Diaper change in public

I havn't crossed this bridge yet, but I know I'm going to need to do it soon enough. I'm so clumsy too. God only knows what will happen. As mentioned before, my biggest concern is a clean restroom.

I am 19 and been in diapers all my life. My mom always diapered me. She said if I could control my wetting she would. So I was checked and change at her convenience. I just started living on my own. Since my mom has changed me in just about every place imaginable, I do not find public changing a problem. I am beyond embarrassment. So public restrooms, the car, the beach, picnic table in the park; it's all good.

I have used toilet stalls many times to change my diaper, and while I realize that means a public washroom, I don't really think that is "in public" any more than using a stall to have a pee is "public urination" (illegal, of course). I feel that once you are in that stall, you are essentially in private.

Now, It is true that people who look will see your feet and know that you are not using a toilet. They will also hear sounds that are clearly not usual as well. But if they choose to look, and it bothers them, that is their problem. One guy was actually watching me through the crack between the stall door and the frame! That's what was illegal, not me changing my diaper!

If I have a accident my wife changes me in the car. It is quickly done.

Most of the times that I need a nappy change in public are during long drives. I've changed my nappy in the back of the car, on a blanket beside the car, on picnic tables, on a bench in the men's toilets and in toilet stalls. But the safest place I've found is the disabled toilet attached to the facilities at road-side rest stops. These are often separate to the main toilets and so it's more discrete, private, and almost always, cleaner. There's plenty of room to spread out a changing mat and complete a change.

I wear 24/7 and only full adult briefs with tapes. I typically change 2 times during the day. I go into a starbucks or a privatish bathroom stall. I use seni quatro to keep silent. I remove the old brief and fold it in itself really tight to contain odor and bag it putting wipes and gloves inside. I clean up standing quickly and put on an already unfolded seni quatro and put it on tight standing. I always use a singlet or onesie to hold the brief up and to hide it also as well as for exercise. I use plastic pants on top - clear and that goes with the singlet covering it under a shirt and jeans. I usually powder from the waist after. I don't use scented powder as it's a give away. When at home, I apply the adult briefs right after washing in the bathroom as otherwise I'll leak urine on the floor sometimes. I also keep them under my bed for night changes. Typically i sleep in the mess till morning. I always use singlet even sleeping and plastic pants.

I don't really feel like I have the time to worry about people noticing my going about my business. If I need to change in a public restroom, I just do it, no hiding it (though I am in a stall). I'm not shy about tearing the tapes off and then putting on a new diaper. While I am cleaning my skin and putting on the new diaper, I have the old one rolled up and set on the floor temporarily (unless there's a trash can in the stall). Once freshly diapered, I pick up the old one, walk out and drop it in the trash, then wash up and leave. I don't spend even a moment of that time worrying about other people's thoughts about it.

Having changed in public restrooms many times I don't pay attention to others. I do have a small diaper bag that is stocked with the necessary supplies. When changing my plastic pant is sometime visible below the stall walls.

I always use the disabled toilet. I once came out and a woman gave me a cold hard stare. Because I am a well built but obviously active middle aged man she was annoyed I was making her wait for the disabled loo. I just smiled at her and said I'm very sorry but I am incontinent and was changing my nappy. Well she just didn't know where to put her self. I loved it.

Disabled toilets are probably better and less exposed - there are so many invisible disabilities nowadys i dont think people care too much - i went with a friend into one where i helped him change his messy diaper and no one cared

I needed to change yesterday, And the usual places I change (public bathrooms) were closed. Ended up walking into a corn field a few rows in and changed between the rows of tall corn stalks. Found it to be very private. (BTW I didn't harm any of the crop and disposed of used diaper properly)

I try to use a handicap stall when possible for room. At work I keep my diaper bag in the locker by the bathrooms and change if I get to wet or have a bowel accident. I usually just toss it wrapped up in the trash can by the door.

If your diapered 24/7, your going have to learn how to change in public. At least some of the time people are going to know what your doing. You'll just have accept it and get used to it.

If your diapered 24/7, your going have to learn how to change in public. At least some of the time people are going to know what your doing. You'll just have accept it and get used to it.

It's why if your going to go diaper dependent and diaper 24/7. Your gona have to get use to changing your diaper in public and often times in places that are not convenient.

I learned how to change my diaper standing up in a public restroom very early on after I went back to wearing diapers full time. Thankfully I wear jumpers or sun dresses most of the time when out in public and that helps greatly with the ease of changing. I usually pin up the hem of my dress with an extra diaper pin so that both hands are free to undo pins, snaps, garter belt hooks or whatever as necessary. If I am wearing a half slip I will pull it down and off just to avoid any chance of it getting it soiled or wet. I also find snap-on waterproof panties are generally better because they too can be easily removed and I am not having to standing their with my panties around my ankles where someone might notice underneath the stall door. I usually seek out the handicap stall if it is available in the ladies room or I will try to pick a stall at one end or the other to maximize privacy. The handicap stalls usually have their own sink and that makes a difference for someone like me who also has bowel accidents and would like to wash up privately.

I can do a pretty decent job of putting on a fresh, pre-fold diaper just by pressing the backside of my diaper against the stall wall or door and pulling the front up through my legs. Adjusting the diaper pins for a snug fit is easy after that as is getting everything back in place. I empty my messy diaper in the toilet and/or roll it up and put it in a strong plastic bag and then in my diaper bag to take home and wash.

I have found leaning against a toilet stall or wall is the best way to diaper up while out the house

I have changed many times in bathroom stalls leaning against the wall. I try to use the handicap stall when possible.

I pick my bathrooms carefully using an app ,you can get it from play store or the coloplast website its called "Wheelmate" it uses your GPS anywhere in the world to show you were the bathroom is and what they have as far as accessibility, lifts changing stations , family style , as well as the maintenance and cleaning ,basicly everything you could want to know , it is user updatable , lets you make a favorites list as well as input and bathrooms in your area that it doesnt know about yet .

It's a lifesaver for diapered wheelchair users ,or anybody that has a need for that kind of information .

My order of preference is: my own place, a single-stall bathroom, the handicap stall in a larger bathroom, a regular stall in the bathroom. I aim for privacy when it is available, but being incontinent, sometimes a change is needed when it's inconvenient.

I've changed in the car a number of times when it was the most private place I could find. The back seat is very cramped, so most of the time I'll sit in the passenger seat with the seat reclined all the way if I can park somewhere away from other people. If I can't park away from other cars, I change in the back seat where the windows are tinted darker.

Recently, I saw a boy, probably 5 or 6, who was with family at an airport and apparently needed change of shorts. Wasn't wearing diaper, just normal shorts and underwear. They were at the curbside waiting for shuttle bus in front of airport terminal. The father took the boy behind a trash can, but didn't seem to realize they were very visible to those still inside the terminal.

It was pretty quick, father just pulled down shorts, underwear, and then wiped the boy dry with paper napkins.

At first, I felt sorry for the boy, being stripped naked below the waist, with at least dozens of people able to see him, and many more nearby.

One really good thing about the location of this was that they had luggage with clothes to change the boy into, readily at hand. The father didn't bother with underwear, just pulled on another pair of shorts.

After, the boy, he just went skipping off. Didn't seem upset in any way. Not sure he would have felt so carefree had he seen that all these people at the baggage claim area just inside could clearly see him being changed. His lack of that realization was probably better for him. I wonder if he could develop a fetish from the memory of that experience as he gets older, and maybe lets his imagination run a little?

I just go for it. I know I've been seen walking out of a stall with a rolled up disposable in my hand. I just walk it to the trash can and go to the sink to wash up. Sometimes you draw more attention to yourself by trying to not draw attention to yourself. Even in the mist crowded service plazas on road trips, maybe one or two people might look at what's in your hand as you walk away from the stall. If discretion is really important, use cloth backed diapers so they're less noisy and easier to adjust. Keep non see through disposal bags handy and use a nondescript book bag for supplies and just leave the stall wearing your bag. Most folks aren't concerned with people's bathroom habits.

If your wear a diaper 24/7 you will have to learn how to change them while out in public. I usually look for a stall or even a handicap stall and lean up against the wall and just do it. Pulling down my noisy plastic panties can be frustrating but it just has to be done, period!!!

At most public places ,I will go "commando" if need be and take the bathroom over ,I can't use a stall ,even a handicap stall doesn't have room for a power chair and aide,you do what you gotta do , before the age of cameras everywhere I was fond of back hallways at malls if it didnt have a suitable place .

I seldom changed my diapers in public until I met my wife 11 years ago. I've never worn anything other than pinned on cloth diapers and rubber pants and trying to change myself in a public restroom seemed like such a hassle that I seldom tried. I wear diapers for fun and not for medical need so I did have flexibility over when I needed to change. But I liked hiking, camping and other outdoor activities so I did change my diapers occasionally in public but in spots where is was unlikely anyone would see me. I did try changing in restrooms a few times, always in a restroom that had larger stalls where I could drop my rubber pants down to my ankles, unpin my diapers, wipe myself, and then pin a set of diaper on. In those days I didn't have prefolds so I had to use several flat cloth diapers folded together. I was never able to get it right and as soon as I got home I'd change myself on my bed.

Since meeting my wife however I wear diapers full time, we always take my diaper bag and she has changed me many times in public restrooms. I'm still a cloth diaper lover, now use prefolds and cloth inserts under my rubber pants. I often wear pink diapers or sometimes diapers with childish patterns and rubber pants that match. My wife knows how much I like her to change me, I usually get aroused when she does, and being changed in public is all the more exciting for us, knowing there is a risk that someone might see me being changed or that my wife will ask a saleswoman or our waitress if they have a restroom where she could change my diapers. Over the years we know the restrooms are that are private enough, most are family style, have a counter large enough for me to lay on and the door can be locked or safeguarded from someone coming in unnoticed. But a few times, we were discovered while my wife was in the process of unpinning my diapers or wiping me. My wife had to ask the women to give us a few minutes to finish diapering me.

Back in the day when I thought everyone in the World knew I was wearing diapers. I became very proficient at the bathroom stall diaper change. Now I know they don't really give a crap and never did notice my diapers I don't give a crap. As the diaper world turns.👀

I try to plan my day without having to change at public places or even at someone's home. It is a challenge to change without making a bunch of crinkly noise from the diaper and wet wipes package. You know the noise that everyone knows that sound isn't normal.

That's the biggest reason I use premium disposable diapers and booster pads. As wearing 24/7 I do everything possible not to have to change outside of being home.

The challenge for me is getting a good fit doing the stand up way and leaning on the wall. It's embarrassing carrying your diaper bag in a restroom. Making all plastic crinkle noise knowing that it can be heard, then carrying out the used diaper out to dispose it that everyone can see.

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If there clean then yes, otherwise I tend to avoid public toilets whenever possible due to the unhygienic condition, however public wc's are better than nothing, when you need a change.

I wish more councils in the UK would provide adult changing tables and dedicated facilities for disabled people as usually when I am trying to change myself I have to go into a cubicle and although I like the privacy of a locked door I find it difficult because of the fact that other people need them too.

If I had a caregiver that would be different but as I don't I have to change my diapers/nappies by myself, although I don't need to be in diapers 24/7 as of yet although its only a matter of time untill I get to that point in my life as I have disabilitys.

I've gotten good at it.

Either wear double pull-ups so I can rip one off or lean against a wall for diapers with tapes. If there is a disabled stall my wife comes in and helps me out.

In a public bathroom I just roll up my wet diaper and walk out and dump in the trash. No one notices even if busy (and I'd they do, no one is looking in the garbage after anyways).