I prefer no hair at all on both female and male genitals. There is nothing sexier than a completely smooth woman with protruding inner lips. And I mean as smooth as possible, no shadow, no stubble and no bumps or razor burn, the kind of look that probably only comes with waxing or laser. I also like the same look on men.The feel of 2 smooth people grinding their pelvises together is highly erotic.The same goes for oral sex, going down on smooth genitals instead of hairy ones is also much more erotic .Given a choice, I would prefer smooth guys as opposed to bears.
As far as legs are concerned, a little fine, light hair on a woman's thighs is sexy to me.
But hairy arm pits also have a place in my little world of eroticism. Not in a strapless dress while out on the town but definitely in the right setting, like while camping at a nudist resort or on a beach for example. My thing for hairy pits comes from a family trip to Europe in '59. We stayed at a few sea side hotels and usually hit the beaches. As a horny kid of 15, the shocking sight of young girls, some topless, exposing their hairy arm pits as they raised their arms to go off the diving boards really turned me on. I remember standing in chest high water watching them as I stroked my cock. That image has been locked in my head for decades.
My wife also prefers a smoother look and is turned off by hairy backs on men. Lucky us, we both have always had very little body hair and I have always been able to get away with shaving my face every other day. In addition, as we get older we have less and less body hair. The hair on my chest, which used to be fairly thick is now very thin and short except for the patch between my nipples. My wife has not needed to shave her legs or arm pits for several years. I still enjoy making sure her pubic grooming is well cared for but even that has become sparse. The hair on our heads continues to grow the same as it always has.
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