp, and I think most would prefer an enema that produces good feelings vs. discomfort.

A filing of about 2 1/2 quarts of warm water combined with a tablespoon of Dr. Bronners, a warm room, dim lighting, pillows and towels, and my naked enemate softly detailing the enema she wants from me later, along with loving attention to my erection.......that's comfortable.

Enemas are SUPPOSED to be uncomfortable

I'll echo Susie... what?!?!?!

And yes, I remember that 'enema race' Marlene quote from the Voy forums. 😄

One thing about enemas is there are so many ways to "play" them. Sure they can be uncomfortable, but they can also be heavenly. And if the mood is right they can be both at the same time.

Take them (safely!) how you want them and enjoy.

Loved your post Emom. i also light candles for a nice relaxing environment. i sleep so much better. i am still new and checking things out and learning. i am so relaxed after the one i gave myself. i am hoping again tonight

Enemas should be comfortable and for me its all about "relaxing". My recipe is; take plenty of time, don't put the bag too high, get the water temperature right, add some herbs (for example German Chamomile), make a little nest of water soft towels, burn some incense and possible candles, do the deep breathing exercises and hey presto! Finish feeling fresh as a daisy and ... Off tomorrow to see Sue for a colonic. That is blissful too...

Uncomfortable - Never

I just love the feel of warm water streaming in side me - then expulsion great also. Then the double bardot warm and relax with a few cramps - great!