What is it that draws you to medfet?

Embarrassing humilitiatng Submission

For me is the sight of a beautiful woman with stethoscope around her neck. From there, anything really!!

Going to the Pediatrician when I was small. Being examined naked with the nurse in the room

Being taken to places (clinics) by my mother as a child, where I was made to undress and submit to the touching and penetrations by complete strangers (pretty nurses) was where and when my medfet started.

“Let’s get those pants unfastened and get started. I need to get a temp on him.” ~ Nurse Bottomthermometer

“For me, it is that whole power exchange. As a patient, you give yourself over in a way that you do not in any other facet of your life. As a Doc, you're given a level of trust and respect that is incomparable. The intimacy of the touch of an examiner is more exciting than many sexual encounters.”

So true. I hadn't thought about it in exactly these terms before. I'd thought about the intimacy and excitement of the touch, and also agree with some other comments I've read in this forum that actual penetrative sex would ruin it (although orgasm through manual stimulation could have a place). I had not really thought much about the trust/safety aspect or the power exchange, though I had thought of it as being exciting to be naked and vulnerable to someone of authority in a professional/safe setting. I like the idea of giving free reign to someone in charge, who may take some liberties with my body, might make me do things I otherwise wouldn't, but won't truly hurt me. So you've made it clear to me why I also like light-moderate bdsm, massage, secretary/boss scenarios and the like. It must have a lot to do with the power exchange element.

“And I also like the idea of medical fetish being something of a cleaner, more sterile version of BDSM. I know some people get off thinking about being tied up in a dark, humid basement or on a St. Andrew's Cross. I like to think of a doctor's office as a safer, more well-lit alternative to that fantasy.”

Yes, this exactly.

Reading the replies here, I honestly can't say. I'm guessing it's some of the forbidden fruit aspects of it all. In real life, I don't trust doctors unless they really prove themselves. I'm not submissive, I don't like pain or humiliation and I prefer to be in control of every situation. However, I guess it's sort of a what if fantasy, like what if I completely trusted him and it was all optional and deeply erotic and we were both into it.

Everything especially when my a$$ is involved 🍑🌡💦👈🏻

I didn't realize I even had an attraction to medfet, or any other fetish for that matter, up until meeting my husband. He was upfront from the beginning about his med fetishes once we started courting. I was, to say the least, very intimidated and overwhelmed by this new world; however, I'm an empath and I can put myself in his shoes and I get it. That, plus he's so handsome and confident and soo alpha and so kind hearted so here we are!

What I have learned in this fetish world and being married to a medfet fanatic is, it was important to study and learn the answer to the question posed in this thread. I've learned also to allow him his space to explore with me so he can open, and not have to walk on eggshells around me. Also, I had to open my own mind to what he enjoys, which was hard at first because I come from a very conservative, modest upbringing.

Now, I would say I've learned I enjoy being shown off while at the same time, getting shy and embarrassed to be so exposed...especially because of my upbringing. We like it to be where it comes off very innocent, like Im oblivious to being exposed whether it's walking around in public in short shorts, laying out in a thong, and NOW tie it into the medfet world. Exposing my nakedness to the dominant doctor, having him probe my anus while he takes my temp, ordering me in different positions, and just giving in to pleasure and giving up control. I like catching the doctor stare at my body, and spank me and grab my naked butt. It's all rather arousing. Most importantly, my husband getting an erection by the whole process. Exciting.

When I was younger I don't think I had a medical fetish. I think it started in my late twenties early thirties. When I started to receive full physicals being told what to do and basically having to be responsible enough to do it no matter how embarrassing the situation. When I was younger I don't ever remember it being exciting or arousing. I used to hate going to the doctors. Once you become old enough to have to take responsibility for yourself you realize you have no choice but to do what the doctor and nurses tell you so you are basically submitting to them. It's a dominance and submission feeling. I think that is what draws me to it.

I have to say that I was basically a enema guy and it developed from there. After enemas it became rectal Temps, then speculums and I learned to do head to toe exams by doing it on a nurse who walked me through it.I love it all!

I basically do not relate to this power thing or domination.

For me, my interest in medfit is about sex and erotica. A grown woman, naked, gladly showing me her private parts, telling me what she most wants me to do to her for her sexual pleasure, or telling me to teach her about anal pleasures, about enemas of every kind or “be my doctor.”

I love women. All my friends are women. I have no male friends. Never understood why but women are another story.

They come to my house, take their clothes off and ask me to make naked photos of them. My wife knows. I show her my best images and enter them in art exhibits and gallery shows. I win awards, money and my reputation grows as an artist.

If the relationship continues, it usually ends in in medical play - enemas, vaginal play or exploration under the lady’s direction or just social nudity at a nearby clothing optional resort.

They learn something about themselves or just explore interests they didn’t know they had.

It’s happened a few times where an attractive lady turns me down when I tell her I’d like to photograph her. Then she sees some of my images at a gallery. She comes and asks if those are the kind of photographs I was asking her to model for.

I say yes. These ladies make great models because they come in to my studio, quickly shed their clothes in front of me without my asking and say, “Okay, what do you want me to do?”

From there the sky is the limit. It has nothing to do with power.

Anyone else have such an experience?