Low sex drive- wants to say yes to sex but can't "why"

My sex drive has decreeased over the last few months. I want to say yes and have sex with my partner but have hard time getting aroused. So it is easier to say No. Any suggestions??

Aside from the suggestion Mashie and I made earlier in this thread, I would get some lube, grease myself up and just do it.

You're not unable, you are unaroused. Just doing it might get you aroused.

Think positively.

When I have zero sex drive I’ll often offer to give my husband a helping hand, to at least be present in the moment with him. Sometimes, just seeing and hearing him enjoying himself will spark up some interest on my part and we both end up satisfied. Other times I just enjoy making him feel good and then I go to sleep. Knowing the role hormones play in feeling bonded, I like that when he comes, it’s with me, even if it’s not in me, because it’s keeping us close.