Anybody ever heard anyone sounding off about ABS

Anybody ever heard anyone sounding off about ABS and felt tempted to defend it and perhaps even declare their own interest?

Just in the forum areas of sites I visited. But yeah I would probably speak up to say something to them . I don't care what anyone says in life, everyone and I mean everyone has a kink of theirs that they think is OK. May not be to the extreme side of kink but a kink no matter what. I know my buddy has a foot fetish and he thinks its OK, other fetish things disturb him lol go figure. I may like to pee in diapers and stuff but to me that's OK and not to lick someone Else's feet.

Well, a lot of people with that interest hang out on legitimate incontinence sites and act like jerks. That is why people get upset. I am certainly not saying that most individuals with the fetish act that way, but some of those who do are very vocal and really end up making a lot of enemies for the rest of you.

I'm with taggers. What's "sounding off" on abs mean? Being very vocal on a forum?

Sounding off - expressing strong disparaging opinions about us.

While in the hospital for my 3rd back surgery had a nurse in room cleaning me up (messy diaper) and the other guy that they just admitted in next bed for hand sugery started making comments about the smell of a dirty diaper. >😢

After the nurse left I swung outta bed and rolled over to him and tried to explain that after a broken back I had no control. When he kept making nasty comments I just grabbed him by his shirt and after I pulled him close I proceeded to break his nose. >😄 The nurse in next room heard the commotion and after finding him with a broken nose, they moved him to another room and chewed me out big time 😳

A quick scour of the internet after plugging in different strings of choice words/phrases will ultimately unfold the more vocal world of the AB/DL to whomever is searching. While legitimate sites geared toward such interests with maintenance by moderators present a cleaner version of this, there are blurbs and blogs, incontinence sites, question sites, etc. that are inundated by impulsive, sociopathic behavior. This behavior can be anything from explicit fantasies where they don't belong, obsessions with children and an overall presentation that acts as exhibitionism.

Add to this those individuals in the media who have raided strangers garbage, insisted on taking their desires into the public sphere (where it is no longer mutually consensual), stealing, harassing others and again, the obsession with children and where that leads for those individuals.

Top all this off with the fact-yes fact-that this is truly a deviant behavior that goes against biological imperative, i.e. survival. That which is eliminated by the body is done so for a reason, because the body does not need it; as well, that which is excreted is typically not thought healthy to keep around-infection, disease, etc. This is why those animals that are to survive don't make a habit of nesting/eating where they eliminate.

All these things make for a more than strange desire in the eyes of those who do not feel it for themselves. And, unlike a scenario where a few bad religious types may color some perceptions in the world against the whole, there is unlikely to be much leniency in this realm-because it deviates from normal, understandable procedure. While there are many things that humans will do that are not necessarily directly for survival (although many things can be dissected down to just that), this particular behavior acts as anomalous in regard to normal function.

There will never be the day when this is seen as acceptable. Root out all the rabble-rousers bringing to the collective a bad name and it will still be received with indifference at best. Basically, at the bottom of it all, everyone has a responsibility to themselves to behave. Attempting to "educate" others will only go so far, and from the education attempts that I have witnessed in forums those who are insightful and articulate enough to make a decent case are few and far between. Sad to say the world receives the voice of reason from this group, and the voice thinks like a child...

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A quick scour of the internet after plugging in different strings of choice words/phrases will ultimately unfold the more vocal world of the AB/DL to whomever is searching. [....] While legitimate sites geared toward such interests with maintenance by moderators present a cleaner version of this, there are blurbs and blogs, incontinence sites, question sites, etc. that are inundated by impulsive, sociopathic behavior.

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Well said. This is a real problem on real incontinence sites I used to post on (I gave up because of this).

I'm not into the AB/DL thing, but I do have real problems with incontinence, dealing with my disease (of which the incontinence is a symptom) has greatly influenced my metfet desires/fantasies, and so this is a subject that comes up both in fantasy and reality for me.

But, on "real" incontinence sites I was usually trying to help or asking for help, and there seem to be more ABDL users than valid patients. They are like mosquitos. You swat one and two more come up.

It is a problem because you have people who are very upset with a new condition and trying to deal with the shame of dealing with "diapers" and they pour out their heart looking for help, and what they get is some 23 year old kid writing back that he wants to diaper and spank them. This is not helpful, reinforces their terror and shame and chases them off. It's worse than not helpful, it's hurtful and just plain mean.

I've seen others make this same complaint on those sites...I don't know what fraction of the AB/DL crowd acts like that, say it's 3% but it is a VERY VOCAL 3% (I suspect more like 10-20%, but I am trying to be nice). It will easily outnumber valid incontinence sufferers on many sites. I know on one site where I later chatted with the admin, he found many users had multiple logins; they would log in as a 18 year old girl scared in college with a medical problem, then ten minutes later the same IP and browser would be a 14 year old boy wetting the bed and afraid to tell mom. Then another login from the same computer with another story.

I gave up on those sites as it was just too painful to watch. One site got so sick of it that it descended into a witch hunt for AB/DL users, with people accusing each other of being a fraud.

One user kept working the incontinent people there, trying to trick them into giving up their email addresses so they could help him in private--he would claim to be too ashamed to talk in the open, or that he was using the dorm room PC and wants to email so it is more private, etc--and he would then inundate his victims with photos of him in diapers, every day they would get more photos of a fat 40y/o guy in diapers in their mailbox.

That small percentage seems to have little else to do, and they really damage it for the rest--be that 80% or 97%--of the AB/DL crowd who are decent.

Interesting read. Make more sense now on what's going on. After 18 years old you should start to realize that everyone's still a human, they won't always be in fantasy land and have real lives to run. Only a little at a time is best. A few hours for spanknig here or there, then back to life, then a few hours again on some kinky things to keep it balanced.

Pretty fail people that that stuff.As if most of society not seeing it as nothing more than absorbent underware isn't bad enough we got internal drama too.

Too true, I am just curious how strongly someone may have felt to 'come out fighting' and if so, by what kind of an argument