Dr. Phil - Adult public display

Was at a friends house today they brought up a Dr Phil show recently of an AB DL guy who apparently was telling his story. My friend and her family were so descusted about the whole idea of the guy wearing and using his diapers for pee and poop. Along with the guys girlfriend changing him too.

I told them it was a fetish but did not go any further. However I myself do find it discusting that people like this guy, and his girlfriend have to flont their person habits to the media.

Why is it people have to do this I don't want to know what goes on behind my neighbor's doors. It seems people today think they have to force themselves upon others, and we are supposed to accept it.

Do not get me wrong I am not finding fault with anyone here, or with him. There is nothing wrong with being a DL or AB. I just don't get the idea of drawling attention from the public to your private activities.

Do any of you have any thoughts on this subject.

Well i hope this will make you kind of understand some on this subject.

If you are a diaper lover chances are if your in public your not making it obvious that you are diapered. However a diaper lover usually goes potty in diapers no matter where they happen to be. But they will be as discreet as possible when doing this in public.

If you are a adult baby, then the idea is a baby never hides his/her diapers from anyone. It is a act of submission on the babies part to give up full controll of where he/she will go potty when needed, reguardless of who is around or place. Babies make stinky or wet diapers in public all the time and that is what the adult baby is trying to duplicate.

I do agree about the pooping part in public though.

While it may be fun or exciting to make a stinky or wet diaper in public. One can be done allot easier then the other. I never want to engage the public with my diaper wearing. Its my fetish that i can keep going with in public so long as i do not cause a disturbance or gross others out. I will never poop a diaper in public due to the smell and others having to maybe smell it. Not fair to them to smell that while im getting my fun in. But this public adult baby stuff is only for a few and hard core people. Just like a true dom sub relationship if hardcore will take their kink into public and thats their business the way they look at it. But what you witnessed on tv or talked about with them is showbiz only. Most people on them shows are paid money for their appearance on it.While you may never see a adult baby in public in real life they are out there. It is to few to count though.

Hey guys. I'm not sure if anyone has seen this or posted about this already.. A few months ago, I was flipping through the channels and Dr. Phil came on. There was a guest who was explaining his AB side. He was in his early 20s and had worn diapers 24/7 for several years. His girlfriend was also on the show. There were videos of her taking care of him.. feeding him, playing with him, etc. His girlfriend admitted to cheating on him, and started participating in his lifestyle, becoming his full-time mommy. This was done completely out of guilt.

I couldn't stand that negative image of ABs. As if there weren't enough negative connotations. This guy wanted absolutely nothing to do with his adult life and insisted that he was a baby trapped in an adult's body. I don't feel the same exact way, but I think I can understand the feeling. What I don't understand is why he expected his girlfriend to baby him, like it was her duty to pay him back for cheating on him once. I don't condone cheating, but I'll make an exception in this case... the guy had absolutely no sex drive and refused to even try to please her, sexually or in any other way. The first phase of the relationship was him trying to get her to baby him, and the second phase was her babying him out of guilt. She said she loved him when he acted his age, which was very rarely. And he was making plans to live as a baby full time. So where does that leave her?

So because of this segment, displayed on national television, ABs look deviant, selfish, dysfunctional, abusive, lazy, mentally ill... It's hard to admit that I'm an AB/DL because the only ideas people have of them consist of the guys they saw on Dr. Phil or Taboo or shows like that.

I can totally agree with you on much of what you say. I feel the same about letting anyone know what I do, or the like I have for such things. Lets face it, people so want to slot you in to some form of classification, and be able to slam a fast judgement down on you. They feel better somehow, one they have that done. Now they know for sure for themselves, what you are, by what they think, and that's all that matters.

And those shows, well, they are all about ratings and what sells. They aren't going to want people on, who won't draw a crowd. That's just how it is, and rarely will a better side of this type of lifestyle, or a liking for AB or DL be shown.

Hey, but that's why we have this great website to come to. We know what's what, and can except each other, and not pass the quick judgements.

One last word, there is also good and bad in everything. There are some wonderful AB/DL people, and some not so. Take it as it comes, and know the person you are, is who you want to be, and be happy!

Was supposed to be on the Donahue show with Misteress Ann Murry (baby Lee was on with her instead)

instead i ended up in hospital to have broken spinal fusion repaired and saw show (while nurse was changing my wet and messy diaper