Favorite techniques in giving oral

I'm just curious how you guys love to receive a great BJ? Are there any favorite techniques that your partner uses that gives you incredible satisfaction?

I'm sure many men feel the same as I do about a prostate massage while getting a BJ. Start out with an enema to get cleaned out and no doubt put in the mood. Then a lubed finger sliding around the anus (teasing) and then slide the finger in.

Best bj I ever had was when my lover gave me a prostate massage, I came and came until I was totally spent. I usually could come 2 to 3 times a day, but after that experience, it took me 2 to 3 days to recover :-)

I LOVE when my girl wraps her hand around my dick so that the tip is about mid-fist. Then she fills the hole on top that her fingers made with alot of wet spit and works her magic hand along the length of my dick making me super wet before she takes me deep into her throat. When she starts to play with my ass I seriously have to concentrate NASA-style to keep my shit together. She loves it when I fill her mouth with my hot cum. It feels like I shoots gallons. I am a lucky man 😃

I like getting them in a hot tub. just lay back the feel of the water swirling around your balls and the stroking action and a lubed finger working around you butt hole will send me over the edge every time she plays with me

I like to be sitting with her between my legs. It is so erotic to look at her in such a submissive position. I agree that anal stimulation is a great addition to a good blow job. This is easily facilitated by simply sliding a little further down the chair.

On my back, partner between my legs so that I can enjoy watching her use her mouth and tongue, having her look up at with those those hot eyes and sly grin, knowing excatly what she is doing is driving me crazy

Sixty-nine with her on top - definitely! I can get my mouth on everything and anything I want, and she has the flexibility to move however she wants while she is pleasuring me. The excitement of giving and receiving at the same time enhances the pleasure for me, and I don't feel as selfish receiving pleasure if I'm giving it at the same time.

I'm with old_and_in_the_way on the 69 position!!

I love being stroked as I am sucked and run that tongue up and down my shaft, and lick those shaved balls MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM !!!!!

Old and in the way,

First of all, I looked at your profile because of your unique name, just to see how old you are, lol. Ummm, don't know if it makes you feel any better, but you are a long way from old. Besides that, I read a previous post of yours about the 69 position where you mentioned that you get a totally different feeling depending on whether or not you are on top or she is. Well friend, I"m here to tell you that if you are still able to get yourself in those types of positions, then again, you are not at all "old and in the way." It sounds like to me that your partner probably finds you quite useful, lol. But I digress.....

You made a comment in your above post that struck me as a bit odd. I am probably over stepping my bounds here, but I want to tell you something from a womans side of things.

You said and I quote, "I don't feel as selfish receiving pleasure if I'm giving it at the same time."

Again, I am getting up on my psych soap box, so please be kind. Sex is very different for men and women, both physically and mentally speaking. I can't speak for anyone but myself here, and the others in which I have discussed this sort of thing with, but, and again, I do not know what kind of relationship you have with your partner, but from a few of your other posts it sounds as if the two of you love each other, which makes a whole lot of difference in what I am trying to tell you here.

When a woman really loves a man, and is totally in love with him, she wants to please him. And believe it or not, I don't have to have an orgasm to be pleased in bed with Doc. Do I want to cum, yes, absolutely, does it excite me that he wants to and cares that he is pleasing me too, yes, again, absolutely, but because I love him so much, it isn't a deal breaker.

There have been so many times that the best sex I have had with Doc during our week have been the times when he allowed me to just sort of take him over, take his control, and I don't necessarily mean whips, chains, and under the bed restraint systems, but when I have lead him to bed, slowly taken his clothes off, kissed him seductively, and climbed on top of him and rode him gently and slowly until he came.

Did I cum, no, did I even come close to cumming, no, but it wasn't about me, it was about him. I wanted to give him his most prized posession, which is me. I know that I completely and totally pleased him by doing so, which, I know doesn't make a lick of sense to you guys, but for us women, totally pleasing our men that we love, pleases us just as much, and sometimes even more, even without having an orgasm.

That's what love does to you. It makes you want to give 100 percent of yourself to the other, and not expect anything in return. It's a gift, an offering of one's total self to the other.

I could go into more psycho babble as to why we are this way, but I won't bore you with that, lol. You can thank me later for not doing that to you, lol.

So please try to remember what I have told you. Sometimes your woman just wants you to relax, lay back and let her service you like the king I am sure she sees you as to her. It's not being selfish if you lay back and allow her to service you because she wants to. Men tend to be fixers, hero's, meaning they can come in and save the day, and men tend to think if they are not doing such that we might think they are selfish or lazy, but again, when it comes to the bedroom, that isn't always the case.

So the next time your woman wants to give you that gift, that gift being her thinking only about you, remember, by you accepting her gift of herself, in reality, you are pleasing her just as much by doing so.

And the next time you feel like giving a little without something in return, strip her pants off, stick your face in her nether regions, and then when she stops screaming your name, tell her that Mashie sent you, lol. Just kidding.

Gook luck, and I do hope to hear more from you. I like your candidness.

Mashie

Mashie, you said it so eloquently.

Doc is one lucky guy. (when the tables are turned so is Mashie)

Skybear

Thanks Skybear, I think you just made me blush, lol. A karmic bump for you my friend.

Mashie

Actually, I know several lovely ladies whom I would love to service orally, unfortunately at this time none are interested. Personally, I have no desire for oral sex.

I like it when my wife exposes her teeth JUST A LITTLE BIT and gives me oral. Man is that NICE!! It keeps me big and hard longer. She didn't use to like oral, but is really loossening up in her more mature age.

I love being deep throated while receiving an enema!

As in almost any sex act, ENTHUSIASM is wonderful. And don't forget the power of looking your man in the eyes while performing.

I also heard that some women consider giving a man oral sex to be demeaning. Speaking for myself, I feel a bit demeaned because I'm almost powerless when a good fellatrix is working her magic. She, not I, is definitely in control.

Enthusiasm goes a long way.

The best I have experienced is asemi- continuous sucking along with a tongue massage right underneath the head

I would prefer to be reclining in a chair or on the couch, but with my hips far enough forward that the perineum and anus can still be easily teased. I love being able to throw my head back and comfortably recline, but also look down and have a nice view of a partner doing great work.

I also feel a WET blowjob is best. The more saliva, the better. Even better is the thicker saliva brought up from deeper in the throat that seems to be created when someone repeatedly takes you deep.

Plenty of suction is what really gets me off. Kissing, licking and stroking are great, but good, hard suction is my jam.

Finally, you have to be willing to use the hands too. Certainly I've had bj's where no hands were necessary, but I feel you miss something if there is no playing with the balls or teasing a bit farther below them.

That's how I like to receive them, but I also love to give them the same way. I've not had many complaints.

I love reviving oral while I am standing with her looking up at me and she takes Mr down her throat. I like grabbing the back of her year and shoving it in her throat. It seems to make her salivate more which causes her saliva to build up and drip down my balls. The warmth of her saliva feels great and it looks awesome too when its hanging from the bottom of her chin and my balls.

I guess I'm spoiled by watching Heather Brooks videos.... I'd love to be buried to my short hairs with a finger on my prostate pulling me deeper. Enough for fantasies, being sucked by someone with the desire to pull the sperm from your body through your cock is enough to make me want to explode while gently holdingon for the ride.

I love to give and receive blowjobs the same way. Laying back on a bed or in a chair with the giver laying or kneeling inbetween the receiver's legs which are spread open wide and bent at the knees for easy full access. The one sucking should give a slow, deep, fervent blowjob that is very warm and wet with plenty of saliva over the cock so that it feels like an amazing ass or pussy as they suck. I've enjoyed both a light wet blowjob where i can feel my sucker's warm lips barely wrap around my cock shaft as he sucks me but it's still warm and wet enough to drive me crazy with pleasure. I also like a slightly more firm suck that is still very wet and warm with their fist wrapped around my shaft as they slowly stroke it up and down with each stroke of their mouth. The cock has to be wet enough so that the hand can easily glide up and down the shaft to just under the head and every so often over the head with a more pressured stroke for maximum pleasure. Don't grip the shaft with your hand so that your hand isn't free to glide, that just hurts unless you're uncut probably. Lightly stroke and massage the balls with your other hand at the same time and you're golden. :-D

I like it in a half sitting - half lying position. It's comfortable, but I can still watch the girl. As for the technic, I love to feel the suction, and the tongue around the base of my foreskin.

I would say that 69 is a great oral experience. There is something about getting sucked and sucking/tonguing your partner's clit and pussy.

BUT my all time favorite way to get a BJ is to get a finger or fingers up my ass why getting blown. Oh my what an orgasm. I am twisting and contorting with so much pleasure it is so intense.

I love to suck a guy's hard cock to orgasm as I play with his ass and finger his ass. Love a big load of cum in my mouth and swallowing (with the right guy) mmmm. .I like to get off the same way receiving !

I take my dentures out and feel their cock in my mouth. They love the feeling when getting close. I push my finger in their ass and work there prostate to make them cum.