Anal fisting beyond the rectum

The idea of anal fisting has always appealed to me - not so much to my husband, so it is unlikely we will attempt it. I've been concerned (paranoid?) about the risks though (i.e. permanent damage?)....

Ladybug761- Too bad your husband doesn't want to try. It's a lot of fun, and very orgasmic.

I appreciate the fear of damage, but it is baseless if you go slow, and use lots of lube.

I've had a fist in my rectum (and a lot further) many times, and toys bigger than a fist 100's.

My anus is still water, and air tight, and as cute as when I was a teenager.

Asses are magical.

Been à m'y first time been fist help to relax and be Well lube ,never add full hand in me but I am closes ,for me it take time and practice

But Stil love and have some great orgasm

Patience, lots of lube, and a gentle hand is what it takes to get beyond the rectum. Most often, I am unable to get deeper inside my boyfriend because he's too tight around my knuckles. So when it comes to width, he relaxes more when I flatten my hand and massage the walls of his rectum, in circular motions, sliding in and out, rotating the flat of my hand inside him, and press gently towards his spine to stretch him open. Once I open him wide enough, it gets easier to go deeper. When I'm fisting him and come to unyielding rings, I flirt with it with my index and/or middle finger, just barely moving my fingertips to massage and relax it so it will open up to me. It's amazing how something that could not take my fingertip only moments before gives way and allows my hand to enter him further. I just take my time and let it flow naturally. The entrance of the sigmoid has that little curve so I hook my finger against it and, again, flirt with it by barely moving the tips until they relinquish their hold and allow me to enter him more deeply.

So, just patience, lube, and a gentle hand. Let his response guide you. Never force beyond what he can take. If you hurt his rectum or sigmoid by forcing too much too soon, his body will remember and will tense up whenever it is tried again. So take your time and enjoy. It often takes an hour or two before his body allows me inside him to a little beyond the middle of my forearm, so maybe 12 to 14 inches.

I never make a goal out of going deeper. It's just one of those things that happen sometimes. My aim is to give him pleasure, relax him, and fill him with my hand. Anything else is just gravy.

Oh egirlky, you surely know your way around the insides! Wish I knew someone with magic hands like yours!

Wanna say thanks to everybody especially buttwomam, wild bill and susie. I absolutely love reading every post you post. Egirky you are amazing also. Your hubby is sooooooo lucky.

@afternine Thanks. I try. After all these years together, Mike and I have it mostly figured out how to please each other.

@enemajj He's my boyfriend, not my husband. We met here 8 or 9 years ago. It's been great.

Egirlky, I so wish you could teach my wife Pam how to deep fist me the way you do Mike. Your description of how you deep fist Mike is hugely arousing to me, (and I mean huge. 😄 )

I think that if Pam would simply hold her well lubed fist and forearm out for me in a stationary position, then I could just use my body to bury her fist and her forearm inside me up to her elbow. The process would be very similiar to what I do when I work my huge Python double dong 12 inches deep inside me. The Python has two 3-inch diameter heads joined by a 2-foot long, 2.5-inch diameter shaft. Half of the Python, is very similar in size and shape to Pam's fist and forearm up to her elbow.

I'll never forget the first time I got half of my huge Python double dong into me 12 inches deep. It took a little work just to get one 3-inch diameter head of the Python into my rectum. Then I had to slide myself up and down on the head and an inch or two of the shaft for a few minutes to get it to open me up. It started feeling really good as I bumped the head harder and harder into the top of my rectum. Then the head suddenly popped through the sphincter at the top of my rectum. It almost instantly slid in another six inches into me to fill my lower sigmoid. The sensation was so sexually intense that it induced an almost instant orgasm. The intense pleasure of the Python suddenly filling my lower sigmoid made me almost against my will grab my cock, which seconds later led to a huge, gushing, shuddering, unforgettable, full body orgasm.

Here's my plan to get Pam to deep fist me up to her elbow. First I get Pam to help me get the Python 12 inches deep into me. Then we pull the Python out, and Pam lubes up her fist and forearm and just holds her arm out for me in a stationary horizontal position. On my back, I slide my well lubed anus up to her fist and use my body to push her fist into me. Then I push and pull myself back and forth over her fist and wrist to make her fist repeatedly bump into the top of my rectum harder and harder in a pleasurable way, not too much push force too fast. Suddenly, my lower sigmoid sphincter opens with one big push, and her fist pops into my sigmoid. I have to push a little more to get the increasing diameter of her forearm through my anus, but soon her whole forearm up to her elbow is inside me! Then I tell her to start moving her arm in and out, which leads to orgasmic pleasure beyond description.

I really want to try this soon if she is willing, but Pam is reluctant to try to go beyond my rectum because she fears she'll do permanent damage to me. I hope she overcomes her fear, and learns to feel her way around inside me like you can, egirlky. Then I can just lie back and enjoy.

Here's my plan to get Pam to deep fist me up to her elbow. First I get Pam. . .

Let us know how your plan went.

We start a little different I do a good enema with baby shampoo and a pinch of salt with a 2 gal jug I can take about 1 gal in the beginning and the more I do the more I can take and do the same with clean fresh water wait about 30 mins until all water is removed ..Now she starts with 60ML of KY Jelly mixed with a little water to keep it wet then she starts to inset the 22 inch by 1.5 inch dildo.I take it like a pro all the way in after working it in and out for a few mins she takes it out and starts with the fingers one then 2 then 4 after a few mins then I start to feel something larger like her hand it pops in and she goes ½ way to the elbow after working it for a while she removes the hand the reinserts the dildo and now she adds a touch of expanding the anus she sticks fingers in around the dildo this feels really good working up to inserting the hand with the dildo..That will make me cum the first time she gets the hand and dildo in all at one time …no hurry slow and easy will work,, may be a months but we will plug the hole since this is out weekly treat..

Me an my gf are just in the beginning with fisting me but already after a few times she was able to get most of her forearm inside and she enjoys fisting me as much as I love being fisted by her. Just waiting to get an orgasm solely from being fisted by her.

Wow! Such a wealth of information on this site and within this post. Nothing like it back 25+ years ago. Even with a medical background, hands on rules. One technique I would use after the hubby was good and cleaned out, I would have him fill up his ass with water. Once he had a quart or two in I would go in with my hand and by feel and direction get a good layout of his innards. I also wish that I knew for depth to use my right hand when he was on his back-legs up and left hand when on all fours-face down butt propped up! Huge difference!

New to the boards... love the discussions and experiences shared. My fiance has fisted me deep...but not elbow deep. Yet. Usually, I am on my back, but when I am using toys to explore depth, for some reason I am able to straighten out inside when I am on my left side. For depth play we have found that the Doc Johnson 18"x1.8" Jelly double headed dildo is the toy to slowly work past the sphincters and sling muscle, as well as negotiate the two turns out of the rectum through the sigmoid then up into the descending colon. For whatever reason, the non-symmetrical shape of the head of the dildo helps, and spinning it and bending it while it gently pushes up against the sling muscle gives great feedback as to what is working, and what is not working. For us, I know we are moving forward because the stretch is intense, almost painful at first. What really helps me is to push out and bear down... as hard as I can. I find this opens me up, relaxes the muscles involved, to the point now where I kind of swallow the head of the dildo inside me. That's one of the reasons we don't play this way until I am VERY clean VERY deeply. Use your favorite lube...lots of it, liberally. For our play, we only use water based lube(J-Lube) for the first two toys, due to the second toy not being compatible with Crisco or oil-based/silicone based lubes.

Once we have managed to get this toy inside, all the way, and rested here a bit, out it comes and we insert 3-4 frozen J-lube cubes (Mix up J-lube to your desired consistency, pour into ice cube trays and freeze.) inside my ass and then using the toy, push them as deep as possible inside me. Frozen lube cubes are erotic, add a cooling effect, and allow for lube to be quickly moved along the path of the toy.

We have two toys that really work to stretch things out in what we hope is prep for deeper fisting. The Real Deal 14" from Forttroff, and the Dick Rambone 14". The toys are the same size, but the dual density Real Deal is so soft and flexible that it works much better as the follow-up toy. With patience and plenty of J-lube, this toy goes all the way in, around both turns and past the sling muscle. This one is easy to take back and forth full depth which feels amazing, deep full pressure! It is too flexible for my fiance though, so we have followed up with the Rambone. Before we do though, it gets coated in Crisco, and one or two full syringes of Crisco get squirted inside my rectum. Rambone barely bends, so on my side, spinning it and twisting it as it is pushed firmly up against the sling muscle, I feel the point at which everything lines up and the head begins to open and pass through... then it literally gets sucked inside me as I am now bearing down and pushing out... slipping my colon and rectum down over the toy. We have in the past stopped at this point, exhausted and orgasmically spent, satisfied in our depth play progress.

Our goal now is to immediately follow up this play with her wrist and then, in theory, her forearm to her elbow, hoping her fingers can follow the path of the toys. Soon we will try again, and I will update this discussion with the outcome!

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Once we have managed to get this toy inside, all the way, and rested here a bit, out it comes and we insert 3-4 frozen J-lube cubes (Mix up J-lube to your desired consistency, pour into ice cube trays and freeze.) inside my ass and then using the toy, push them as deep as possible inside me. Frozen lube cubes are erotic, add a cooling effect, and allow for lube to be quickly moved along the path of the toy.

Our goal now is to immediately follow up this play with her wrist and then, in theory, her forearm to her elbow, hoping her fingers can follow the path of the toys. Soon we will try again, and I will update this discussion with the outcome!

I have done a little of this and your ideas for pushing lube up with frozen cubes is very good. I look forward to hearing how everything comes out. (Pun intended!)

@Morethrottle3 said

New to the boards... love the discussions and experiences shared. My fiance has fisted me deep...but not elbow deep. . . . .

My husband is a "one fist guy" and I am in to the elbow and beyond all the time. I can grab my husband's ribcage "from the inside." I do it for my husband regularly--he is addicted.

Maybe this will help you go to the elbows and beyond. . . . .

If you are on your back and your wife is lying, sitting or standing between your legs, she should use her RIGHT hand to fist you. In that position, your descending colon will be on your wife's right, which is what you want because her left wrist and arm won't be able to bend properly to go up your descending and into the transverse. Her left hand as it were, would be asked to bend backwards to follow the curves of the colon.

If you are lying on your stomach, and your wife is lying, sitting or standing between your legs, she should use her LEFT hand because that way her wrist and arm will be able to bend in the direction of the colon.

As an amateur tribologist, I agree with your use of J-Lube because it is water soluble and its lubricating ingredient, hydrated polyethylene oxide IS the most lubricious/slippery sexual lubricant on the market despite having to occasionally re-apply it or spray some water on the skin to keep it hydrated and slippery. We never liked crisco.

WE ARE LOOKING FORWARD TO YOUR REPORT! 😁

@Morethrottle3 and @SwitchableSusie ,I usual refer this as depth play. You gotten into and through the houston valves which would be deeper than the rectum and before the bend go the sigmoid. This can be a difficult area to stretch and an are to constantly maintain. Sounds like you could be well into the sigmoid. How deep is you partner's wrist ? arm ? inserted. I guess you may have learned that if you can relax you can make some real progress going deeper. it's nice to see two individuals figure the geometry of going deep and them create a solution for deeper insertion incorporating new positions for each and the arm also. This kind of play takes commitment and desire often from both of you. It can create a good deal of intimacy once you can relax and enjoy someone close sharing exploring the inside of your body and stimulating you in ways you never imaged. Both of you must be creative individuals as well as being a bit adventurous. Traits that serve the fetish community well. Do you have a goal of how deep you initially wish to go?. When your progress slows down try inhaling to your very max all the while sucking your abdomen in. As you exhale you may find her hand or a larger colon tube may slip in a bit more. When your colon gets irritated or is starting to , take some time off you will do better. If you would care to let us know your progress an experiences on your erotic journey .

I'm the hunter and my prey is within arm's reach!, (cool). Once I get my hands on it... the game begins. Whatever it takes, I can't be stopped, except for the obvious and a viable safe word. With safety and monitoring I go an extreme with the most important aspect being my prey. I am nothing without it! 1mm. or a fraction of each conquest is all I need. I've built this delicious pile for my taking. I own it. My proof is 25+ years of 1mm at a time. I will work more on my foot later, but my shoulder is a must! I have large strong hands for a woman and way above average lean mass in the tricep and bicep region. I'm about 4" from the center of your armpit or top of my deltoid. The thrill is watching my bicep disappear. The rush is beyond words! My husband is so talented allowing me this! He loves that I am his poison!

I’ve always been fascinated by the thought of being fisted. I’ve done it to a friend but I can’t. My friend can get 5 in but that’s about it. I need someone with a small hand

Lots to follow for further depth training.. I'm ready to step up the width of the dildo going past the 2nd sphincter. At the 18"x1.85" .. Thanks all or the input.

Love this thread, what a find! I've been in to anal play for some time and can slide 12" of dick rambone in no problem, however seem to be hitting a barrier past this depth. I don't enema and thinking thats the issue, or is there some sort of change at this depth I can't master? Guessing im well onto the sigmoid? Appreciate any advice, thank you!